Will you meet such a person:
obviously doesn't love you anymore, but always pretends to get along with you as if nothing happened;
I don't want to talk to you, but I always say something inconsequential;
I don't want to have any communication with you, but I always say ambiguous things in the circle of friends;
I don't want to be with you, but I always ask you for love, or refuse your kindness.
Love is simple and complicated. The simplicity lies in the fact that as long as you love each other, you can be together; The complication lies in the fact that when you have a feeling of love, you need to put in sincerity and effort.
You love him very much, but he doesn't love you.
You like him a lot, he likes you, but you're not together, why is that? ”
I don't know, but I think we're going to be together. ”
Many people have such a mentality, they obviously like each other, but they want to pretend that they don't care. thinks that as long as you don't show it, you can hide it from the world and pretend not to know the other party's intentions.
But how can love be so easy? How can two people who really love each other not know each other's thoughts? It's just that I don't dare to say it.
I love you" is easy to say, but how many people can really do it? Because these three words are too easy to say.
In love, the greatest sorrow is to take each other's contribution for granted.
In this world, no one will be unconditionally good to anyone, and no one will always pay for you.
Some people, no matter how good you are to him, he will not take it to heart, and some people, no matter how good you are to him, he will not cherish it.
This is only the case in love.
In the face of your contribution, he never knows how to be grateful.
There is a feeling called: "I have given so much for you, but you always don't know how to cherish it." ”
Some people ask me in confusion, "Why are you so nice to me, but I still feel unhappy?" ”
In this world, nothing is taken for granted. In love, the greatest sorrow is to take each other's contribution for granted.
But love is mutual, and giving and gaining in love is originally a reciprocal relationship.
If you only think about your own efforts, but think about the rewards of others; If you only think about the good of others for you, and you don't have anything to do with others, then this kind of relationship is definitely unhealthy.
You don't know love, and you won't love.
without the ability to love", this is a big problem.
It may be that you have not felt true love, so you don't know what true love is, or you have never been loved by others, so you don't know how to love.
But no matter what, we need to know one fact: love is not all there is to life.
Just because you can't love others doesn't mean you can't love yourself well.
Many times, we always measure ourselves by other people's standards and forget what we are supposed to do.
That's why we say, "Love is like a math problem, but we always get it wrong." ”
Not loving starts with disgust.
Many people say that when they are in love, they have zero IQ.
But I feel that the IQ in love is zero.
When you start to dislike each other, it is the beginning of a rift in love.
In love, many people don't know who they dislike.
You dislike the other person for not being self-motivated and not motivated enough; You dislike the other person for not being romantic enough and not emotional; You dislike the other person for not being considerate enough and are indifferent to yourself; You dislike the other party for being ugly and in ...... bad shape
There is a saying that says, "There is no love without a cause, and there is no hate without a cause." ”
People who love you are good to you for a reason; There is also a reason why people who don't love you treat you badly.
If a person loves you, they will accept all your shortcomings. And if a person doesn't love you anymore, no matter how good he is, it will be considered a "sin".