When someone says "thank you" to you, don't say "no thanks", teach you three high-EQ replies
In our lives, we often encounter situations where others ask us for help. If it's something that is within their means, many people will help. When they help others solve their problems, they will also thank us in their own way. When we hear someone say "thank you" to us, many people will only reply awkwardly:"No thanks, no thanks". So how can you respond with high emotional intelligence? Teach you three sentences to make the other person sound more comfortable.
It's not enough to worry about it.
When we hear their gratitude after helping others, many people feel uncomfortable. You know, when we help others, it's really heartfelt when people thank us, but if we just reply to them without thanking them, it sounds a bit too blunt, and at the same time, it will open up a sense of distance from others. If we don't want to use it this way, we can do it another way.
For example, replying to them: "What a lot of effort, why worry about it." This sentence suddenly sounds like a sense of gentleness, elegance and temperament. When others hear your words, they will be like a spring breeze blowing on their cheeks, and their hearts will also be touched. This sentence is actually telling others that I help you from the heart, you don't have to have any psychological burden, and I won't ask you to remember my kindness.
Glad to help you.
We are often exposed to all kinds of things in our lives, and helping others is a very common thing, some things are just a gesture. While we think this way, it doesn't seem to others, and they are likely to think that we are reaching out to them to make up for it when the time is right. In fact, there is no need at all, in order to dispel this thought, we can respond to their thanks in a better way.
For example: "I'm glad to help you", when we say this sentence, many people's inner burden will be completely relaxed. At this time, they will know in their hearts that we are willing to help them, and do not expect anything from them. When they know our inner thoughts, they will naturally feel happy and sincere, so they will be more willing to take the initiative to get closer to us.
With our relationship, we don't need to see outside.
Everyone will have more or less friends around them, and friends will also involve the problem of helping each other, which is also a very normal thing, and there is no need to worry too much. When a friend asks us for help, many people's first reaction is to do their best to help, and if we can help them do something right, we are really happy and they will thank us. When we meet a friend who says thank you, we need to give them an affirmative response.
For example: "The relationship with us does not need to be seen", because friends themselves are very close existences, if friends still cherish each other, it seems a little too distant. And this sentence can easily bring the relationship between each other closer, make the relationship between the two more intimate, and it is also good for each other to get along in the future.