A person can only see what he wants to see, I found that everyone can only see what is in his heart, such as a person with dark psychology, always looking at whether others have dark places, if a person is very sunny, he has no interest.
Everyone sees the world in their own hearts, and what we have in our hearts, we will see, and this is all beings.
Thinking is divided into many levels, and today I watched a blogger's Douyin, she just came out of the conflict between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The low-level cognition is to focus on feelings and emotions, and after experiencing various contradictions, I realized that we should focus on ourselves, not to be entangled with rotten people, not to care about other people's feelings, not to care whether others love you or not, and to love yourself This is the first step to get rid of yourself. Many people can't pass the first hurdle and even get sick.
Get out of this layer, love yourself, you have good luck, many people are entangled in all kinds of contradictions, hate a person and hate a lifetime, this is not recognizing the truth of life.
I followed a very positive blogger again, but it is such a blogger, and there are still people who guess him with the mind of a small belly and chicken intestines. People can only see how big things are in their hearts, and what they don't gain in their hearts is what they can't see.
All the problems we encounter are matched with our psychology, and only by changing ourselves can we change everything. I changed my perception through reading, and my circle also changed, and my former friends and relatives stopped interacting.
Circles are very important, and a person is formed by the circles with which he associates.