My child s grades in elementary and junior high school are good, but it s useless to make up for the

Mondo Education Updated on 2024-03-02

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A friend called **, a high school teacher who has been teaching for 33 years, and told me very distressedly that his child was always at the top of the class in elementary and junior high school, but after being admitted to high school, his grades declined, and he was always below average in the class, and it was useless to find several teachers to make up for the class, what should I do?

The question raised by my friend is actually somewhat universal.

That is,There are many children who have very good grades in elementary and junior high school, but their grades have declined in high school, and it is very difficult to improve.

Why do some children drop in high school?

First, the child's grades have declined, and some of them are actually just the stage of high school and the child's ranking has changed.

For example, when a child was studying in a coal mine's primary school or junior high school, his grades may have been among the top and he had not been in the top five, but when he was admitted to high school, in the face of more than 1,000 high school students gathered in the county, his ranking in the class and grade level would become very inconspicuous, and he might be in the middle and lower reaches of the class.

It's not that the child's grades have declined, but that after being admitted to high school, he has faced more and stronger opponents.

Second, after some children are admitted to high school, their grades have indeed declined.

In elementary school and junior high school, the content of each subject is relatively simple and difficult, so some students have good grades and are successfully admitted to high school.

Entering high school, the threshold for connecting middle and high school courses is high, and the content of high school courses is difficult, so some students have their grades declined after entering high school.

The reason for the decline in grades is that some of them did not keep up with the more intense learning rhythm of high school in time when they entered high school, and they were unknowingly left behind; Some of them are intellectually weak, and they feel very difficult in the face of the sudden increase in the difficulty of high school courses, and their grades begin to decline.

I once met a girl who was the first in the county when she was promoted at the beginning of the year, but her grades fell after high school and she never caught up.

So, what should you do if your child's grades drop when they enter high school?

I think,It is necessary to understand the reasons for the decline in children's grades and prescribe the right medicine.

Parents should communicate with their child's homeroom teacher and classroom teacher to find out the reason for the decline in their child's grades, and then solve the problem in a targeted manner.

If the child's grades have not actually declined, just because there are more and stronger opponents in high school, then it is necessary to explain this truth to the child, so that the child understands the new and severe competitive environment he is in, stabilizes his mentality, redoubles his efforts, and strives for the top.

If the child's grades are really declining, the reason is that the child is not suitable for the learning rhythm of high school for a while, then, parents should work with the class teacher and classroom teacher to give the child the necessary guidance, and point out a number of specific practices to the child, so that the child can adapt to the new learning life as soon as possible and catch up.

If the child's grades are really declining because the child's intelligence is slightly weaker, then lower the expectations of the child and do not blindly put pressure on the child. When children choose subjects, they should choose carefully and strive to have a competitive advantage after choosing subjects.

If the child has obvious lame lessons, then parents and teachers should fully communicate and make up lessons for the child's lame lessons.

First understand the actual situation of the child, and then prescribe the right medicine, which should have a good effect.

Parents should not blindly pressure, blame or even sneer at their children's grades after discovering that their children's grades are unstable and declining, which will only make their children more confused, anxious and even opposed.

Friends, can my views on this issue be of some help to you?

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The author is a senior Chinese teacher, a writer, and engaged in literary creationIn the past few years, he has published literary worksFor the rest of the articles, he is the author of two small ** and poetry collections.

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