There is a touching sentence in the book "Goodbye, Firefly Alley": what is lost will always be there in another way, and what you have needs to be cherished. Loss is the only way to maturity, it allows us to see the truth of life, learn to be strong, and let us understand that death is not the end of love.
Say goodbye to the past in order to love better
No one's life is smooth sailing, and anyone will experience sadness and setbacks, as well as unbearable memories and regrets.
Don't always use the past to measure the happiness and misfortune of life, only you are the moment that determines your happiness.
In the book "Maybe You Should Have Someone to Talk To", there is a 69-year-old visitor, Rita.
The first half of Rita's life was unfortunate, with her husband being an alcoholic and domestic violence, and she was cowardly and unable to resist or protect her children when they were harmed.
Later, she divorced her husband, but her children also cut ties with her because they hated her for her weakness.
I thought that Rita's life would change forever, but it wasn't.
She is immersed in the pain of the past, still doing jobs she doesn't like, repeating failed marriages, and finally being alone.
She didn't understand why this was until she met Lori, a psychiatrist.
After learning about her various experiences, Lori said this:If you keep holding on to the pain of the past, you will never be able to achieve a happy future!
During her conversation with Lori, she slowly wakes up and is determined to let go of the past and start a new life.
She holds art exhibitions, connects with children and tells them about her guilt and ...... love
She finally made life colorful.
British best-selling author Neil Francis once said, "The point of life is not to look in the past, but to look forward, start anew, and gain real ease." ”
No matter what kind of past you encounter and how cruel the past is, there are still many choices in life.
Who you want to be, what you want to do, there is never a time limit, as long as you have the determination to say goodbye and the courage to start.
If you can't turn back time, then let all the past go with the wind.
Leave what should be left behind, and forget what should be forgotten. Only by breaking free from the shackles of pain and clearing the past can we regain our life and love ourselves and others better.
When you pluck up the courage to say goodbye to the past, you'll be rewarded with a fresh start and a better future. 
Only by cherishing the present moment can we live up to love and be loved
We always think that the coming days are long, but we don't expect the world to be impermanent. Many people and many things in this world only understand his preciousness after being ignored and let down.
* In "Goodbye, Firefly Alley", after the death of the heroine Katie, her family and best friends could not accept the grief of her leaving, and a series of misunderstandings and injuries occurred.
Katie's daughter becomes rebellious, and her aggressive actions cause godmother Tali (Katie's best friend) to have a nervous breakdown and get into a car accident.
Because of this car accident, everyone got together again.
Katie's daughter is very self-reproachful and constantly repents that she should not transfer the pain of losing her mother to someone who loves her;
The mother, who had abandoned Tully, also hurried back and took care of her daughter Tully's ......
This car accident made everyone understand:Loss is always in a blink of an eye, and only by cherishing can we live up to love and be loved.
Human life is unpredictable, and in addition to what we have lost, we also have a lot.
We have healthy bodies, loved ones, acquaintances, warm strangers, and small happy ...... in trivial daily life
What we have at this moment is the best gift that life can give. Every minute of life and what we have are more or less worthy of our cherishment.
Those who cherish the world will eventually be cherished by the world.
May we walk and love and cherish on the road of life. 
Accept death, butLove has no end
On the road of life, we will face all kinds of pain, and the death of a loved one is the most poignant. At that moment, it was as if the warmest light source in life had been pulled away, leaving only a cold and desperate black hole.
Carol Smith, an American journalist, said after the sudden death of her son Critofer: "After losing him, I feel like I am living on the edge of a cliff every day, with an indescribable bottomless abyss under my feet. I had to use all my strength and reason to keep myself from falling into the abyss and being swept back by the tide of memory. "The unbearable pain of life is the loss of a loved one. The Si people have passed away, but the meditation lasts forever; The dead are gone, and the living are like this. Life always goes on, even in the midst of endless grief, we must believe that although death is everyone's destination, it is not the end of love. When a loved one leaves, there is more than grief left behind. Death did not take everything away, and the care and love of the past life turned into precious memories that were preserved in the bottom of my heart. Whenever we miss them, they will come out of our hearts, silently accompany them, guard them firmly, and give us endless courage and strength. This love can heal all wounds, ** all pain, and sew up our already broken and broken lives with a stitch of redemption. These loves teach us to love more people. The love of the deceased will sprout and blossom in the hands of the living, and then be expressed and passed on by an individual in different ways, blooming more flowers of love and bearing more fruits of love. Just like the seeds of dandelions, scattered to all corners of the world. Love heals all wounds, all pain
Love is the warmest guardian of time; Cherishing is the most sincere promise of the years.
The world won't always be gentle with us, but no matter what has happened, we can be brave enough to put an end to it.
Losing will definitely make us sad, but it will exist in new ways, so, don't be sad for too long.
With love and cherishment, we will live hard and move forward with a smile.