In December 2020, Zhou Xun publicly announced his divorce from Gao Shengyuan. Some people are happy and some are sad, especially Zhou Xun's father, Zhou Tianyu, who feels sorry for his daughter's marriage.
As early as when Zhou Xun was 28 years old, Zhou Tianyu said sincerely: Dad only hopes that you can get married as soon as possible and have a perfect home, so that we can completely put our minds at ease.
However, her marriage with Gao Shengyuan was broken, which also made her father Zhou Tianyu cry, and he hoped that his daughter could get married and have children all his life, why is this simple wish so difficult to achieve?
In February 2022, Zhou Xun took her boyfriend Zhuo Zhuo back to his hometown to visit his parents, and Zhou Xun, who had a new relationship, did not make Zhou Tianyu feel happy, but was full of worries. Excellence is 13 years younger than Zhou Xun, which is a typical "sister and brother love".
Looking at his daughter after going through ups and downs in her relationship, and now she has found a little boyfriend, how can this not make Zhou's father entangled?
Zhou Xun was born in 1974 in an ordinary family in Quzhou, Zhejiang, his father Zhou Tianyu is a projectionist in a movie theater, and his mother Chen Yiqin is a salesperson in a department store.
Zhou Tianyu likes girls very much, and when he and Chen Yiqin first got married, he said to her: If our first child is a girl, we will not give birth, if it is a boy, we will give birth until there is a girl.
Heaven fulfilled people's wishes, Zhou Xun's birth gave Zhou Tianyu a surprise, looking at his infant daughter, Zhou Tianyu kissed and kissed on the immature little face.
Zhou Xun's name was given by her father, hoping that she could become a writer like Lu Xun when she grew up, or like painting like herself, and she could embark on the road of a painter in the future.
Zhou Tianyu, who served as a film projectionist, also served as the painting of movie posters in the theater, in order to be able to cultivate his daughter's artistic quality, when Zhou Xun could take a step, he took her to the suburbs to see the beautiful landscape and let her feel the beauty of nature.
It's just that Zhou Xun, who has big eyes and a god, is like a full elf, who has no interest in painting, but likes to watch movies. With her father's work, she often occupies the first row of seats in the cinema, and although she is only 3 years old, she feels that watching movies is what she enjoys the most.
Zhou Xun still can't understand and understand the story and plot on the screen, but the joys, sorrows and sorrows of the characters deeply attracted her, and she even watched several movies in a row and didn't want to leave the cinema.
The eccentric Zhou Xun will imitate the characters on the screen from time to time, which makes Zhou Tianyu, who loves his daughter, directly send him to the Children's Palace to learn dance, which can make Zhou Xun dance happily.
Because he has no dancing background, Zhou Xun's dancing is self-taught in imitation of movies, so every time he practices the basic skills of dance, he can't stand the pain. The father who accompanied him on the side did not feel distressed at all, and he was strict with every action and satisfied the teacher with the standard.
In the face of his father's strict requirements, Zhou Xun also played a petty temper and got up. But Zhou Tianyu used the agitation method: It seems that you don't like dancing anymore, let's go back.
Zhou Xun, who has a stubborn personality, will admit defeat so easily, so he has to continue to practice his basic skills. Because of the encouragement and stimulation of his father, Zhou Xun also laid a solid foundation for dance.
Zhou Xun, who has studied dance, has also become a famous literary student in the school with his dancing posture.
From elementary school to junior high school, Zhou Xun's grades have always been good, and Zhou Tianyu and Chen Yiqin also designed a future for their daughter: study hard, be admitted to the ideal university, and find a stable job after graduation.
It's just that Zhou Xun, who loves literature and art, completely subverted his parents' plans. Although Zhou Xun was admitted to the city's key high school, she also applied for the examination of Zhejiang Art School and was admitted.
