Three years ago, my husband and I got married.
My husband's ** is good, but his temperament is too weak, so it can be said that he is obedient.
This is very much with my mother-in-law, and they are exactly the same personality.
But my husband has an older sister, that is, my eldest sister, and I think my eldest sister is very strange.
I once suspected that my eldest sister was not born to my mother-in-law, because she was the kind of person who was very arrogant, and her voice was like thunder when she spoke.
My eldest sister and my mother-in-law were also very loud when they talked normally, and people who didn't know thought they were arguing.
When I sat at the same table with my eldest sister for dinner, I always sat across from her, because if I sat next to her, I was worried that I would be shocked by her voice.
In fact, my eldest sister is also a poor person, and her marriage is very unhappy.
Because my brother-in-law is not a good person, not only does he like to smoke and drink, but he also has a very bad temper.
I often tell my husband that the two of them don't live long, but the truth is really as I expected, the eldest sister is really divorced.
After the divorce, the eldest sister had nowhere to go, so she simply lived in our house.
I have a big opinion on this, because the area of my house is not large, only more than 80 square meters.
In such a small house, my husband and my mother-in-law and I live in a bit crowded, not to mention the eldest sister and her daughter.
Husband, can you discuss with our sister and let them go out to rent a house to live, since they moved in, there is no place for our family to move, and now the two of us don't have children, if we have children, won't it be a mess of porridge", I said unhappily.
My husband smiled, and then said to me: "Now our sister has no job, and she has to take her daughter with her, not to mention whether he has the money to go out to rent a house, even if he goes out to rent a house, she can't take care of her daughter, in our house, our mother can still help her take care of the child, besides, it doesn't matter if you squeeze it, it's still crowded." ”
When I heard my husband say this, I didn't want to talk to him.
No matter when, he is a submissive person, who would rather suffer a loss than know how to refuse.
Sometimes I really can't stand this big sister of mine because her voice is so loud.
When she tutors her daughter with homework, the sound will be louder, which can be called deafening.
Originally, I was busy all day, and I wanted to take a good rest after work, but I still had to face my eldest sister's loud voice, how could I not be upset?
On this day, the eldest sister was reprimanding her daughter again, and her loud voice made my mind confused.
I went to her room and said to her, "Sister, can you make a little quieter, it makes my head hurt." ”
The eldest sister was also embarrassed to pay me a loss, she said: "I'm sorry, little sister, my shortcoming is that I have a loud voice, I will pay attention to it in the future." ”
I haven't enjoyed a day of quiet time since my eldest sister came to my house, and I've been tortured for a year.
Just because of her loud voice, we also had many conflicts.
Later, I couldn't take it anymore and moved back to my parents' house.
On this day, I received a ** from my mother-in-law, and my mother-in-law cried and said to me: "Daughter-in-law, come back quickly, something big has happened at home." ”
I asked impatiently, "Is my eldest sister gone, if she leaves, I'll go back." ”
Oh, don't worry about this anymore, Huzi fainted in the afternoon, and your eldest sister and I took him to the hospital, and the doctor said he had leukemia", the mother-in-law said anxiously.
Who is Huzi? The unfamiliar name that my mother-in-law said made me not react for a while.
Then I was shocked, isn't Huzi my husband's nickname?
At this time, I couldn't care about anything, so I hurried to the hospital.
I saw my husband lying on the hospital bed, his face very pale.
I've only been home for a few days, and there has been such a big change here, and I can't accept it for a while.
Mom, what should we do now", I cried and asked my mother-in-law.
The mother-in-law cried and said: "The doctor said that the only best way is to do a bone marrow transplant, and it also requires a large amount of money, I want to match the tiger, but the doctor said that I am too old to let me do it, as for the cost, I can still make up it by smashing the pot and selling iron, but I can't do it without a suitable match." ”
Just as our mother and I were crying, the eldest sister walked in.
She handed me a bank card, and then said to me: "Little sister, there are 400,000 yuan in the card, which is my life's savings, you can use it first, and I have already told the doctor that I will do the matching this afternoon, and I am willing to use my bone marrow to save Huzi's life." ”
I knelt down in front of my eldest sister with a thud, and my tears were completely uncontrollable.
Two days later, the matching results came out, and my eldest sister could give my husband a bone marrow transplant, which means that my husband's life was saved.
I took the 400,000 yuan given by my eldest sister, and then scraped together some more, and finally got the operation fee together.
In the end, the surgery was very successful and my husband gradually recovered.
My eldest sister is my husband's savior, and if it weren't for her, our family would have been broken up a long time ago.
On this day, I was basking in the sun with my husband in front of my house, and suddenly I remembered a question.
I asked my husband, "Husband, why do you talk softly to our mother, but our sister talks like thunder?" ”
My husband sighed, and then said: "Our dad left early, it seems that I left when I was more than three years old, my mother and I are both cowardly and cowardly, and without our dad's support, so many people in the village bullied our family, at first our sister was also that kind of soft and weak character, but in order to let our family not be bullied, it created her big voice, who came to find our family's business, our sister crossed her waist and quarreled with others, and in the end no one dared to bully our family." ”
Although my husband finished saying this with a smile, it was very sad to listen to my ears.
My eldest sister was indeed a good person, and I always thought that her loud voice that disturbed my peaceful life was a sign of unculture, until now I realized that I was wrong to blame her.