My name is Zhou Min, I live in the countryside of Jiangbei, I am the only daughter in the family, because my mother can only have one child because of her health.
My husband Zhang Zhiguo and I met through a matchmaker. Zhiguo's family situation is that he has an older brother who is six years older than him, and the elder brother and sister-in-law work in the family farm, while the mother-in-law works hard alone and raises the two sons hard.
When I agreed to marry my husband, my mother-in-law also solemnly promised to help us build a new house.
After the new house was built, I was involved in everything from styling to shopping, and I took care of every detail by hand.
When the dream of a small family becomes a reality, I am full of hope for a happy life in the future.
However, one of my mother-in-law's decisions made me feel cold in an instant.
My sister-in-law is a greedy person, and she has no special ability to make money, and she is jealous when she sees that others are doing better than herself. Ever since she saw my well-renovated house, she began to complain endlessly, saying that the house that my mother-in-law built us was better than theirs in every way.
My mother-in-law had a headache about this, so she came to my house to discuss with me, "Min, Mom has something I want to discuss with you." ”
Mom, you name it. I hurriedly poured water for my mother-in-law.
Min, the truth is that your sister-in-law has been pregnant for several months, and it is not very convenient to move. Today she talked to me about something and wanted to change houses with you. The mother-in-law spoke cautiously.
What the? Changing houses? Mom, what does this mean? I do not quite understand. "I really didn't understand my mother-in-law's intentions.
That is, your sister-in-law wants to live here, and she proposes to let you live with her. The mother-in-law said incoherently.
How is this possible! This is the house I just carefully decorated, I can't be so wronged! "I'm a little impatient.
Min, don't worry, my mother also understands, this request is indeed excessive, and it is very difficult for you, but your sister-in-law is such a character, she said that if she doesn't change it, she will beat the child in her belly, don't want it. "My mother-in-law tried to comfort me.
She doesn't want children to care about me, are you bullying people like this? Mom, they are all daughters-in-law, she is older than me, why should I let her? I said angrily.
Min, Mom understands that you are sensible, and she didn't mean it, and I can't help it! The mother-in-law said helplessly.
Mom, don't say it again, I don't agree no matter what she says, go back, it's really troublesome! "I no longer listen to my mother-in-law explain how this kind of thing can happen, it's really unreasonable!
After sending my mother-in-law away, I sat on the sofa still angry, and my husband returned.
Daughter-in-law, my mother told me about the house, or we will change it! My husband suggested.
Hearing this, I angrily picked up the pillow and threw it at him, "Why should I change the house I just worked so hard to renovate for her, what kind of thing is she?" What is the reason for my hard work in taking care of my home? You guys are too bullying! "The more I talked, the more aggrieved I felt, and the tears couldn't stop flowing.
When my husband saw me crying, he hurriedly handed me a tissue to wipe my tears, "Daughter-in-law, let's calm down, don't cry, you also know that my sister-in-law is used to a few brothers, and she is used to being majestic, and she says nothing in our family."
In fact, the house they live in has only been built for two or three years, and it is also a new house, so we can replace it with nothing, just spend more money to redecorate. ”
It's not about money at all! It's really a bully in broad daylight, and they think that there is no one in my mother's house, and they all come to bully me. Wow... I was so emotional that I couldn't stop crying.
At this time, my mother-in-law ran into my house in a panic, shouting as she ran: "Zhiguo, come and have a look, help your mother stop your sister-in-law, she is going to drink pesticides because of the change of house!" ”
When the husband heard this, he immediately rushed to the front yard desperately.
Fortunately, when they arrived in time, the eldest brother, mother-in-law and husband worked together to snatch the pesticide bottle from the sister-in-law's hand and throw it far away.
My mother-in-law and husband returned to me in embarrassment, "Min, mom beg, change the house for her, my old life can't withstand such a toss, almost two lives are gone." The mother-in-law said with tears in her eyes.
Min, let's promise her, more is better than less, if something happens to my sister-in-law and the child in the womb, I'm afraid the responsibility will also be on our heads! My husband persuaded. At this moment, looking at this incompetent husband, I have no choice but to slap him.
My sister-in-law has always been lazy, and it is estimated that she has never cleaned the new house since she moved in, so it's no wonder that she is jealous of the house I have just renovated, who wants to live in such a "pig's nest".
After two or three days of hard work, I finally cleaned the dirty house.
In a fit of rage, I decided to smash all the dowry. The front yard was a dowry from my mother's family, and the back yard was prepared for me by my mother. I started to move furniture and household appliances, but I found that my sister-in-law was blocking the door and wouldn't let me move: "Don't move, these are mine!" ”
Daydreaming during the day, see clearly, this is my dowry from my mother's family, yours in the front yard, move by yourself! Without further ado, I pulled her arm away from the doorframe.
