I found that girls who are in love have one thing in common, that is, they always put themselves first, instead of choosing to sacrifice themselves and humbly please each other in order to prove that they love him.
In fact, as long as you have high self-love + high self-confidence + high self-esteem, you have mastered the basic love thinking of love masters.
Girls who are not good at falling in love will put themselves in a passive position, and the enthusiasm shown by the man will quickly go up, and the boy will begin to doubt himself when he is a little cold, whether he has done something wrong, and then the next time they meet, they will try to cater to each other, looking forward to redeeming each other's enthusiasm.
And girls who are very good at falling in love put themselves first in their hearts. They understand that only when they truly love themselves can they attract people who are truly worthy of love.
Because a girl who knows how to love herself will remain independent and autonomous, they will not easily rely on others, but achieve their dreams and goals through their own efforts. They know that only they are the most reliable, and only they can give themselves a real sense of security.
And they pay attention to their inner needs, listen to their voices, understand their preferences and interests, and meet their needs as best they can. They don't give up their principles and values in order to cater to others, and they don't make choices that go against their hearts in order to please others.
More importantly, a girl who knows how to love herself will maintain a positive attitude. They will face life's challenges and difficulties with optimism and confidence, and draw strength and courage from them. They don't give up easily, they don't compromise easily, but solve problems through their own efforts and wisdom.
Girls who are in a good relationship, no matter what happens to each other, will stabilize themselves, take care of themselves, and do not depend on a relationship. Talking about good or bad is a small experience in life, and you may be smiling and telling others about your past experience in the future.