I once heard a girl complain: "I lost the boy who spoiled me all the time!" "I wanted to comfort her and tell her that this is a scumbag who is not worth remembering. However, when the reason was **, it was found that the girl had an overtemper and scared the boy away. When I was young, there was always a misunderstanding that the other party should be unconditionally good to herself, and she should unconditionally tolerate her eldest lady's temper and exaggerated shortcomings.
Some girls are overly emotional and spend the whole day in anger when something goes wrong. They think that the other party will always be tolerant and understanding, but they ignore that every unreasonable is a drain on feelings. After a long time, the boy was heartbroken and disappointed, and finally chose to let go. At this time, the girl began to realize the problem, and when she looked back, the person was already far away.
And there are some girls who sprinkle their resentment on their boyfriends when their lives are not going well and their work is not satisfactory. They are picky about each other's abilities, finances, housekeeping skills, everything. However, they did not give each other a chance to improve, but just blindly belittled. Such behavior not only crushes the other party's self-esteem, but also weakens his self-motivation. I wanted to get better, but it got worse and worse, is that what you want to see?
On the other hand, some girls are always self-centered in their relationships. Whether it's eating, traveling or shopping, boys must follow her arrangement. Once the other party does not comply, they will get angry and ignore the person. However, they don't realize how tired each other is from such behavior. Thinking about each other in a relationship is far more stable than blindly giving in. If there is a difference of opinion, we can accommodate each other, wouldn't it be better to have such a tacit understanding? Girls who are not good at falling in love are used to being self-centered, can such a person be in love for a long time?
Finally, some girls are too obsessed with their interests and overly dependent on their boyfriends' financial support. Is it disappointing to be overly financially dependent on the other person and not considering what the other person can afford? Girls who are not in love always expect the other party to give unconditionally and take it as a favor. They are immersed in the fantasy of being pampered, but they forget that making good money is a task that everyone needs to complete, and not losing this ability because someone appears.
The girls in these stories may have lost their way in the world of emotions. Maybe we can think about whether we have similar problems in love. Have you ever hurt your feelings for the sake of a momentary emotion, have you become too critical in a quarrel, have you become too self-centered in a relationship, have you been overly dependent on the other person in love? Perhaps, these reflections can make us more rational towards love and be a person who knows how to compromise, understand and be independent.
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