When it comes to class reunions, I believe there are many friends who are very familiar with them. The reason for this is that class reunions are a topic that never goes out of style and cannot be avoided. Although there are many reasons for this, the primary reason is to blame for China's nine-year compulsory education system.
Thanks to the establishment and improvement of the nine-year compulsory education system, many people in our country have received systematic education to a greater or lesser extent. Because of this, I got to know a large number of classmates. As the years go by, these people are getting older and older.
However, I have a very deep memory of some of my classmates. The reason is that many people are simple and beautiful in their youth. Relatedly, many people do not have any entanglements of interest when they interact with their classmates.
And this situation has changed very significantly after entering the society. That is, almost all of the network resources are related to interests. If there is no entanglement of the chain of interests, then the friendly exchanges between people will not develop to such a profound and simple level.
So although class reunions may seem like a very boring event, they are actually mixed with people's natural yearning for beautiful things. However, each individual's perception is different. Just because you see a class reunion this way doesn't mean everyone else does.
In other words, having friends at class reunions is a way to reminisce about the good old days and to relive simple and sincere human interactions. However, some friends will think that attending class reunions is a great opportunity to show off their limelight, and then they will get more and more stinky.
As mentioned earlier, class reunions are an opportunity for many people to reminisce about the good old days. However, there are many friends who don't think so, especially some friends who are more socially contaminated. They will feel that class reunions are all about showing off.
To put it more bluntly, a class reunion is when everyone gets together and sees who gets the best mix. Then everyone has to go together to compliment and cater to him. And by the way, I would like to make an irritation of the top students who used to study hard in the class but did not succeed in the secular sense.
In other words, in the eyes of this part of the people, the class reunion is the best stage to ridicule the top students. However, it also reflects the multiple aspects of the class reunion itself. For some people who want psychological comfort, class reunions are a holy place.
But for other friends who are holding back their energy, the class reunion is the best time to prove that they have a good future. In this way, some contradictions, conflicts, and misunderstandings will inevitably arise between the two groups of people because they have different minds.
And then the class reunion inadvertently changed. Over time, the taste of class reunions will change indescribably. Then everyone knows that many people will not be keen to go to class reunions anymore. At most, it is to send WeChat.
Why used to be very enthusiastic about attending class reunions, but now people rarely attend class reunions?One of the reasons for this is that the atmosphere of class reunions is changing. In the old class reunions, people were reminiscing about all kinds of things.
But in today's gatherings, people tend to compare and contrast as if they were nothing. Over time, showing off at class reunions seems to have become a must-have classic. But not everyone can achieve worldly success.
The meaning of this sentence is that there may be people who are keen to become a big boss with a lot of money and then succeed in becoming a big boss;However, there are also those who are not keen on material possessions. As a result, the two are not actually on the same level or plane.
There is no comparison at all. However, the trend of looking at money is very popular in the current era. Naturally, the form of class reunion will also be affected to a certain extent. So what we can see is that there will always be people who will lead the conversation to who has money.
If there are people who are obsessed with being free in the spiritual world and are in a relatively barren state in the material world, it is undoubtedly very disadvantageous. This group of people can easily become the target of ridicule and insult by others. Over time, it turns sour.
The last reason is that the identity and relationship of classmates are very random. The meaning of this sentence is that it can be said that there is a great deal of luck in the fact that someone else can become your classmate. Because these classmates are not exactly like-minded people with you.
There are even some classmates who you hate very much. So, from this point of view, if you want to go to a class reunion, you are actually more likely to meet someone you used to hate. As a result, there is even more aversion to class reunions.
After all, no one wants to see someone they hate twice. The second is that the randomness of classmates will bring great uncertainty to the establishment and maintenance of relationships. In other words, an iron buddy in school may not be a good buddy after a period of time.
Because people change. Everyone's interpersonal relationships also change to varying degrees over time. No one can be sure if the former iron buddy is still the same iron buddy. If not, then this class reunion is actually better than not going.
If you don't go, you may leave a good memory in your heart forever. Because if you don't attend a class reunion, you won't know that your relationships have changed. This can actually be described as a white lie to a certain extent.
It's just that the object of deception is only himself. Therefore, under the influence of these three reasons, class reunions are actually becoming more and more formalistic and superficial, and the eternal years can only be hidden in people's hearts and can no longer be taken out.