In this uncertain world, we are always looking for a sense of stability and certainty. In relationships, especially intimacy, we crave to be understood, accepted, and treated with sincerity. However, many times, we get caught up in a guessing game, trying to guess the true intentions of the other person through their words and actions, which not only consumes our energy, but also makes our relationship complicated and fragile.
I have experienced such a relationship, at that time, I was guessing each other's thoughts every day, trying to read every subtle expression and tone. I tried to find hidden meanings from the other person's "it's okay" and "forget it", but it was often in vain. This uncertainty made me feel anxious and uneasy because I didn't know if the other person really cared about our relationship and if they were really willing to put in it.
It wasn't until I met my current partner that I discovered that true intimacy is based on honest and direct communication. Our conversations are always direct and sincere, and we are willing to put our thoughts and feelings on the table rather than leaving the other person guessing. This way of communication makes our relationship stronger, and it also makes it easier and more enjoyable for us to get along with.
I realized that true intimacy is not a game of guessing, but a heart-to-heart exchange. What we need is not speculation on the part of the other side, but their understanding and support. What we need is not the caution of the other side, but their sincerity and frankness.
So, I want to say to those of you who are still struggling with guessing, don't let the guessing game wear down your relationship anymore. Be brave enough to express your feelings and communicate your thoughts directly. It is only when we are willing to be honest with each other that our relationship can become deeper and more durable. Let us all learn to be honest and let our love no longer take a long detour.