High school or art school? Zhou Tianyu and his wife hoped that she could go to a key high school, but Zhou Xun's choice was the opposite. Regarding his daughter's choice, Zhou Tianyu did not impose intervention, but obeyed his daughter's choice.
In Zhejiang Art School, Zhou Xun is still studying dance, which is an extremely difficult major, even if Zhou Xun recalls it now, it is described as "horror".
However, with his father's encouragement and support, Zhou Xun gritted his teeth and persevered, and became an excellent student in the class, and also occupied the position of solo dancer and lead dancer during the performance.
In 1991, photographers often went to the school to choose models to shoot wall calendars. Zhou Xun, who is naturally beautiful, is very eye-catching in the school, and he has been selected the most times.
Qian Yuqiang, the photographer who took pictures of her, recalled: Zhou Xun flashed with artistic spirituality, and she was serious and dedicated.
Regarding Zhou Xun's small fame, Zhou Tianyu was not only happy, but also worried. In his opinion, his daughter is only in her teens, and at such an age when she seems to understand what she doesn't understand, the guidance of her elders and relatives and friends is very important.
Because he couldn't be by his daughter's side every day, Zhou Tianyu had no choice but to pin his hopes on Qian Yuqiang, and even wrote a letter to thank him, and hoped that he could educate and supervise her like an elder.
After graduating from art school, Zhou Xun was assigned to work in the local song and dance troupe, and just when she was about to go to work, she received a ** from the famous director Xie Tieli: I have seen the wall calendar you shot, it is very aura, there is still a lack of a role in my movie "Tomb Wasteland", come here.
Xie Tieli's words can be said to have stirred Zhou Xun's heart, and the dream of stardom that had been silent for many years suddenly woke up, and she said to her parents: I want to go to Beijing to film.
Hearing Zhou Xun's words, Zhou Tianyu was naturally reluctant, after all, his daughter was still young, and he hoped that his daughter could be by his side. However, the stubborn Zhou Xun, after leaving a letter to his parents, quietly left and boarded the train to Beijing.
came to Beijing for the crew of "Tomb Wasteland", because it was a small role, the filming was completed in a few days. When she left the crew and came to the overpass, looking at the magnificent Beijing city, Zhou Xun secretly vowed that she must take root here.
Like many "North Drifters", Zhou Xun lived in a dark and dreary basement.
As the days passed, the salary of "Tomb Wasteland" was almost spent, which had to make Zhou Xun hurry up and find a new play. However, because she is not famous and is not from a professional background, the director didn't even give her the opportunity to audition.
hit the wall again and again, which made Zhou Xun very tired. Every night, Zhou Xun misses his parents in Zhejiang and that warm home. It's just that she didn't dare to let her parents know her bad situation, because she was afraid that they would be sad, and she was even more afraid that they would persuade her to go back.
In order to prove himself, Zhou Xun also made up his mind: I will never go back if I don't make a name for myself.
Although Zhou Tianyu loves her daughter very much, they understand her daughter's persistence in her dreams, so they also buried that deep concern in the deepest part of their hearts, and used encouragement and support to help their daughter pursue her dreams.
Since 1994, Zhou Xun has successively performed well in movies such as "Daughter Red", "Fengyue", "Jing Ke Assassinates the King of Qin", and watched his daughter gradually achieve results, and the hanging heart slowly relaxed.
In 1998, Zhou Xun won the Best Actress Award at the Paris International Film Festival for the movie "Suzhou River", and Zhou Xun can be regarded as a firm foothold in the entertainment industry.
It's just that compared with the smooth sailing career, Zhou Xun's emotional aspect is particularly bumpy.
It was also in this year that Zhou Xun and Dou Peng, who had been in love for 5 years, broke up, and after falling out of love, Zhou Xun felt that his life was gloomy and almost lost the courage to live.
At that time, Zhou Tianyu wanted to find an opportunity to mention marriage to his daughter, and he also discussed it with his wife Chen Yiqin, and when his daughter got married and had children, he went to Beijing to help his daughter and son-in-law take care of the children, so that they could be busy with their careers wholeheartedly.
