Love can really blind us sometimes.
When we see other people fall in love, we seem to see clearly what is wrong with them. But when you really fall in love, it's like suddenly falling into a thick fog. Sometimes we take the wrong path and make the wrong decision
A truly successful relationship should be one that supports each other. If you genuinely love someone and they don't reciprocate your love, you may be at risk of getting hurt.
To love someone, you can't help but make efforts to pursue it, and you can't fail to respect your own dignity.
When you find that your man is cold or indifferent to you, don't get angry and go to him, lest they disrespect you
1. He has a very cold attitude towards you.
When we like someone, we naturally take the initiative to pursue him, show favor to him, and even pay attention to every detail of his life every day.
However, even after you have done the above things on your own initiative, the man is still cold to you and most of the time ignores you, sometimes ignores the messages you send him, and sometimes ignores you, and if so, that's the truth. Does this mean that he doesn't really love you?
Women should not be fooled by the fierce development of domestic TV dramas, thinking that their passion can melt the rock-solid "iceberg". No one is more important in this world than you. No one deserves to give up your principles and dignity as a human being.
Before we can love others, we must first cherish and cherish ourselves. If you don't love yourself, you will inevitably be despised and ignored by others.
Therefore, if you have already told him how you feel and he is still acting cold and meaningless towards you, then it is better to walk away and let him figure it out on his own. If you don't, he will only think that you are easily bullied and thus ignore you even more.
2. There seem to be other "friends of the opposite sex" around him.
In the process of falling in love with someone, we are often unconsciously caught off guard. But blindness is not the same as blind obedience, and we still have to stick to our own principles on issues such as our own bottom line.
When she stumbles upon a girl (or boy) who seems to have a good friend, the two often go on trips together and even share feelings one night. And the ** you are close to him in his circle of friends....Then you have to understand that he doesn't think of you as a special person at all in his heart.
The reason he's not afraid to reveal this to you, and is quite frank with you, is because he doesn't actually care if you're disappointed in it. If he really loves you, he will never show you that. Because he will worry that you will be angry, that you will leave him, and that he will lose you because of it. Once you know this, you should think twice about it and avoid throwing yourself into his arms again, even if you still have deep feelings for him. Cherish your own dignity and bottom line, only in this way can you win the respect and recognition of others.
3.He doesn't do anything for you, but he always relies on you to pay him.
A man who cares about you will definitely be nice to you and give you time, energy, and money, but not necessarily. He goes to make sacrifices, and I hope you can do it for him. You have to understand that a man who only knows how to take and doesn't know how to give doesn't really value you that much. The person he loves most in his heart is himself. For example, in a long-distance relationship, some men may ask you to quit your current job, give up your original relationship, and accompany you to a completely unfamiliar place to meet his needs. At this time, if he forces you to say, "If you don't agree, then you don't love me enough", ask yourself, is this person really worth giving up so much for you? Do I need to do this? 。
People can't live in the world of dreams, they have to face reality. So even if he hasn't done anything for you, don't make stupid sacrifices for him. If your contribution is not equal, he may not respect your sacrifice and think that you are willing to pay for him. We are warriors of love, and everything we do only makes sense after meeting someone who truly loves you. If you feel that the other person doesn't value you, doesn't understand you, or isn't working hard for your future, give up as soon as possible. In order to find him again. Your dignity is precious, so you can't make him feel like you're cheap and easy to bully.