Hello everyone, I'm a hard-working Miss Liu.
During the Chinese New Year, I was given ** by Jia Ling's "Hot and Hot", and I feel that Du Leying, a "waste wood girl", is just like us ordinary in life.
After experiencing broken love, setbacks, blows, etc., they will blindly mess up, and finally survive the difficult days.
In the first half of our lives, we can't decide where we come from, or the misfortunes brought about by our original family.
In the second half of our lives, we need to grasp what kind of life we want to live next, what kind of person we want to become, and what we will become.
Let yourself be deformed, maybe the process is painful, maybe experience pain that others can't bear, as long as you persevere, you will gain a new self.
1. Insist on reading and change your thinking.
Gorky said, "Books are the ladder of human progress." ”
Seeing a different world from reading books can broaden your horizons and open your eyes.
Insist on reading to develop a habit, comprehend the knowledge and experience of predecessors from books, and will no longer spin in your own cognition.
Books are the wealth we seek all our lives, and they are also a way to change our thinking.
Insisting on reading makes us calm and calm, and our hearts are no longer impetuous.
2. Break the stereotype and learn.
We should not stick to the rules, we must adapt to the environment and the outside world, and we cannot just rely on the original way of thinking to do things.
The times are advancing, and people also need to be renewed, and standing still will only be out of touch with society.
Make new friends, explore new areas, and adapt to changes.
3. Pay attention to your own image.
A good image gives people the first feeling of comfort.
The painter Jiang Xun said: "Beauty is an invisible competitiveness. ”
If a person has a talented and sloppy image, he is unlikely to have a good impression.
The image should go ahead of the ability, have a good image, and bring good feelings and joy in life and work.
Not paying attention to image, eating and drinking, overeating, and irregular life will affect physical health and image.
Having a good image gives others a comfortable perspective and more confidence and confidence.
4. Don't be in the unexpected world.
How short our lives are, and how little we say and evaluate in the unexpected world.
In this world, we are all ordinary people, and we can't satisfy anyone, only ourselves.
If you care about other people's voices, you will lose your direction, and you will not be able to bring any help to yourself.
It reminds me of "Two People and a Donkey" where they are said to be selfish no matter what they do, and being alone on the back of a donkey is said to be selfish.
Two people riding a donkey together were also said to have crushed the donkey, and it was even more said that leading the donkey was even more said that there was a donkey that had to die of exhaustion.
They care too much about other people's words and get lost, don't go with the flow, be brave and be yourself, in order to make yourself happy.
5. Endure the pain of deformation.
We have to endure the pain of deformation, just like Du Leying in "Hot and Hot".
Her deformation is due to the doubts and disfavor of others, and she insists on resisting hard.
She has experienced unqualified again and again, and then to qualified, all of which are soaked with sweat one by one.
Only by surviving the darkest hour can we see the light.
I like a quote very much: "Only when it is dark can you see the starlight." ”
Only by continuous polishing and cultivation can we break out of the cocoon and become a butterfly.
6. The power to persevere.
We work hard towards the goal of moving forward, and even if we encounter setbacks and difficulties, we must persevere.
When I feel tired and can't persevere, my inner voice tells me that it's hard to persevere, and as long as you get through it, it will be cool.
If you want to have a life, you must dare to face the storms brought by life, whether to choose to escape, or to move forward bravely.
I like this quote very much: "One of the happiest things in the world is that after a lot of hard work, everything is slowly becoming what you want it to be, and you will stand in the brightest place and live the way you once longed to be." ”
Finally: only if you want to change, can you better get rid of change, stick to action and self-discipline, and get rid of yourself as an excellent self.
The code word is not easy, I hope it can help everyone, and I like to have a little love. What views and opinions we discuss with each other.