But the news of Zhou Xun's lovelorn came, which made the parents hurry to Beijing and came to their daughter's residence.
Zhou Xun, who has always been neat, has a messy house, and his clothes and socks are thrown everywhere. And Zhou Xun was lying quietly on the bed, his eyes were dull, Zhou Tianyu talked to her, and she also asked and answered.
This made Zhou Tianyu anxious, he was in tears, and hurriedly took his daughter to the hospital, and the doctor told him that Zhou Xun suffered from a slight autism, which made Zhou Tianyu and his wife Chen Yiqin shed sad tears.
The doctor told Zhou Tianyu that Zhou Xun's symptoms were only mild and could be cured.
Since then, Zhou Tianyu and his wife Chen Yiqin have accompanied their daughter to accept ** every week, and with the company of his parents, Zhou Xun's complexion gradually improved, and he began to take the initiative to talk to them.
Two months later, the doctor told Zhou Tianyu: Zhou Xun's condition is much better, but he still has to continue**, and the method adopted is family affection**.
Zhou Xun This is a heart disease, compared with drugs, there is no doubt that family affection is better and more effective.
So, Zhou Tianyu took his daughter back to Quzhou, Zhejiang, and Zhou Xun in his hometown can evoke that beautiful memory when he looks at the familiar grass and trees.
In order to let his daughter out of sadness, Zhou Tianyu took Zhou Xun through the primary school, the Children's Palace, and those familiar streets, and contacted the partners who grew up together, and the warm and happy faces of relatives and friends made Zhou Xun feel cordial and warm.
Under Zhou Tianyu's care, Zhou Xun also walked out of the troubles and walked out of those black days, and she was back with radiance.
In 2000, during the filming of Jin Yong's martial arts drama "The Legend of the Condor Heroes", Zhou Xun and Li Yapeng fell in love. At that time, Zhou Xun pinned all his love on Li Yapeng.
She was happy, and she publicly said in front of **: Li Yapeng fulfilled all my fantasies about men when I was a child.
Seeing his daughter sweetly with her beloved, Zhou Tianyu was very happy and relieved.
In Zhou Tianyu's view, it doesn't matter how many flowers and honors Zhou Xun gets, they most hope that their daughter can find a man who truly loves her and form a happy family.
But fate is like that, always likes to play tricks on people. With the appearance of Faye Wong, the relationship between Zhou Xun and Li Yapeng also drifted away. broke out twice in a row, and completely knocked Zhou Xun down.
Zhou Xun, who suffered from emotional injury, was afraid of facing unfamiliar eyes, so he closed himself off and refused to go anywhere, and he quickly lost weight. Looking at his haggard daughter, Zhou Tianyu was very anxious, but he didn't know how to comfort him.
The father took Zhou Xun everywhere every day to relax, and used other things to dissipate his daughter's sadness, while his mother Chen Yiqin boiled porridge for Zhou Xun to drink every day. For the love of his parents, Zhou Xun felt endless guilt for his parents.
Since then, Zhou Xun has also exposed many relationships, and it was even more uproarious, but Zhou Tianyu still chose to silently guard his daughter. In terms of love, Zhou Tianyu feels that Zhou Xun has the ability to deal with it independently, so he never intervenes, let alone gets involved.
In the entertainment industry, a director commented on Zhou Xun: Zhou Xun knows the world by acting and love, and such an actor has a richer understanding of life and life.
Indeed, over the years, Zhou Xun's love has been vigorous, but every time it has ended in failure. For Zhou Xun, it was the thoughtfulness and care of her father Zhou Tianyu and mother Chen Yiqin that gave her the courage to get out of the whirlpool and regain herself.
From an ignorant girl to a big star who has gone through the tribulations of the rivers and lakes, it is the most important growth stage in Zhou Xun's life, whether it is a person or an artist, he has experienced countless ups and downs.
