Life is like tea, one two, three or four, the further back, the lighter the taste.
At the end of the day, there is no difference between tea and water. Only that tea leaf, which has risen and fallen many times, bloomed to the extreme, and returned to the appearance of spring.
After half a life in a hurry, after that, it is going downhill. If you can, look forward to going to the original point - the leaves fall back to the roots.
From now on, precipitate yourself, and plain is true.
Precipitate emotions, plain is true.
Plato said, "Time will slowly precipitate, and some people will slowly blur in your heart." Learn to let go, your happiness needs its own fulfillment. ”Most people think that Plato was a philosopher, but ignore his view of love.
One day, Plato asked the teacher Socrates, what is love?
Socrates did not answer, but asked him and a few other students to go to a field of wheat and look for the largest wheat. You can only go from one end to the other, and you can't turn back.
In the end, all of them returned empty-handed.
Plato suddenly understood that in every section of the road, he would find a large wheat, but he was not sure that this was the largest, so he continued to walk, hoping that the next time he encountered the wheat, it would be larger.
It turned out that there must have been one of the largest wheats in the field, but no one could find out. We can only "settle" and regard the wheat we have as the biggest.
Love is like this - eating in the bowl and looking at the pot, going around in circles, and finding that the people around me are really not good enough, much worse than other people's lovers.
The best love will make a person's spirit rich, even if the husband and wife often quarrel and break up, they still stubbornly believe that to be together until they grow old, you need him, and he needs you.
Those who meet, but can't hold hands, are actually two parallel lines, and it is enough to be able to watch in this life.
On the road of life, there is a person who walks into the palace of marriage with you, and this person is the best person. If your heart is higher than the sky, then you can only die alone.
Precipitate love, and you will have a wife for the rest of your life.
Of course, there are also family affection, friendship, and the same thing, all of which must be straightened out, cherish the people who are good to you, let go of the people who are not good to you, even if you don't have a friend, don't force it.
Precipitate your soul and let go of your fame.
Singer Ji Ke Junyi once said: "No matter when and where, no matter whether you get slander or praise, you must have a relaxed heart, always remind yourself, and settle down." ”I have seen such a story: A Zen master, who is very old, feels that his time is running out, so he summoned ** over and said, there is still nothing left to do - the false name of life is still there.
* They looked at each other, not knowing what to do. Someone comforts that the Zen master is highly respected and should have a reputation, so don't mind.
A little monk stood up and said, "Master, what is your common name?" What is the Dharma name? ”
The Zen master went away satisfied.
What is there to show off in this life? Fame and fortune are all fleeting. Even your name is not unique, and it is common to meet people with the same name and surname.
In the face of fame, if you can't let go, you won't be able to live the rest of your life.
People, if they come naked, they should go naked, and if they think about too many things, it is a burden on the soul.
If you are over 50 and have many ups and downs in life, you are still obsessed and hope for fame and status, then it is really too foolish.
Untie the soul, from now on, forget what should be forgotten, throw away, and there will be - the joy of "blowing out the reading lamp, full of moons".
What you lose, you will gain, there are losses, gains and losses, gains and losses are natural.
Precipitate suffering, and bitterness comes sweetly.
There was a story in my grandfather's life.
There was a middle-aged man in the village with only one hand. Wherever he goes, he will be disliked.
When my grandfather's family was building a house, they asked him for help and paid him as much as everyone else.
Later, middle-aged men relied on these wages to start a medicinal herb business, made a lot of money, and married a wife and had children.
The villagers were puzzled and asked their grandfather, "Why do you want to help him?" ”
The grandfather said, "I didn't help him, on his own." ”
I finally understood that fate gave us suffering, but it gave us wisdom and spurred us to be more industrious. Unfortunately, many people will only complain and blame others for not helping.
Those who do not have hands can rely on their feet; Those who have no hands and feet can rely on their minds; He who does not speak can see with his eyes and hear with his ears; You can't see with your eyes, but you can feel it with your heart.
When you reach the age of knowing the destiny of heaven, can't you still see through fate? Precipitate suffering, this is an inexhaustible wealth, and it is also the most precious thing you leave to future generations.
Precipitate money and increase confidence.
In these days, money can make ghosts grind, and it is difficult to move an inch without money.
From the age of fifty, try to save money and have a pension, house, etc. ready. Don't expect your children to provide for you.
Perhaps, you are still penniless, still worrying about your mortgage, looking for a job everywhere. Don't worry, no matter how much you earn, as long as you are diligent and thrifty, you can save yourself.
Putting down your work and working hard to earn money, even if you have a small income, is better than no income at all. For example, sweeping the street, taking small **, doing a small business, and being a dung digger are all ways.
Don't let up, hurry up, and make a comeback before the age of sixty.
There is a local saying in the countryside: "How can a living person be suffocated by urine?" ”
With a good economic foundation, there will be no worries in the second half of your life.
Conclusion.
Xu Zhimo wrote: "Quietly I left, just as I came quietly; I waved my sleeves and didn't take away a cloud. ”Don't think that precipitation is doing addition, in fact, it is doing subtraction.
It's like putting a glass of muddy water in a corner, and when the dirt sinks, the water becomes clean and transparent. Although, the cup is still full, but it is more pure, simple and refreshing.
For the rest of your life, sit and watch the clouds roll up, listen to the flowers bloom and fall, and let the tide ebb and flow.