Recently, I have been thinking about someone, Xiaofang, she is not only smart, but also very independent, every time I see her busy, I think about how to find a good time to ask her to go out for a walk, so that our relationship can go further.
Hey, isn't that the chance coming! I decided to invite Xiaofang to go shopping in the suburbs for the weekend.
You know, Xiaofang is a busy person, and time is very tight.
So, I told her about it a week in advance.
I said, "Xiaofang, are you free for the weekend?"
I want to go with you to the sea of flowers, the flowers there are blooming crazy, and ah, we can have a picnic and enjoy the beauty of nature. I spoke in a relaxed tone, but I was actually very nervous.
When Xiao Fang heard this, her eyes lit up: "Sounds good, I haven't been to the flower sea for a long time."
That's it, let's go together on the weekend! ”
In this way, I made an appointment with Xiaofang a week in advance. I spent the next few days having a lot of fun, preparing food for the picnic and picking out drinks.
Finally, it's the weekend. The two of us came to the sea of flowers together, and that sea of flowers was so beautiful that it was unbelievably beautiful.
We enjoyed the fresh air while admiring the colorful flowers.
During the picnic, we talked a lot, from hobbies to future plans, and I found that we had a lot in common.
After this date, I was even more determined that Xiaofang was the girl I liked.
Moreover, I also understood that it is really important to date in advance, so that the other person has enough time to prepare, and we can also cherish the time together more.
So you have to prepare well in advance for a date with a girl.
1.Respect girls' time: Don't make a splash of dating a girl, it might catch her off guard. Communicate with her ahead of time and respect her schedule.
2.Consider the relationship stage: For girlfriends who have already confirmed a relationship, the date time can be more flexible; But for girls who have not yet decided on a relationship, making an appointment in advance is a better option.
3.Communicate ahead of time: Communicate with the girl about the date at least three days in advance, so that she has enough time to think and prepare.
4.Pay attention to the content of the appointment: Simple appointments such as meals may not require too much advance appointment, but complex events or matters that need to be prepared may require much earlier notice.
5.Offer choice: If the girl says that a certain time is not right, try to offer other options to show your flexibility and sincerity.
6.Consider girls' interests: Find out about the girl's interests and preferences before going on a date, and choose an activity or place that she may be interested in.
7.Avoid frequent changesOnce you have decided on a date time and place, try to avoid frequent changes, which can cause unnecessary distress to the girl.
8.Sincerity and patience: When courting a girl, sincerity and patience are key. If she can't accept your invitation for a while, don't be discouraged and try again later.