Wang Lingwith sonsZhang LongAlthough the blind date process has experienced some twists and turns, I finally found a good girl Zhou Xiaoli. Although Zhou Xiaoli is from a rural area, she has worked hard and achieved excellent academic results and a stable job. However, before marriage, Xiaoli's greed for money made itWang LingSome doubts arise. Every payment at the table seems to be Xiaoli's touchstone, onlyWang LingGive the payment, and Xiaoli will show a satisfied smile. And her son's payment will make her indifferent or even leave. Although this behavior is only a detail, it leads to:Wang LingConcerns about Xiaoli's attitude towards money.
When the son and Xiaoli plan to get married, Xiaoli's family proposes someWeddingsThese include a high bride price and a large down payment for the wedding house. Wang LingAlthough she and her wife were a little dissatisfied with Xiaoli's attitude on money issues, they still agreed to these requests. They regret that Xiaoli is too serious about money compared to her son, but they also understand her hard work outside and her consideration for her future life. To this end, they did their best to prepare financially and bear these costs, hoping to provideWeddingsand contribute to the future life of the young couple. And all this dedication and hard work has led to Xiaoli's more concern for her parents-in-law and active participation in daily life. Although Xiaoli's personality of using money is still there, overall, the family's life is relatively harmonious and happy.
However, whenWang LingAfter his retirement, things took a subtle turn. Retirement is a relatively good income, and this also aroused Xiaoli's curiosity. At a small gathering, Xiao Li toWang LingAsk about the amount of your pension. This is the sonZhang LongBut he gestured with his eyesWang LingDon't reveal the real numbers, soWang Lingchanged his words and said that he only had 2,700 yuan. Xiaoli's expression immediately changed, and she stopped asking about this topic. Afterwards,Zhang LongtowardWang Lingexplained that although Xiaoli is not a bad person, she is from a rural area and is difficult to change, and she always thinks that the money in her hand is her own, and she is willing to spend money for "outsiders". Son and hopeWang LingDon't disclose the fact of savings and pensions, lest Xiaoli always cares about them.
Wang LingAlthough he has some dissatisfaction with his daughter-in-law's greedy mentality, he knows that the relationship between Xiaoli and his son is actually based on the future of love and a new life. He understands that the family wealth accumulated over the years will eventually be passed on to his son, and his daughter-in-law will also take on the family responsibilities in the future. He and his wife have always been family and loving people, how can they question their daughter-in-law's personality for these trivial things? Moreover, Xiaoli has accompanied her son for many days and nights, and she will also be their family in this life. So, he decided to remain silent, whether it was from his understanding of Xiaoli or from his son-in-law's explanation, he believed that it was the wisest choice to protect his family background.
When looking at the relationship between money and family, we might as well be more tolerant and understanding. Everyone is different in terms of education, life environment, and upbringing, so their attitudes towards money and wealth will also be different. As parents and elders, we need to empathize, understand and acceptMarriagevalues and perceptions of the other half. At the same time, it is also necessary to clarify the ownership of family wealth, so as to reduce unnecessary disputes and conflicts caused by money. The most important thing is that we should cherish the feelings of our family members, support and understand each other, and work together to create a happy and harmonious family on the basis of mutual tolerance. No matter how much money you have, the most important thing is that everyone can live happily and peacefully.