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In Hangzhou, a seemingly ordinary blind date event sparked heated discussions because of a detailed document of "family daily expenses". Xiao Wang, a 35-year-old executive at a state-owned enterprise, received this document from the woman on the night of the blind date, which listed various expenses from basic living expenses to ceremonial events, totaling 9,900 yuan per month. This list not only shocked Xiao Wang, but also made him doubt his annual salary of 100,000.
Xiao Wang, more than 18 meters, with two properties, it is reasonable to say that the conditions are superior, but it has suffered repeated setbacks in the blind date market. The object of this blind date, a girl of the same age, similar to the nature of work and income status, seems to have higher expectations for Xiao Wang's economic conditions. The girl explained in the document that the 9,900 yuan is only the average monthly fixed expenses of the two people's lives, and does not include possible non-fixed expenses in the future, such as the illness of both parents and the education of children.
The girl's "economic planning" made Xiao Wang feel a lot of pressure. Although he has a stable job and a real estate, he can't help but wonder if he can really afford it in the face of such living expenses. The girl encouraged Xiao Wang to make an annual salary of 200,000 yuan as his goal, but Xiao Wang felt that such a life was too tiring and very different from his original intention of finding love. In the end, the two ended the blind date amicably.
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This incident has sparked a wide discussion on the Internet. Some people think that the woman is too realistic and bases the marriage on the economic basis and ignores the importance of the relationship. Some netizens also expressed their understanding, believing that married life does need economic security, and the woman's approach is just a plan and expectation for her future life.
Behind this blind date, we see the realistic pressure of contemporary young people in the marriage market. The economic foundation is important, but how to find a balance between economy and emotion may be a question that everyone needs to think about. For Xiao Wang, this blind date experience may give him a deeper understanding of the criteria for choosing a mate in the future. For the majority of netizens, this is not only a story about blind dates, but also a microcosm of the collision between modern love and economic reality.