My mother-in-law is 64 years old this year, and she is a gentle and kind person. She came to our house with nearly 33,000 yuan in savings, stayed for 48 days and was kicked out of the house. This is a poignant story of three things that happened that changed the fate of everyone.
It all started with my husband's wedding. On that day, my mother-in-law prepared a table of sumptuous dishes for our wedding, and the exquisite handmade decoration was eye-catching. She was smiling and looked much younger than her age. She said, "I made it with my own hands, and I hope you can be happy." "I was really touched and almost burst into tears. However, what I didn't expect was that after the wedding, she took out a passbook of 32,980 yuan, saying that she wanted to live in our house and take care of us.
Three days later, my mom came to visit us at our house. When my mother-in-law saw my mother, she immediately stepped forward to say hello. My mom also responded to her enthusiastically, asking her if she would like to sit down and rest first. I saw that my mother-in-law's face had faded a little, but she still hid it and accepted it with a smile. My mother, on the contrary, was very happy and asked her mother-in-law a lot of words of concern. However, my mother-in-law later told me privately that she felt that my mother was watching her very closely and cared about her all the time, which made her a little uncomfortable.
After that, I had some minor conflicts with my mother-in-law, she would find fault with my housework, saying that I was not good enough, and I couldn't stand it a little. Once, I had a fight with her because of a problem in the bathroom, and she was very aggrieved and said: I am doing this for your good. But I think she interfered too much, and I couldn't stand it. These things have been worrying since then.
Forty-eight days later, my husband came to the door and said, "Mom, I think it's better for you to leave, but you are wronged here." When the mother-in-law heard this, tears immediately fell. "I stayed for their good," she said, "and now I've been driven away." At this point, I stepped forward to reassure her, but she pushed me away.
I know, it's me who didn't do it well. The mother-in-law's voice trembled a little, "But I've always done it for your good." ”
My husband couldn't help but say, "Mom, you didn't do it for us at all, you said before you came that you wanted it to pay for your living expenses, but you didn't want it at all." I've always been good for you, but what about you? As soon as he finished speaking, I saw my mother-in-law's hands tremble. She was out of breath, but she kept coughing.
That night, my husband and I immediately took my mother-in-law to the hospital. The doctor said she had emphysema and needed to be hospitalized for observation. My husband and I stayed in front of her hospital bed, and my mother-in-law was in a coma for many days. We were all very worried, and the way she was dying was heartbreaking. At this time, I realized that my previous coldness and ruthlessness towards my mother-in-law were directly reflected in front of her. I regret it.
As a result, with the efforts of the doctors, the mother-in-law slowly regained consciousness. When she saw us, tears of excitement flowed from her eyes. She said to me, "I'm sorry, I came to your house because I was selfish, but I didn't expect you to be so cold. I still have a little savings, you can help me get it back, and I'll find another place to live." "My heart was pierced by my mother-in-law's words, and I cried.
I know that fate has already doomed the story of 33,000 yuan to a tragic end. And now, the mother-in-law finally realizes the mistake she has made. Maybe she really shouldn't have come to our house, maybe it's true that the way we treat her isn't warm enough. At this moment, my heart is like a knife, maybe this is the truth that we don't want to accept but can't do anything about it.
The title of the article is "Mother-in-law took 32,980 yuan to live in her daughter-in-law's house, but she was kicked out after 48 days because of 3 things, netizens: deserved it". The truth in this may not be something we can explain clearly in a few words, but I at least know that our family will also be greatly hurt by this. Looking at the emaciated and helpless mother-in-law on the bed, I really can't bear to think about the way she left alone.
Today, I have finally learned to be mature and sensible, and that is to treat the word "mother". Although life is full of difficulties, my mother-in-law is also a loving and righteous person, and her persistence and perseverance are also worthy of the respect of all of us. Maybe she also has a lot of bitterness and bitterness, but at least in the life we are about to enter, we can let go of hatred and give her some warm direction.
My mother-in-law's words made me feel distressed and powerless, and I took a few deep breaths and looked up at my husband. He was silent for a while, and finally sighed softly and said in a tactful tone, "Mom, I'm sorry for you. I can't look at you like this anymore, we'll find a way to get you settled. ”
My mother-in-law's tears flowed uncontrollably, and she held my hand, and the nervous feeling gradually melted away. She's working too her own, and she needs our love, no matter what misunderstandings we had before. I nodded, I want to apologize to her with practical actions, I want her to know that we really love her.
Seeing this, my husband retrieved my mother-in-law's passbook, and we accompanied my mother-in-law to a comfortable nursing home, with perfect facilities and elegant environment, and there were many elderly people laughing and playing in it, and my mother-in-law also showed a long-lost smile. We found a bright single room with a view of the garden, which was neat and welcoming. I looked at the room for my mother-in-law from different angles, and my heart fell, my mother-in-law would love it here. The husband took the initiative to contact the doctor, conducted a comprehensive examination of the mother-in-law, and specially gave the best doctor to the mother-in-law, I know that this is because we love the mother-in-law deeply.
After my mother-in-law settled down, the three of us sat in the tea room of the nursing home and brewed a pot of fragrant green tea. It was the first time we sat down to have a good chat, and the mother-in-law broke the silence: "I'm sorry, I really thought too simple before, I was too willful. There was guilt in her eyes.
