Li Dan once said: "Be happy friends, the world is not worth it." ”
What really became popular was the last five words, there was a sense of independence that saw through the red dust, and it hit those emotions of life anxiety, confusion, powerlessness, disappointment, collapse and nowhere to put it, forming a disqualified melancholy in the world, which gradually spread, and understood the taste of being born without love.
Li Dan also made his own interpretation of this sentence"The world is not worth it means that you have to give up, but that after you have done what you should do, don't be attached, and if you don't get a good result, you will live a healthy life. ”
But for those who don't have confidence in life, Li Dan's explanation has a strong sense of twist no matter how you look at it, and they are more willing to believe that "the world is not worth it", even if it is not worth it, it is still necessary to continue, and the ending is to feel that it is not worth it, while suffering the rest of his life.
At first glance, this book "The World is Worthy" looks like a 90-year-old psychiatrist's chicken soup for the soul, from "the world is not worth it" to tell the world is worthy, I began to stand up the hairs of criticism, read page by page, sentence by sentence, only to find that this is not a psychological book.
It's like chatting with the older generation and telling you some ways of life; It's like when you are in trouble and your parents say to you, "If you're not happy, come back." He told me that although life is hard, the world is worth it, and if my heart is sunny, the years will be fine.
At the beginning of people, their nature is good, their sex is similar, and their habits are far away. This sentence has been with me since I was a child, but as I grew older, I came into contact with people from close family members to familiar classmates to unfamiliar colleagues to complete strangers, and in the process of getting along with various people, my trust in this sentence gradually changed from being convinced at the beginning to questioning.
Slowly, I firmly believe in the phrase "it is difficult to draw the skin of a tiger and a tiger, and I don't know the heart of a person", and I gradually understood why "the heart of harming people is indispensable, and the heart of preventing people is indispensable."
Human nature, like the nine links that puzzled me throughout my childhood, can't be solved, can't be fathomed, she is always changeable, there is no pattern at all.
Maybe a person is still praising how good-looking your newly bought watch is one second, and the next second he will complain to others about your vanity and gnawing at the old family. You can never guess how complicated and dark the hearts of people who are very good to you on the surface are, loving someone and hating someone are only in one thought.
This world, as complex as you say, is as complicated as it is, but as long as you are simple, no matter how complex the world is, no matter how complex the people, it will become simpler.
For as long as I can remember, every festive festival such as the Spring Festival and the Lantern Festival, or on the auspicious day when someone else gets married or has children, I will always hear adults wishing each other "all the best".
When I was a child, I watched Snow White and Prince Charming in cartoons, and I thought that there really was such a fairytale-like life.
Later, growing up slowly, step by step out of the umbrella of his parents, to go alone, only to find that there is nothing good in life, where there are dreams come true, life is a naughty child, his favorite thing to do is to play tricks on others, let people come with hope and then leave disappointed.
It also gradually makes us understand that not all dreams can be realized, and not all efforts can be rewarded, and there are many times when life likes to tear up and tear all our previous efforts in front of us, challenging us again and again.
Everyone has never given up because of suffering, but only grows because of shoulders. Today we feel that we are relaxed, not because life is getting easier, but because we are getting stronger.
Cherish what you have now, and believe that what you have is the best!
The above is my life perception in Grandma Hengzi's book "Life is Worth It", living with such a mentality can make her comfortable in work, marriage and communication. Although there are some things in marriage that she can't bear, she also realizes that it can't be changed, so she tries to create her own happiness and keep her family harmonious. The book "Life is Worth It" is very much like a portrayal of Grandma Hengzi's life. She said that you don't have to work too hard in life, do what is in front of you, and accept each day frankly. If you feel tired in life, you can read this book!
The book is very brief, the book tells the story of a Tsuneko who has worked for more than seventy years in Nara, Japan, and is a doctor in a psychiatric department.
She weighs 1.4 meters and weighs more than 80 pounds, and is a "hardcore" grandmother in her 90sBut the conclusions she felt in her life and the conclusions she reached through her conscientious work wrote this book.
The question of whether the world is worth it or not depends on whether you can truly accept yourselfAccept your ordinariness, accept your imperfections, and accept what you are born with.
There is only one kind of idealism in this world, which is to recognize the truth of life and still be full of love for life.
Each of us has not been very smooth in life, because things in reality are not as good as in fairy tales, so we have to learn often to turn what we think is not worth it into something worthwhileIt's worth doing for the rest of our lives.
Grandma Hengzi didn't treat her work out of love at first, she worked just because she wanted to make money to support herself, but she thought that as long as it was work, she should do it seriously and find happiness in her workAnd her mood has also changed from "working for life" to "finding happiness in work".
She is also Japan's Osamu Dazai, Yukio Mishima and others are all beautiful in mourning, often saying that the world is not worth it, but Grandma Hengzi tells you that the world is worth it, born like a summer flower, living in the moment. Grandma Hengzi talks about troubles, loneliness, life and death, and sleep in this book.
This book is very bland to read, will make you feel a kind of sincerity, will make you feel comfortable,This will make you want to keep reading.
Whether the world is worth it or not, this is your own decision, you can create extraordinary in your ordinary, and in doing so, your life will be very worthwhileHuman life is long and not long, birth, old age, sickness and death are inevitable, but you can choose among them.
Like in the book, "Life, as long as it can illuminate a certain place, it is enough."This sentence has brought comfort to many people, as long as they live well, they are the best, Grandma Hengzi follows her heart, lives her own wonderful, and at the same time brings happiness to others.
If you are more confused and lost in your life right nowJust read the book "The World Is Worthy" so that you will find your purpose and face life better.
When we face the same problem, different ages will have different opinions, so you can learn from Grandma Hengko's ideasAfter you finish reading this book, you will find a lot of inspiration.
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