My mood is like this rainy weather, dull and depressing. Since I retired, I have always thought that my life would be comfortable, without the stress and worries of work, but the reality is not as good as I imagined. Whenever I only had that meager pension in my hand, my heart sank to the bottom. The living allowance of 3,000 yuan a month, although my daughter gave it to me voluntarily, I always felt a little lost and guilty in my heart.
Auntie, don't think about being alone anymore, come, come to my house and have a cup of hot tea. "My neighbor Xiao Li saw my sad face standing on a park bench and took the initiative to comfort me.
Xiao Li, I'm sorry, I don't want to trouble you at all. I said with a trembling voice, a little embarrassed.
* Words, Auntie, one more person to share some of the troubles in life can be regarded as giving each other some comfort. Xiao Li took my hand and smiled kindly.
After hearing this, I couldn't help but cry in bursts. Is there really such a kind-hearted person in this world? I nodded silently and followed Xiao Li to her home. When I came to her house, the whole room was spacious and tidy, and with the faint fragrance of tea, my mood was gradually eased.
Xiao Li handed me a cup of hot tea, lowered his eyes, and said in a slightly heavy tone, "Auntie, I know you've been in a bad mood, if it's convenient, can you tell me about your troubles?" Maybe something would feel better to say it. ”
Yes, I always thought I would have a full, happy retirement, but it wasn't. Although my family seems to be harmonious, in fact, I am deeply troubled by the pressures of life. The monthly pension is only 5,000 yuan, and although my daughter gives me 3,000 yuan a month for living expenses, this is far from enough. I'm always borrowing money to get by. I said slowly.
After hearing this, Xiao Li held my hand tightly, and his face was full of resentment, "Auntie, I can understand your feelings." After all, you are an old man who is over half a hundred years old. It's not easy for you to work hard for most of your life, but you have worked so hard after retirement. ”
Yes, I used to fantasize about being able to rest well after retirement and enjoy spending time with my family. But I didn't expect the reality to be so cruel. I sighed.
Auntie, otherwise, you can try to talk to your daughter and ask her to give you more living expenses. After all, you raised her to grow up, and it's time for her to honor you. Xiao Li kindly suggested.
I pondered for a moment and said, "Well, I can only try." I also hope that my daughter can understand my struggle. ”
I decided, and the next day I went to my daughter. She is a gentle and virtuous girl, and I hope she can understand her mother's distress.
Early the next morning, I went to my daughter's house. When my daughter saw me, her eyes flashed with worry: "Mom, why did you come early in the morning?" Can I help you? There was a hint of tiredness in her voice, and it seemed that she had been quite busy lately.
I sat down and said, "Daughter, I have something to discuss with you, and I may not have mentioned it to you. ”
My daughter listened quietly and motioned for me to continue.
You know, since I retired, my living income is not very abundant, although you give me 3,000 yuan a month, but after all, my expenses are still a little difficult, I always have to borrow money to live. "My speech became slower and my heart became heavier.
The daughter let out a sigh: "Mom, I know your situation is not easy, but don't worry, I will do my best to support you." ”
A warmth welled up in my heart. I said with emotion: "Daughter, it's not that I'm reluctant to spend this money, but I hope that we can be honest with each other, and there will be no pimples between mother and daughter, and we can communicate sincerely." ”
My daughter patted my hand gently: "Mom, please believe me, I can still get this money." However, I am actually in a state of great pressure at work, and the monthly living allowance I give you is already my limit. ”
I know that my daughter also has her own struggles, and her work pressure is no less than mine. I comforted, "Daughter, I understand your difficulties, our family has been relying on your hard work for so many years. As long as you can give me understanding and support, I am very satisfied. ”
The daughter lowered her head, thought for a while, and then said, "Mom, I will support you as much as I can." But I also feel like we need to find a way to solve this problem, don't we? Let's talk about it together and see if there's another way. ”
I couldn't help but cry again, and I was extremely touched by my daughter's kindness and thoughtfulness. I nodded firmly: "Yes, daughter, we will definitely be able to get through this together and find a solution." ”
At this time, the gloom in my heart gradually dissipated, and was replaced by a glimmer of hope. The sincere communication between mother and daughter made my mood lighter. Perhaps, this is just the beginning, but I believe that as long as we work together, all difficulties can be solved.
The daughter listened, thought for a moment and said, "Mom, maybe we can find another way to solve the economic problem." For example, I have a friend who owns a small nursing home, and if you want, maybe you can go there and help out and get paid at the same time. ”
It sounded like a good suggestion to me. "Well, that seems to work. I can check it out and meet some new people, but I need to tell you first, I don't expect to make this my main income**, I just want to reduce your burden and stress. ”
The daughter smiled and nodded: "Mom, I understand your thoughts. As long as you are willing to try, I will fully support you. And, I think it's also a great opportunity for you to find some new fun and meaning beyond just being financially supportive. ”
I felt a lot more relaxed after listening to my daughter's explanation, and sighed, "Thank you so much, daughter." You've always been so understanding, and I'm so glad I have a daughter like you. ”
My daughter looked at me with a smile on her face: "Mom, you're welcome. I am your daughter, and I will always be by your side and not let you suffer a little grievance. ”
We talked for a long time, and we discussed a lot about my search for other financial **. During the whole process, I felt that my mood gradually calmed down, and it seemed that my life was injected with new hope and motivation.