Whenever he is sad, Zhou Xun will think of his parents, which are his eternal haven.
Once, when Zhou Xun returned to his hometown of Quzhou, Zhou Tianyu went to the train station to pick her up. Zhou Xun, who missed his parents very much, saw a familiar face at a glance, and wanted to shout, but he looked at that face and was confused.
Unknowingly, Zhou Xun found that his father, who was full of black hair, had turned his temples white. Zhou Xun, who was full of thoughts, suddenly had two lines of tears in his eyes.
Seeing her father walking towards her, she hurriedly turned around to wipe away her tears, greeted her father with a cheerful smile, and held her father's Zhou Xun, with infinite attachment in her heart.
Back at home, Zhou Xun snuggled up to her father like a little girl: Dad, your hair is gray, I'll help you pull it out.
Zhou Tianyu smiled: Silly boy, it will grow if you pull it out, you have become a big girl, how can your father not be old.
Listening to her father's words, Zhou Xun's heart was sour, and she understood that some things could never be made up.
For Zhou Xun, who has been adrift all year round, being able to reunite with his parents is the most ideal state of happiness in his heart. So, she discussed with her parents whether she wanted to move to Beijing to live together, and asked her parents if they had any concerns and whether they could get used to it.
Zhou Tianyu said to her: Daughter, these are nothing, as long as we can be by your side.
In 2002, Zhou Xun bought a house in Beijing and brought his parents to live.
It's just the happiness of reunion, but it can only be interpreted in a special way. Because of filming, Zhou Xun went home every day either early in the morning or late at night, and her communication with her parents was short-lived, and she could only use notes to convey family affection.
On the other hand, Zhou Tianyu is most worried about his daughter's body, afraid that she will not be able to bear the heavy work, so he cooks in different ways every day, and also buys nutritious recipes to learn.
No matter when Zhou Xun comes home, he can see the note left by his parents: There is chicken soup in the kitchen, drink a bowl and then go to sleep.
The biggest impact of getting together with his parents on Zhou Xun is his desire for marriage and family.
Zhou Xun said: Actually, I have always liked the family, especially the relationship between my parents is very harmonious, which left me with a very good impression of the family.
The love between Zhou Tianyu and Chen Yiqin has always been very fresh, even if decades have passed, both of them have entered the age of sixties, but they are still very affectionate.
When he is fine, Zhou Tianyu will take a walk with Chen Yiqin with his fingers interlocked. If the kitchen is hot when cooking in summer, Zhou Tianyu will gently fan Chen Yiqin with a pu fan.
For decades, Zhou Xun, who grew up in such an environment, has always longed to meet a man like his father and have a happy love like his parents.
Zhou Xun said: I think in this world, there is no husband and wife who love each other more than my parents, there is no lover person than my father, my father's love for my mother is so perfect, sometimes I feel that my father is too tired, but he will tell me that when a person has love in his heart, he does not feel tired of anything.
In the circle, Zhou Xun's popularity is also very good, and he is famous for being sincere and friendly to others. Someone asked her why her personality is so good
She will say: Born, it is related to my family, since I was a child, I have never seen my parents quarrel, so I don't understand why people quarrel, and I treat people sincerely and be kind to people, it should be related to my father's education.
The love of Zhou Tianyu and Chen Yiqin not only created a good family atmosphere for their daughter, but also set an example for their daughter's emotions.
In July 2014, Zhou Xun and Gao Shengyuan got married.
At that time, Gao Shengyuan was proud of his wife's talent and achievements, and put Zhou Xun's needs first. They often don't need too many words to get along, they can't help laughing, looking at the sweet love of their daughter and son-in-law, which makes Zhou Tianyu feel at ease.
Someone once asked Zhou Xun, what attracts you most about Gao Shengyuan? Zhou Xun blurted out: Simple.
In fact, this simplicity is undoubtedly like a pure love with parents, mutual compassion and care.