My sister-in-law is really a connoisseur of porcelain. I knew she was pregnant, and I didn't want to **, so I just gently tugged at her arm. Who knew that she fell on the door frame, and then lay on the ground: "Oh, it's amazing, I actually bullied people at the door of my house and grabbed things in broad daylight!" Come and see, everyone will come and see, and ...... will comment on it”
It's ......I've really seen the extreme of the scoundrel's skin, "I didn't touch you, don't go too far." The house has been given to you to live in, and you want to occupy my dowry, which is impossible! ”
How impossible, the house and the things inside are one, you have to change the whole house, you just can't move away, less of the same, I will strip your home! Although my sister-in-law was lying on the ground, she did not lose the momentum of a shrew at all.
Hearing our quarrel, my mother-in-law, my husband and my eldest brother hurried over, and the neighbors around us also watched.
My sister-in-law was rolling even harder on the ground, claiming that I was moving things from her new house. She threatened that if her mother-in-law didn't care, she would rather die with the child in her womb than be angry in this family!
I've never seen such a reversal of black and white since I was a child, and I'm completely speechless about her behavior!
Since I can't hit you, I can only smash what I brought. This is the dowry that my mother bought me, and since I won't use it, I just don't use it!
You can do as much as you like!
I turned and rushed into the house, grabbed a chair, and slammed it into the TV, which shattered into slag. Next is the refrigerator, the air conditioner, the dining table, the dresser, as long as it is mine, I will not let go of any of it.
For my sister-in-law's vexatiousness, my husband's weakness and incompetence, and my mother-in-law's partiality, all my anger erupted in this chair. At this moment, I am more fanatical than my sister-in-law lying outside.
I heard a crackling sound in the room, and the people who rushed in saw a mess, and I was holding up my chair like a madman, and my hair was scattered.
With angry eyes, I shouted at my sister-in-law on the ground: "Satisfied, if I don't give me my things, then don't use them!" ”
When no one stands in my way, I can only rely on myself! My husband had never seen me so violent, and he reached out to put the chair down, put his arm around my shoulder, and we walked out of the backyard together.
After this battle, my notoriety also spread in the village, and no matter where I went, there would be people pointing fingers behind my back.
In order to get rid of these criticisms, my husband and I decided to go to the city together.
When we first arrived in the city, we chose to live in an urban village on the edge of the city, where many people came to the city to work, and although the environment was messy, the rent was relatively cheap.
My husband got a job at a construction site, and I worked at a snack bar near the site. Despite the hard work and the relatively modest accommodation, I felt very satisfied.
At the snack bar, I quietly learned the craft while doing my work. The production of snacks is not too difficult, and the profits are relatively good. After a period of hard work, I started to have my own entrepreneurial idea.
After discussing with my husband, we rented a stall on another street near the construction site and started our own business.
My business is booming. In the beginning, in order to attract customers, I served a large amount of food. The people who come here to eat are mainly part-time workers and manual workers on construction sites, and their primary need for food is affordable and filling, and the taste is secondary, so I put a lot of effort into the amount of food. It didn't take long for my stall to get extremely busy.
In the beginning, my husband could only come over to help me in the evening after work. Sometimes when it's rush hour, I can't keep myself busy. After we discussed, we simply asked my husband to quit his job and devote himself to entrepreneurship together.
I live a busy life every day, and I am so busy with work that I even forget my menstrual cycle. One day, all of a sudden, my stomach hurt so much that my pants were soaked with blood, and I rushed to the hospital to learn that I had suffered a miscarriage.
At that time, my mother-in-law was taking care of my sister-in-law's confinement, and my mother was not well, so I chose not to tell them. I lay at home for a few days, drank some millet porridge, and with my young body, I decided to continue to run a stall with my husband to make money.
However, this time I did not have a good confinement, which caused great damage to my body, and in the next few years, I never conceived a child again.
Whenever my mother-in-law urged me to have a baby, my husband always used the excuse of making money to buy a house first, and cleverly prevaricated her expectations. And my husband didn't complain about me because I couldn't get pregnant.
Eventually, after a few years of hard work, and with the generosity of my parents, we finally bought a house of our own in the city.
After hearing the news of our purchase, my mother-in-law expressed her desire to come and see it. However, because I had a grudge against what had happened in previous years, I never agreed.
Subsequently, I received my mother's **, she told me that my mother-in-law is my husband's biological mother after all, and it is not good for me to always refuse like this, and my husband is also very embarrassed.
In the end, for the sake of my husband, when my mother-in-law said again that she wanted to come to see the house, I reluctantly agreed. My husband happily held me in a circle, and I hurriedly asked him to put it down, because I was now pregnant with a child and there could be no accidents. Yes, after 5 years of my last miscarriage, I'm finally pregnant!
Early that morning, we went to the wet market to buy a variety of ingredients, including meat, vegetables and seafood.
When I got home, I was busy cooking, and my husband went to the station to pick up my mother-in-law.
By noon, the dishes were ready and the doorbell was ringing. I wiped my hands and walked over to open the door. Behind my husband stood my mother-in-law, and I shouted "Mom" and bowed down to signal them to come in. However, when I saw the person behind my mother-in-law, I was stunned - the eldest brother and sister-in-law followed.