After returning home, I finally sat down and called Xiao Li: Xiao Li, I found a solution to the problem, and my daughter is also very supportive. Thank you for your enlightenment and encouragement yesterday. ”
Xiao Li's enthusiastic voice came: "You're welcome, Auntie, I'm very happy for you." Life will never be smooth sailing, but as long as we are willing to work hard, there will always be sunshine. ”
I took a deep breath and felt the warmth around me. "Yes, as long as we are willing to work hard, there will always be sunshine. ”
After saying this, I put down **, and my heart was full of confidence and expectations for the future. Perhaps, the experience of life will not always be satisfactory, but as long as we persevere and face it bravely, we can always find a new way out. This experience has also become a closer bond between me and my daughter, and we will support each other to face life's challenges together. Because, the mother-daughter relationship is deep, as long as the years.
I walked out of my sunny home with courage and hope. The ordeal during this time did not break me, on the contrary, it slowly sharpened my will and courage. I decided to go to my daughter and propose a job at that nursing home.
When I came to my daughter's office, she was busy reading the papers, and when she saw me walk in, she put down what she was doing and greeted me cordially: "Mom, what's the matter?" ”
I said firmly: "Daughter, I want to implement the work proposal of that nursing home, and I am willing to go there to help and make sure that this does not affect the relationship between me and you." ”
The daughter was stunned for a moment, and then showed an unexpected smile: "Mom, are you really willing to try such a job?" Don't you think it's going to be hard? ”
I nodded firmly: "Yes, I do." This is not just to ease our economic pressure, but also to find some new vitality and meaning. I want to be more fulfilled. ”
The daughter smiled: "Mom, I'm glad you can have such an idea. Actually, I've always been worried that you will feel lonely at home alone, or lose some of the joy of life, and now you can meet some new friends and experience a different life when you go there. ”
I felt a surge of emotion in my heart: "Yes, daughter, I also hope to find some new fun and meaning in life." And, I'm sure I will also feel a sense of being needed and cared for there. ”
My daughter gently held my hand: "Mom, don't worry, I will support your decision, and I will visit you often." I believe that this will be a new beginning and a different life experience for you. ”
In that moment, I felt a sense of ease and confidence that I had never felt before. I know that no matter what challenges lie ahead, I will be able to face them bravely. Because I have a daughter who understands and supports me, and those new life experiences and discoveries that are coming. I felt hopeful, and my heart was filled with courage and determination. In the face of this new starting point, I want to move forward bravely.
Mom, don't worry, I will support your decision, and I will visit you often. I believe that this will be a new beginning and a different life experience for you. ”
I was very encouraged by my daughter's words. I smiled and nodded: "Thank you for your support and understanding. I will also do my best to adapt and enjoy this new job. ”
Later, I went to that small nursing home, which is not so prosperous, but has a strong human touch. There, I slowly integrated into the big family, met a group of enthusiastic old people, and made some amiable colleagues. I've enjoyed a different life here.
My relationship with my daughter has also become closer. My daughter often visits me in the nursing home, bringing some homemade snacks and small gifts, and every time I see her, I feel extremely happy and satisfied.
Here, I found my place, I was no longer a financial burden, but I felt valued and needed. While accompanying the lonely elderly, I found a new meaning and goal in my life.
Gradually, my face was no longer gloomy, but full of smiles. I've learned to cherish each day and enjoy those unpretentious pleasures. I no longer worry about the stress of life, but feel happy and satisfied. I understand that even if you are over the age of six, you can still live a wonderful life that is not inferior to that of young people.
In this small nursing home, I not only found a financial solution, but more importantly, I found new motivation and hope in life. Every day, I feel that my life becomes more fulfilling and meaningful. This is a treasure and a precious memory for my life. Since then, I have learned to be grateful for life, and I have become calm and brave in the face of all difficulties. Because, no matter how strong the wind and rain are, as long as we have a grateful heart, even a ray of sunshine can warm our hearts.
My mother was determined to work in her new nursing home, and I was very happy for her. But at the same time, I also realized that she was so stubborn and stoic, showing no signs of bowing to life. My mother gave me a sense of encouragement that I had never felt before, and I saw the courage that should not be backed down regardless of my age.
Seeing my mother rediscover her own worth and motivation in life, my heart became more determined, and I decided to face all the unsatisfactory work and life positively, and meet the challenges of life without flinching.
Even though I'm busy, I try to find time to visit my mother at her little nursing home. Our relationship has become closer, and every time I see her smiling and laughing, I feel incredibly gratified.
Once, I rushed to the nursing home and saw my mother busily watering the flowers and plants in the yard. I walked over and asked softly, "Mom, are you satisfied now?" ”
The mother stopped what she was doing, turned her head, and smiled: "Yes, daughter, I feel very fulfilled and happy now. There are so many good things in life waiting to be discovered, and I really feel hopeful about life now. ”
I looked at this mother, who had taken on so much of the pressure of life, and I felt that I was also infected by a kind of power. "Mom, I can feel the change in you. I am inspired by your choices, persistence and optimism. ”
The mother shook her head slightly: "Daughter, this is all because of your understanding and support, and this is also a gift that life has given me." Not only was I supported and encouraged, but I also learned to be grateful and cherish each day. ”
My mother and I were immersed in the warm atmosphere. Our relationship became more intimate, and the experience became a treasure and a precious memory in my life. Here, we support each other, face the challenges of life together, and become the most solid support in each other's lives.