Whoever is the best person controls the mind.
1. Moving the interests of the upper echelons is like taking their lives. Changing the concept of the bottom is like digging their ancestral graves. And the concept of the bottom is the ** of the interests of the upper class. Those who try to explain all this are the common enemies of both sides.
2. The people who don't have to toast with the protagonist at the wine table are generally the protagonist's cronies.
3. No matter how much the wolf bites with each other, the attitude towards the sheep is the same.
4. People whose energy is not greater than that of gods and Buddhas, don't easily let miserable people approach you.
5. The rule of the rivers and lakes is that people go to tea and cool, and the tacit understanding ends. Don't ask, you just don't know the rules if you ask.
6. When you have more insight and insights than most people, you will definitely not be a very popular person.
7. Being a good teacher is a kind of showing off, subconsciously telling others that you are better than him, as long as this gesture comes out, other people's disgust will be born.
8. There is only one way in the world to make others willing to listen to you, and that is to give him what he wants.
9. The school will not teach you the knowledge of making money. The knowledge of making money is either led by nobles or enlightened by oneself. The premise of both of these is to have more contact with the outside world, communicate more with others, and not immerse yourself in your own small circle.
10. A shrewd person will keep a low profile in front of friends and family, rather than showing off. Obviously the job is very good and the income is very high, but he says that his work is useless: white and black, no weekends, and not done by people, only in this way can he not be jealous and calculated.
11. A person is not easy to get angry, which means that he has more trump cards in his hand. On the contrary, if a person loses his temper at every turn, it means that he has no trump card in his hand, and only the ability to lose his temper is left. The reason why people lose their temper when they are emotional is because of their helplessness after they have no choice.
12. Restrain yourself to correct the desires of others, and adults can only screen but not educate. Partner, friend, partner, all the same. Put away your own obsession to transform others, people can't teach others, and it is enough to teach people once. Because people can't wake up, people can only wake up in pain.
13. Proving to others that you are a good person is equivalent to automatically letting go of ** and being slaughtered by others.
14. If a person is gentle in his words and deeds, but he doesn't have many friends around him, and he can't get along with people in the same circle, then you must make it clear that this person is not very withdrawn, but he knows very well what he wants. And mentally, he has long surpassed his peers.
15. Lending money to others is most likely cultivating enemies.
16. Don't be too generous. There are only "stupid and generous" and "poor generous" in this world, have you ever heard of "rich and generous"? The poor are cautious and generous, while the rich are generous and stingy. Most of the people who like to rush to pay are not particularly wealthy.
17. There is no absolute fairness in this world, only absolute strength. This is true even in country m. Trump was once asked by a reporter why some people can enjoy good medical care, while others can only wait for death? Trump replied, "Maybe this is life."Maybe that's what life is all about: some people eat meat, some people drink porridge. Zhumen's wine and meat stink, and there are frozen bones on the road.
18. The rich always give priority to interests, while the poor always give priority to feelings and face.
19. After the age of 30, the cruelty of life will be multiplied tenfold. The basic image after the age of 30 is maintained by the yuan and self-discipline, not by how social you are and how you can drink.
20. One of the scariest things about growing up is that you realize that you have some of the same shortcomings as your parents.
21. Maturity is no longer thinking that you are omnipotent, but recognizing your own powerlessness. There are some people and some things that you can't change anything, and all you can do is accept.
22. Be slow and slow in communicating with others; Break up with someone a little faster, a little faster. Don't fight for speed in making friends, and don't work hard to know people.
23. Children can distinguish between right and wrong, and adults only look at the pros and cons. A person with a mature mind will not fight with others for the sake of right and wrong, he thinks it is right and right, just do it.
24. In principle, when it is not allowed, it is okay; In principle, when it is possible, it just can't; In principle, when it is voluntary, it is necessary; In principle, when it is necessary, it is voluntary.
25. Everyone tends to give things to people who have the ability to do them, but the benefits are more willing to be left to those close to them.
26. Don't think that adding the cow's WeChat is like having more powerful connections. You treat people as connections, but people just use you as an avatar. If a person is not good enough, then no matter how good the network is, it is useless; Only if your own strength is good enough, the network is the icing on the cake.
27. Appropriate foolishness. People at the wine table always have to drink once before they can really integrate into the circle. You've seen my ugliness, I've seen your ugliness, so we can play together. A person who is clear and high up there to "talk about principles" can't play with everyone.
28. Don't debunk a person who is pretending to be B in public. In life, many people like to exaggerate, show off themselves, and think that they have a sense of superiority that others cannot match. They are narrow-minded and good-looking, and value their own interests above all else. In the face of such a person, there is no need to debunk it, and there is no need to ignore it.
29. What kind of person you are with and what kind of circle you mix in, what kind of person you will become in the end. For example, if you drink, jump, go to nightclubs, and play mahjong every day, then it is no surprise that you will not have any great success in the future.
30. Many people think that interest is the best teacher, but in my practice, I have found that shame is the best teacher. Many people work hard because of low self-esteem, or a certain experience of being humiliated. Interest fades easily, but this stigma can drive you for 30 years.