Li Meijuan is a 42-year-old divorced woman who is raising her son alone. A few months ago, she accidentally met a retired cadre while dancing in the square. The retired cadre had six or seven thousand yuan a monthPensionThere are also significant deposits. Life seems to be full of happiness, but he lacks a partner in his life. For Li Meijuan, his care and listening to her heart finally won her heart. They quickly stepped inMarriageThe temple is looking forward to a dull and happy future.
In fact, at this time, Li Meijuan and her second husband have been together for two months, and he is very good to her and her son, taking care of them attentively. The family lived a simple and happy life. Together, they feel happy and harmonious, as if all the unsatisfactory has become insignificant.
One day, however, Ms. Li made a seemingly reasonable request: she wanted him to take part of his savings to buy a house for her son. In this way, not only for the sonMarriageIt provides security and lays the foundation for his future residence. She felt that this request was not too much, after all, the savings had always been there, not to mention that they had become a family, and they should help their son as a matter of course.
However, when Li Meijuan made this request, her husband was furious. He thinks that Li Meijuan's purpose of marriage is not pure, but just wants to get a piece of the pie from him. Those savings were the ones he had saved up all his life to deal with possible illnesses and travel expenses in the future. He declared that no one would be allowed to touch a penny of his hard-earned savings! He even threatened to divorce and live on his own, if Li Meijuan brought up this request again.
Li Meijuan tried to explain to him: "I don't want to take all your savings, just take some of them to buy a house for my son." However, he didn't listen to her explanation at all and always stuck to his point of view. Now, it has been several days since he snubbed Li Meijuan, and she doesn't know about themMarriageWhether it can continue. Li Meijuan was puzzled, why did he, who was usually so gentle and considerate to her, become so cruel and ruthless when he mentioned money? She began to reflect on herself, did she make a mistake? This oneMarriageIs there still any point in retaining?
Li Meijuan fell intoMarriageof confusion. She used to believeMarriageIt is a stage for two people to support each other and make progress together, and it is the cornerstone of mutual support and understanding, but now she is beginning to doubt this belief. MarriageWhat exactly? Is it a profound game of love and money, or is it the interdependence of two people's hearts?
MarriageMoney issues are often the source of quarrels between couples, and even the fuse of breakage. In Lee's case, her husband seems to be very sensitive to wealth and has even become unapproachable. However, we can't blame him, everyone has a different upbringing and values. For him, the savings he has accumulated are the culmination of his life's hard work. He fears that this wealth will be shaken by others, and that there will be negative consequences of sharing.
However,MarriageThe economic problem is not just about the distribution of money, it is more about the respect and understanding between husband and wife. Li Meijuan is not a greedy person, she is just thinking about her son's future happiness. She hopes to provide a stable living environment for her son, after all, this child is also their family.
MarriageWhat is needed is not only material balance, but also spiritual harmonyEmotioninput. For Li Meijuan, what she longs for is more than just an economic foundationMarriageI hope to face the ups and downs of life with my husband and work together to create a better future.
In the entanglement and contradictions, Li Meijuan began to think about her and her husband'sMarriageWhether there is still a need to exist. One emphasizes money and ignoresEmotionofMarriageCan it really last long? A person who is unable to think about the sake of family members and only cares about his own personal interestsMarriageCan it really bring happiness and satisfaction to both parties?
Perhaps, Li Meijuan needs to re-examine her presentMarriage。She needs to ask herself, is she really willing to spend her life with someone who can't understand her heart's needs? Perhaps, this oneMarriageThe crisis was an opportunity for her to awaken the true needs of her heart. Whatever decision she makes, she needs to find the answer within herself.
Money definitely isMarriageAn important issue, however, money should not be a sabotageMarriageThe only reason. MarriageIt should be based on mutual respect and understanding, and both sides should work together to strive for a common goal and life. IfMarriageIf the various disputes and imbalances are not properly addressed, the accumulation of time may beMarriagePush to the brink of cracking.
For Li Meijuan, she can sit down with her husband and communicate with her husband after careful consideration, and find a solution to the problem. If the husband can understand her needs and is willing to compromise and work hard for the sake of common family happiness, then this oneMarriageThere is still room for redemption. But if her husband insists on his opinion and is unwilling to compromise and communicate, then Li Meijuan needs to make the right choice for the future of herself and her son.
This is a story about the bitter tears of a remarried woman, and her plight also makes us reflectMarriageThe question of money. MarriageIt should not be just an exchange of interests, but love andEmotionof the combination. Only when both parties can truly understand each other's needs and treat each other as equals can they come together and create a better and happier future.