However, the sweet time did not last long, and the two had conflicts.
In 2016, Gao Shengyuan came up with the idea of returning to the United States for development, and even wanted to invest in a company with his friends, so he borrowed 3 million from Zhou Xun because of limited funds.
As soon as she heard that it was an investment, Zhou Xun became cautious, she was afraid that her husband would be deceived, after all, how many celebrities in the circle were deceived by partners and friends, and in the end, the money was gone, and she still owed a lot of debt.
So, Zhou Xun said to Gao Shengyuan: You are an actor and you don't know how to invest, so you can still film with peace of mind, and investment will be waived.
Because of Zhou Xun's refusal, Gao Shengyuan also hurt his self-esteem, he thought that Zhou Xun didn't regard himself as a husband, otherwise how could he not support himself.
As soon as you said a word, the two had a fierce quarrel. A lot of sweet love is slowly going to destruction in this distrust, and the same is true for Zhou Xun and Gao Shengyuan.
After the two quarreled, Gao Sheng went to the United States without looking back, and the two also fell into a cold war.
It's just that in the face of Zhou Xun and Gao Shengyuan's situation, Zhou Tianyu and Chen Yiqin didn't know, and thought that their daughter and son-in-law were very affectionate, so they urged their daughter to almost give birth to a baby, for them, their biggest wish is to be grandparents.
Zhou Xun understands his parents' thoughts very well, after all, many years ago, they said: I hope you can get married, get married and have children, so that we can rest assured.
However, Zhou Xun, who had a conflict with Gao Shengyuan, could only refuse again and again. After a long time, Zhou Tianyu also noticed the problem, in the past, Gao Shengyuan would come to visit them from time to time, but now he didn't.
Zhou Tianyu asked his daughter what was going on, but Zhou Xun used busy work as an excuse every time, despite this, Zhou Tianyu also persuaded Zhou Xun to be more tolerant and understanding, husband and wife life is not so simple, and more communication should be made.
In December 2020, Zhou Xun and Gao Shengyuan divorced.
Because the breakdown of the marriage was hidden from the parents, and they didn't tell the truth to their parents until after the divorce, which made Zhou Tianyu and Chen Yiqin very sad, they have been looking forward to their daughter's happiness, but why is this simple wish so difficult to achieve?
Faced with his daughter's divorce, Zhou Tianyu also persuaded Zhou Xun and asked her if she had any chance to recover, she could consider having a child, and if she had children, she might be able to maintain her marriage.
But Zhou Xun said: I'm sorry, parents, I don't want to divorce Gao Shengyuan, but there is really no way.
Hearing his daughter's words, Zhou Tianyu also understood that the past is the past, and there is no way to get it back. They can only accompany their daughter carefully to help her get out of the grief of losing marriage as soon as possible.
In 2021, Zhou Xun met the young guitarist Excellence, and in the face of the talented Excellence, Zhou Xun fell in love again.
It's just that for this young boyfriend, his father Zhou Tianyu is very worried, in their opinion, this "sister and brother love" is a little unreliable, so they want to call their daughter home and talk to her well.
In 2022, Zhou Xun took Excellence to his hometown in Quzhou to visit his parents, and in the face of this young man, Zhou Tianyu and Chen Yiqin's performance was a little cold, and there was almost no communication.
Although they have always longed for their daughter to have a good home, but now this is a little boyfriend, which makes them a little relieved, thinking that Zhuo Zhuo will not take good care of their daughter, and even more worried about whether they can enter marriage.
Every time she thinks of this, Zhou Tianyu's heart can't help but hurt, worrying about her new relationship.
As parents, they all want to see their children start a family and have a full house of children and grandchildren, which is their lifelong wish.
Although love can be regardless of age, marriage is not the same as love, because after all, it involves two families, and life is not so romantic, some are just plain, only in this plain hand in hand, in order to meet a longer happiness.
The most romantic thing is companionship.