The ancients said: "Knowing mistakes can be corrected, and good is great." ”
In a person's life, it is impossible to be right about everything.
Timely correction and minimization of losses are a person's top wisdom.
Career: If it's going in the wrong direction, the end is the beginning.
Many times, we will use the words "knowing that there are tigers in the mountains, and we prefer to go to the tiger mountains" to encourage ourselves, don't be afraid of difficulties, and must go to dangerous places.
The scenery is infinitely good, just at the dangerous peak. The more a person is afraid of something, the more he will be trapped by something, it is better to bite the bullet and move on.
In fact, there are always rivers that we can't wade, unattainable heights, and insurmountable cliffs.
When the water meets the cliff, it becomes a waterfall; When people encounter cliffs, they can only find another way, after all, most people are not masters of rock climbing.
20 years ago, the TV series "Huanzhu Gege" really became popular, and most of the actors became bigwigs in the entertainment industry. However, Zhou Jie is an alternative, he transformed into a farmer.
At the beginning, aboutZhou JieThere is really a lot of negative news. The road of an actor is not easy to take, he began to think about life, and then entered the catering industry and chose to farm for a living.
He said that farming is not just an investment, but his pursuit of life.All roads lead to Rome, why do you go to the dark on one road? It doesn't matter if you change direction, or even reinvent yourself.
A peasant can be turned into a singer; The host can be turned into an actor; Can become a farmer. There is a direction in your heart, and there is a road under your feet.
Love: If you love the wrong person, letting go is true love.
Some love can only stop at the lips and teeth, and hide it over the years.Singer Liang Jingru, when she married Zhao Yuantong, had a very affectionate confession.
Zhao Yuantong said: "Thank you for being my other half and completing my life." Living with you in the name of love is the happiest thing I can do. ”
But after getting married, their love was not so good. Nine years passed, and they broke up in the end.
After the divorce, Liang Jingru cried and indulged, but she finally got out of the predicament and still believed in love. She admits that she can accept a new relationship.
For all those who have come out of the emotional trough, we should bless them, not ridicule and sarcasm.Love really takes courage. But this courage must always be held in your own hands, not by others at will.
To understand that it takes more courage not to love.
Many people, when they love the wrong person, don't know where to go, and then pretend to be strong, desperately squeezing out a smile to show others. It really doesn't have to be like this, because love is an experience, and when you feel the cold biting, then cry out, and it's okay.
The old does not go, and the new does not come. At the moment you let go, there is no nirvana rebirth, but you give yourself a better chance, and you also give someone who truly loves you a chance to pursue.
Learning: If you are fledgling, dormant is departure.
During the Warring States Period, there was a man named Su Qin, who thought that he was only eight years old, and walked to King Qin Hui to promote himself.
King Qin Hui said, "How can a fledgling person convince others? ”
From then on, Su Qin returned home and studied hard.
Years later, he became a well-known columnist, diplomat, and strategist, lobbying six countries, including Qi and Chu, to form an alliance against the powerful Qin state. As a result, the Qin State did not dare to send troops to Hanguguan for fifteen years, interfering with the subjects of other countries.
As the saying goes, "Maxima is often there, but Bole is not." ”There are really a lot of people who don't meet talents. It's a pity that they don't know that the best Bole is the best oneself.
When a person's body is scorching and shining, he is not afraid of being buried wherever he goes. Even gold buried deep in the ground will emerge after years of rain.
Insects in summer, in winter, lie dormant in the ground, escape the cold winter, and crawl out in the spring to enjoy the sun and warmth. If it weren't for that, I'm afraid the bugs would have been destroyed long ago.
If you still can't achieve anything, or you are very timid in doing anything, it means that your wisdom is not enough, and you need to temporarily put down your pace of moving forward, calm down, study hard, and seek advice from society.
Heart: If you are sad, silence is **.
Haruki Murakami said, "You don't have to worry too much about the present, and you don't have to worry too much about the future, when you have experienced something, the scenery in front of you is not the same as before." ”The heart is the center of life, it is fragile and strong.
A fragile heart, like a grass that has just sprouted, encounters a breeze and drizzle, which is an auspicious thing; When there is a strong wind and rain, it is a disaster.
Therefore, sad people, do not be angry, complain, toss, even confiding is superfluous. As long as you calm down, learn to heal yourself, and let the wounds of the soul heal little by little.
Once all the painful things become experiences and lessons, then life can become more and more frustrated.
Family: If there is a lot of noise, shut up is harmony.
In ancient times, there was a hunter who went to the mountains and forests and found that his companions had not come, so he stopped hunting and took the initiative to go down the mountain.
He knew that the beast was fierce, and if he acted rashly, he would be attacked. It's better to wait for another day and wait for everyone to arrive before acting.
As the saying goes, "Home and everything prospers." ”
If a family works together, then no matter how fierce the beast is, it can be repelled, right? In those scattered families, everyone is tired and it is difficult to succeed in doing things.
Therefore, when the family is noisy, you should shut up and take the initiative to bow your head. If you argue with your family, you will win or lose.
Conclusion. In winter, everything is depressed, but it is not lifeless, but waiting for the first thunder of spring.
Everyone, there will be the experience of loving the wrong person, going the wrong way, crying sadly, lack of ability, and making noise, if you don't know how to stop, then you will lose the last hope.
Stop, silently recharge, and when spring blooms, you will be reborn.