There is no absolute fairness in this world, only absolute strength. If a person complains that the world is unfair, it only means that he is not the winning side.
2. When you have more insight and insights than most people, you will definitely not be a very popular person.
3. Sometimes you can only watch the people around you go astray and have nothing to do. Trying to reach out is not only thankless, but can easily invite hatred. Eventually, you'll find that you can't do anything. All you can do is live your life.
4. Don't give advice to others without permission, even if it is well-intentioned, it is easy to be offensive.
5. If a person is gentle in his words and deeds, but he has few friends around him, and he can't get along with people in the same circle, then you must make it clear that this person is not very withdrawn, but he knows very well what he wants. And mentally, he has long surpassed his peers.
6. Restrain yourself to correct the desires of others, adults can only screen but not educate. Partner, friend, partner, all the same. Put away your own obsession to transform others, people can't teach others, and it is enough to teach people once. Because people can't wake up, people can only wake up in pain.
7. A really powerful person, his life list will not only include love, but also career, friendship, family, interests, hobbies, etc., even if there is a situation in love, other parts are still normal. As long as these big frameworks are still there, his life will not stop functioning because of the temporary absence of a certain part.
8. Restrain yourself to correct the desires of others, adults can only screen but not educate. Partner, friend, partner, all the same. Put away your own obsession to transform others, people can't teach others, and it is enough to teach people once. Because people can't wake up, people can only wake up in pain.
9. When listening to others, you can't just listen to the surface, but think about why others say what they say and what their intentions are.
10. Don't try to change anyone, people can only save themselves. Being a good teacher will only be hated. Restraining oneself to correct the desires of others, adults can only screen but not educate. People can't teach people, but it's enough to teach people once.
11. Learn to say goodbye to what you can't hold. If it doesn't belong to you, no matter how much you keep it, it's just delaying the end of the show.
12. The rule of the rivers and lakes is that people go to tea and cool, and the tacit understanding ends. Don't ask, you just don't know the rules if you ask.
13. Let's stay and eat, which means "you should go" next time I invite you to dinner, which means, "I'm just saying, there may not be a next time we meet" In principle, no, that is, yes. It stands to reason that it can, but it doesn't.
14. Children can distinguish between right and wrong, and adults only look at the pros and cons.
15. Send a message, if you face your superiors, you should express your thoughts clearly to reduce the difficulty of reading the boss. Don't make a voice, it will make people think you don't respect him.
16. The school will not teach you the knowledge of making money. The knowledge of making money is either led by nobles or enlightened by oneself. The premise of both of these is to have more contact with the outside world, communicate more with others, and not immerse yourself in your own small circle.
18. The closer people are to you, the more they can't stand your sudden improvement.
19. A person is not easy to get angry, which means that he has more trump cards in his hand. On the contrary, if a person loses his temper at every turn, it means that he has no trump card in his hand, and only the ability to lose his temper is left. The reason why people lose their temper when they are emotional is because of their helplessness after they have no choice.
20. Don't laugh at yourself in front of a stupid person, he will take it seriously.
21. Abiding by the law does not mean that a person is morally noble, because the law is the bottom line of morality.
22. Don't mess with those around you who don't care about small losses, people don't want small profits, they must have big plans.
23. The foundation for establishing a solid cooperation is a stable foundation of interests. Character does not guarantee stable cooperation.
24. If you want to please everyone, you are doomed to a mediocre fate. When you know more than most people, you will definitely not be a very popular person. You can't do something that the masses agree with and expect something different.
25. In the era of the end of the law, the word is the head. Things that seem outrageous, weird, and incomprehensible, think about interests.
26. Feelings are consensual things, don't flaunt self-sacrifice.
27. Don't please anyone, even the closest people around you.
28. No one can resist the ** of interests. If there is, it is because the stakes are not big enough.
29. There is only one way in the world to make others listen to you willingly, and that is to give him what he wants.
30. Wallets and mirrors can answer most of the "why" and "why" in life.