On March 1, artist Chen Jiahua (ella) made the hot list with a candid remark, and she revealed a private habit in an interview the day before: enjoy the comfortable time at home, uninhibited.
The fitness method of the celebrity mother Ella aroused the concern of her son Jinbao, and he distressed and proposed to let his mother wear clothes to exercise.
In response, Ella sincerely apologized to her son and promised not to work out in front of him anymore, even though it was her daily habit.
This warm and slightly embarrassing situation has caused widespread discussion online.
The news came out that Ella's son Jinbao was born in 2017 and is now 7 years old, bidding farewell to the immature infant stage, which made many netizens question some of Ella's behaviors.
Netizens suggested showing ** to their son cautiously, emphasizing that this move is not only a lack of basic respect for the child, but also may have a potential impact on the child's mental and physical health, hindering his normal growth.
Establishing clear boundaries between Ella and her children is the cornerstone of mutual respect.
Ella made it clear in her ** that she was doing unclothed fitness activities in her bedroom in a private space, and emphasized that if baby Jinbao didn't like to see her mother like this, she could choose not to enter her bedroom.
She respects the boundaries of the child's vision and ensures family harmony.
In the face of the heated discussion forum, netizens generally showed understanding and love, and they reminded us that even though we are sons, we still need to take into account the feelings of children when mentioning sensitive topics.
Some stressed the importance of respecting privacy, arguing that the home should maintain a certain amount of privacy, such as ensuring that the door is locked, to protect the child's innocent world from being inadvertently touched, given the possibility of memory reproduction.
Some users discussed"Children avoid their mothers"Conventional wisdom speculates that Ella may be open to personality and natural to share certain things openly. She probably didn't think there was anything wrong with it to be so blunt.
However, it also reveals some of her unusual behaviors.
Ella often shares heartwarming moments with her son, such as affectionate hugs and intimate kisses, especially mouth-to-mouth moments, which are undoubtedly filled with deep love. However, excessive intimacy can make the child too dependent, and at the same time, bacteria in the mouth can pose a potential threat to the child's delicate health.
Therefore, maintaining just the right amount of parent-child interaction is the best way to give your child love and protection.
Jinbao's dependence on his mother can be seen, which may reflect Ella's unique parenting style. Once, Jinbao hugged his mother's calf tightly to take a photo, although Ella was dressed lightly at the time, but such a ** still touched the emotions of the audience and aroused attention and discussion.
Ella's straightforwardness and fearlessness often exceed ordinary people's imagination. Once, her daily trivial matter of changing tampons was hit by her lively son, which was unexpected"Serendipitous encounters"It's enough to make people blush and heartbeat.
However, instead of feeling embarrassed, she humorously treats this little episode as a fun talk in life, showing her unique charm and open-minded personality.
Ella revealed that she and her son maintain a close relationship like a friend, and she can often be seen naked at home. The son is used to seeing such a scene inadvertently in his daily life.
However, as the children grow, they develop a different perception of their mother's body, which makes Ella realize that her previous behavior may not have been seen as the norm.
In a candid interview, Ella revealed that she and her son have implemented a separate bed policy, with a nanny accompanying their baby at night"Lingering", and she makes the most of this time to share affection with her husband"Lingering time"。
Appreciate the endless possibilities of the world of the two, enjoy the ultimate time of pleasure, speak freely, and be amazed.
She is a firm believer that self-expression is key, and when there is a need or desire, she dares to speak up, because it not only fulfills the desire, but also brings inner pleasure that would otherwise only make her feel exhausted.
Ella is known for her unique bold style, sometimes even beyond Xiao S's openness, she does not shy away from the show, and her witty remarks make male artists often fall into"Jokes"with surprise.
Her way of communicating breaks the conventional sense of boundaries, and many male stars have become her impromptu humor"Beneficiaries"。
It may be due to our own straightforward nature, we do not hide it in front of our children, but it is precisely out of love for them. However, should we adjust appropriately for the sake of their all-round growth?