Enlightenment Project
I. Introduction. In every family, there is a special time period, and that is adolescence. Children at this stage are full of endless curiosity and desire to explore, but also bring endless challenges and troubles. They may begin to challenge their parents' authority and seek self-identity, all of which can lead to confusion and upset for parents. This article will take you into these moments of being driven crazy by adolescent children, showing vivid scenes that describe the distress and helplessness of parents, as well as the rebellion and growth of children.
2. One of the crazy moments: the exploration of the unknown.
Parents feel anxious and helpless when children start reading books that are full of sexual innuendo and violence, when they start to be social** enthusiastic and try to imitate bad behavior online. They don't understand why children are interested in this content and don't know how to guide them properly. However, this exploration is part of their upbringing, and parents need to understand and accept, not hinder and suppress.
3. Crazy moment 2: Challenging authority.
Parents feel heartache and anger when their children begin to challenge their parents' authority, sneer at their parents' opinions, or even confront them. They may wonder if they are not doing a good enough job or if they understand the child's real needs. However, this is the path that adolescent children have to go through, they are trying to find themselves, identify their values, and parents need to give them enough respect and understanding to help them through this stage.
Fourth, the third moment of madness: emotional distress.
Adolescent children begin to feel confused and anxious about their emotions, and they may have questions about friendship, love, and family affection, or even feel at a loss. They may feel upset about their changes or seek help because they can't handle complex emotions. These troubles may be distressing and helpless for parents, but they need to understand that this is part of their child's development and that they need to be given adequate support and love.
5. Ending. These moments of being driven crazy are a process that every parent must go through. Although the process is fraught with pain and confusion, these are the necessary paths to growth. In this process, parents need to understand, accept, respect, and support their children, while also learning to adjust and grow themselves. Only in this way can we help our children navigate adolescence and meet the challenges of the future.
In this process, we need to recognize that every child is a unique individual, and their development trajectory and speed can be different. Therefore, we need to give them enough space and time to explore, challenge and grow. Only in this way can we witness their unique charm, their courage and strength, and their maturity and independence from the moment they were driven crazy.