Did you find out? The reason for the severance between siblings is actually quite simple.
The brothers cut off contacts, and the root of the contradiction is actually a long-term loss and advantage.
There is a family in our village, the old couple has two sons and three daughters, all of whom have started a family, and each of the children has their own families. When the old couple was alive, the children got along quite well.
However, since the death of the old couple, the relationship between the children has gradually changed.
The eldest son has an honest personality, and has been living with his parents since he got married, taking care of his parents' daily life. The second son is a clever ghost, who moved to the city after getting married and rarely goes home to see his parents. The three daughters came back to visit their parents every once in a while, bringing gifts and money each time.
When his parents were alive, the eldest son always gave silently and never complained. However, after the death of his parents, he felt that he had fulfilled his filial piety and should not suffer any more. So, he proposed to share more of the inheritance left by his parents.
The three daughters who are married have no opinion, because there is no precedent for the daughters who marry in our country to inherit the inheritance of their parents, and according to the established rules, they do not get involved in the affairs of their mother's brothers. When the second son heard this, he was not happy. He felt that they were all the sons of their parents and that the inheritance should be divided equally. However, the eldest son disagreed, he felt that he had taken care of his parents for so many years, and there was no merit and hard work, and he should share more inheritance.
The eldest took out 40,000 yuan from his parents' passbook and left 10,000 yuan for the second child, and the contradictions between the brothers became deeper and deeper.
Time passed, and the relationship between the brothers still did not ease. They each live their own lives and are no longer in touch.
Until one day, the eldest son got married and invited all his relatives and friends, but he did not invite his younger brother. When the second child found out, he was very angry and felt that the eldest brother was too much.
However, the eldest brother felt that he had done nothing wrong, he felt that he had not been in contact with the second child for a few years, and there was no need to marry his son.
In this way, the contradictions between the brothers are getting deeper and deeper, and the reason for the severance of the brothers is that those who have been suffering losses do not want to suffer any more, and the party that has always taken advantage cannot take advantage of them.