Oops, you bought a house and didn't tell us a word, you secretly got rich! The sister-in-law said sneeringly.
Seeing her fox-like face, I couldn't help but think of what she had done, and I ignored her and went straight into the kitchen to clean up.
Just as I was serving the dishes to the table and just sitting down, my mother-in-law suddenly spoke, "Today our family is all together, and I have a big happy event to announce - the old family is going to add Ding again, and I am going to be a grandmother again!" ”
I looked at my mother-in-law in a daze, and my face sank suddenly. Today, I came to see the new house, why did it suddenly become her celebration? What does it have to do with me when she's pregnant with a grandson?
The mother-in-law continued, "Old.
Second, Xiaomin, your sister-in-law is pregnant and needs a good environment, and your nephew is about to enter elementary school. Anyway, you don't have children yet, so it's better to do this, I'm in charge today, you can give this house to your brother and sister-in-law! ”
I couldn't believe my ears!
Mom, what did you just say? "I began to wonder if I had heard it wrong.
I said you should give this house to your brother and sister-in-law. Your sister-in-law is pregnant again and needs a good environment to raise the baby. It's not like you, after so many years, you don't even have a child, you can't do anything! The mother-in-law said with a look of disdain.
I was so angry that I couldn't speak, and I looked at my mother-in-law and husband as if the scene from a few years ago was about to repeat itself. I ......I ......For a moment, I was stunned and couldn't say anything.
Seeing that my expression was wrong, my husband quickly said, "Mom, Xiaomin is pregnant." We can let my sister-in-law move in first, and then discuss the house later. The husband tried to calm the matter.
I strongly disagreed, and spoke before he could finish.
What will be said later, it must be clarified now! I felt my blood rush to the top of my lungs, and I was finally able to speak, "Even if I'm not pregnant, this house doesn't have your share!" When the sister-in-law heard this, as if she had expected it, she began her clumsy wallowing performance again, rolling on the ground while holding her stomach.
However, such a botched performance seems useless to me.
No wonder my mother came to see the house again and again, and it felt like she smelled the smell before she came. Why are you so stubborn!
In my hometown, I just finished renovating the house, and she wanted to come over, and even my dowry was taken over, how can you be so shameless!
Cornered Zhiguo and me, we had to go to the city, toiling day and night, so tired that I didn't even know that I had a miscarriage.
After so many years, our hard-earned money, plus my own mother's money, barely bought this house. You're being targeted by you again, vampires know how to leave a way to live, and together with you, you're catching our family and sucking blood, right?
I'm here today, if you plan to move our house, kill me first, and I'll be a corpse here!" I stood up as I spoke, and lifted the table. "I cook for people, not for animals! If you want to eat, go and move a brick to gnaw! ”
I only heard a "pop" sound, and my face ached, and then I was slapped hard by the big brother, and then I didn't know anything.
When I woke up again, I found myself in a hospital bed. My mom held my hand and looked at me while crying.
Zhou Min, this is retribution, refusing to give the house, what is happening now, the child is okay, he deserves it! "The eldest brother and sister-in-law were still abusing in the corridor of the hospital.
Mom, my child ......"I need my mom to tell me the truth.
Xiaomin, the child is gone, ......"My mom cried even more.
I looked at my husband indifferently, "I know you are cowardly, but I didn't expect you to be so cowardly that you can't even protect your wife and children, let your mother and your brother and sister-in-law bully me like this, you can still listen to their insults!" ”
Min, let's give them the house, we can't afford to provoke and hide. My husband still chose to back down.
To marry you and enter the door of your house, I am simply blind! I said through gritted teeth.
I snatched the ** from my mother and pressed the three number keys of 110.
Daughter-in-law, don't call the police, we have something to say, after all, they are my brother and mother. "My husband looked at me anxiously and tried to stop me from calling the police.
Don't call me daughter-in-law, when you persuaded me to give them the house just now, we were no longer husband and wife. After being discharged from the hospital, we will divide the property and prepare for the divorce procedures! I said firmly.
The police quickly arrived at the hospital, retrieved my medical records of the miscarriage, and photographed my face, which was red and swollen from being beaten**.
The eldest brother slapped me and made me lose my child, and now it is his turn to accept the punishment of the law. In front of the police, even though Zhang Zhiguo and his mother begged repeatedly, I still didn't change my mind.
I eventually got divorced, and my eldest brother was punished by the law.
After being discharged from the hospital, in order to help me solve my difficulties, my mother tried her best to borrow money and pay off the part of the house payment that Zhang Zhiguo deserved. From then on, we were strangers.
Subsequently, in addition to being sentenced, Zhang Zhiguo's brother also had to pay me a sum of compensation.
A few months later, as my body gradually improved, I ushered in a new life.
Summary. Before getting married, it is important to understand each other's character, personality and family situation.
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