Do you think the only child family lives happily? Do you know what it's like to live in an one-child family?
In a single-child family, the cost of raising a child is relatively small, the burden on parents is small, and when the parents are young, life is relatively easy compared to a family with two or three children.
However, single-child families also have problems that are difficult to solve. In case something happens, the burden on the shoulders of the only child will be unbearable.
Recently, there is a ** on the Internet that has attracted widespread attention from netizens: a 34-year-old young man, whose parents have been hospitalized with cerebral hemorrhage, and the child is overwhelmed and crying loudly outside the ward. The young man said: Mom and Dad are just my son, and I can't divide it in half alone!
The young man's heart-rending cry touched the heartstrings of thousands of netizens, and many people left messages in the comment area, expressing their sympathy and love for the unfortunate family of the young man.
It's so hard to be an only child! ”
What happens when the parents of an only child need to be taken care of at the same time, and they are unable to earn money?
Let's take a look at some netizens' comments:
1. If this happens, don't save it, if you recover well or suffer from it, it will also drag down the child, so it's better to give up.
2. The actual situation of the one-child family is also the sadness of the times!
3. Parents should reduce the burden on their children!
4. It will be too difficult to be an only child in the future. Money is hard to earn, the burden is too heavy!
5. The sorrow of an only child: you can't work if you don't work, and you can't take care of the elderly.
6. Parents' worries: My family is also an only child, how will the children take care of me when I am old?
7. No matter whether you are rich or poor, you should have one more child, not for yourself, but for your children. Not to mention that the two elders are sick at the same time, even if one is hospitalized, the only son can die of exhaustion.
8. If something happens, it's all pressed on a child, it's too difficult.
9. Now I know that it is good to have more children.
10. Be strong, your parents still need you to take care of them, if you fall, who will take care of them?
11. I am also an only child, and I cry bitterly late at night.
12. If you have grandchildren to take care of them, they will have someone to share when they grow up.
13. No way, is it work, is it to take care of the family, is it to honor your parents? How to doppelganger?
14. When my parents fell ill together, it was basically impossible to ask the hospital to arrange a ward.
15. When parents are sick, children will be dragged to exhaustion.
16. Single-child families can still save money, but it costs too much money to have more children, and they can't even get the money for medical treatment when they are old.
17. Parents of only children should take care of themselves and don't cause trouble to their sons.
18. Now the young people who can give birth to dolls are not born, look at how difficult it is to have an only child.
19. Work part-time to earn money and hire two nurses, otherwise what should I do?
20. Find a way to make money, and relatives and friends help you.
21. The state should introduce policies to help solve these problems.
22. It costs money to hire nannies and caregivers, can you afford it?
23. This is the beginning, and there will be more and more helpless situations for only children in the future.
24. The distress of an only child is only understood by himself.
25. Be sure to give birth to two, don't think about bringing one easily.
26. When people's hearts are most miserable, everything is powerless.
27. Raising one child is crying, and raising two children really can't afford to raise them.
28. I'm afraid that there is neither money nor people! Therefore, when it is good, learn to save money, and only when something happens can you have the ability to carry it.
29. Who has experienced it and who knows, it is called the heavens and the earth, so they can only cry loudly!
30. If you have two children, you can rely on each other, and your parents can take turns to take care of them when they are sick.
My impressions:
1. For single-child families, parents must take precautions and save enough money in advance to ensure that they do not spend their children's money.
2. While earning money, pay attention to health preservation, maintain good health, and no illness is the greatest wealth.
3. Help children take care of their grandchildren, ensure the stability of the rear, and let children work and do things with peace of mind.
4. Be good at financial management, learn to use a variety of ways to make money and save money, and let money make money, the more the better.
5. Try to take care of your own affairs, live by yourself, cook and do laundry by yourself.
6. Keep your mobile phone powered and not shut down for 24 hours.
7. Look at minor illnesses by yourself, and notify children of major illnesses. If possible, you can ask trusted relatives to help and pay for it, after all, people have their own lives.
8. Usually maintain friendly contacts with relatives who are worthy of deep friendship, and ask others to come over to help children when they have special needs. Even if you give money, it's better than a child carrying it alone.
9. Chat with your children when you have the opportunity, talk about life, talk about life wisdom, and let your children participate in life exercises, so that children can grow and mature.
10. When you are incapacitated and your mind is still clear, arrange your own aftermath to prevent your child from being caught off guard by an accident.
If you have any other good suggestions, please leave a message so that more people can see it, and it may help many people!
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