I also comforted: "Mother-in-law, the past is over, and we will definitely live better together in the future." "My husband and I looked at my mother-in-law, and I knew that from now on, I would be more tolerant and considerate of my mother-in-law. We will definitely get through this difficult time together.
The mother-in-law took out a handkerchief to wipe away her tears, and she repeated: "Thank you, you are the best children." "At that moment, our warm family returned to its former harmony and was stronger. We've all made mistakes, but they don't matter anymore. After all, what is precious is the courage to change in the face of mistakes and apologize. I believe that our family will be able to get through this ordeal.
There must be many unknown challenges ahead. But I believe that with this lesson and mutual understanding, we will all treat each other better. Mother-in-law, you are no longer alone, we will all be by your side.
The mother-in-law said with emotion: "Before I came, I kept thinking about what role I would play in life and how I would learn to be tolerant. But after I came, I felt like I had been fighting with you, and I felt very weak about many things, and I felt very uncomfortable. ”
When I listened to my mother-in-law's words, I couldn't help but feel a surge of grief in my heart. It brought so much unpleasantness to her, and even made her feel helpless and lonely for a while. I couldn't help but ask: "Mother-in-law, we won't let you bear this alone in the future, no matter what happens, we will be by your side and accompany you." ”
The husband looked at his mother-in-law and expressed deep guilt: "Mom, I'm sorry, I won't let you bear anything alone in the future." He reached out to hold his mother-in-law's hand, the corners of his mouth slightly raised, full of apologies.
The mother-in-law looked at us, the tears in her eyes were no longer dripping, and she smiled slightly: "My child, these are not your fault, I am too stubborn." Her words are full of understanding for us.
There will be many challenges in the coming days, but for now, I believe that our family has become stronger and more united. We will learn to be more tolerant and understanding with each other, and face everything in life together.
In this way, our family sat in the tea room of the comfortable nursing home, drinking tea and chatting with my mother-in-law, and we had a good time. On the way home, as the sun set, my husband and I silently shook hands and wordlessly expressed our confidence in our future life, believing that we will have a better tomorrow and that my mother-in-law will live a happy old age.
That night, my husband and I sat in rocking chairs by the window, looking at the starry sky, and our hearts were full of emotion. The husband said affectionately: "Baby, this incident really made me deeply aware that we need to be more caring and considerate of my mother-in-law, and we can't let her bear too much loneliness and difficulties alone." ”
I also felt a lot of emotion, quietly leaned on my husband's shoulder, and said softly: "Yes, we will always be by her side and give her warmth and love." ”
At that moment, my husband and I were heart-to-heart, and we both understood that we are no longer the same as before. We will treat our mother-in-law with a more mature and tolerant attitude, and treat this strong family affection.
Early the next morning, my husband and I came to the nursing home again with a lot of love. When my mother-in-law saw us, she showed a down-to-earth smile, she felt full of love and warmth, I looked at her, and I really hoped that she could live a happy time from now on.
The mother-in-law walked over slowly and looked at us with gentle eyes: "Children, I know, you are the best children. There was some friction before, but now I understand that you never left me. ”
When my husband and I heard this, we couldn't help but hug my mother-in-law, and we said affectionately: "Mother-in-law, we will definitely be more sensible and strong in the future to accompany you in your old age." ”
At that moment, we are no longer simple daughters-in-law and fathers-in-law, everyone in the family has become more mature and sensible, and we have all become more loving family members. Our hearts are already tightly connected.
On that day, my mother-in-law's birthday, we celebrated her. It was the first time we had a birthday in a nursing home, and the smiling faces made people feel happy.
Mother-in-law opened our gift and it was one of her favorite books. She looked at us, her eyes full of emotion: "Thank you, I have always had a wish, that is, to finish a book well." Now I can finally make it happen. She shook our hands excitedly.
My husband and I also blessed her: "Mother-in-law, I wish you a happy birthday and hope that you will always be healthy and happy." The mother-in-law choked up with emotion, and a happy smile spread across her face.
After everything was over, we sat in the courtyard and talked about the changes that had taken place during this time. The mother-in-law said happily: "I feel happier, and having you with me makes me feel warm." ”
My husband and I listened, our hearts were full of joy, and I said affectionately, "Yes, mother-in-law, we will definitely be by your side, no matter what happens." ”
At that moment, I felt happy because it was a taste of happiness because my family was together. Our relationship has become closer, and this family affection has not become the best memory in our lives. I hope that my mother-in-law will have a happy life in the future, and we will all accompany her and hold up a warm sky for her.
We stayed in the yard together and enjoyed the peace of mind. My mother-in-law said to us, "Even though I'm older, I still have a lot of fun. With your care, these good times are my greatest happiness. ”
I nodded deeply, smiled and said to her, "Yes, mother-in-law, we will accompany you more in the future to make your life happier." ”
The husband also said, "Mom, we will think more about your feelings in the future and spend more quality time together." ”
The mother-in-law listened to our words and smiled even brighter, she held our hands tightly, her eyes were full of gratitude and relief: "I am really grateful to you, I know that I am old, but with you, I am the happiest person." ”
On this day, the family affection of our family was deeper, and we accompanied our mother-in-law together and felt the sweetness and warmth of life. This family affection has brought our hearts closer. I hope that my mother-in-law's old age will be full of laughter and warmth, and we will all be by her side to protect her happiness and joy.