Love is the most beautiful thing in life.
But some people have never been in love once, but in later life, they have always been accompanied by someone.
But some people, when they are young, will say some vows to love you for a lifetime, but when they reach middle age, they will say some words that they don't love.
So the question arises: why do they say nice things when they are alone? And when two people are together, they don't say such things?
In fact, the answer is simple: they just want to get what they want in their relationship.
I want to get what I want.
It is impossible to get everything in a person's life, especially when it comes to feelings.
Some people will always put their expectations on others, and always hope that they can get what they want through others.
But things in relationships are always changing rapidly, maybe you didn't get what you wanted, maybe you already got it.
But it doesn't matter, it's about whether you still have that joy after you get it.
For those who have already gotten what they want, but still want to keep getting more, they will choose to leave.
Because they already have a lot, they don't need to have more in their eyes.
That's why they choose to leave.
And those who are still pursuing what they want tend to put more effort into the process, and in this way, they will get more.
In a relationship, you don't feel love.
Love is a feeling.
But in a relationship, if a person really doesn't feel love, then there will definitely be problems in the relationship.
When two people are together, if one person does not feel love, then the relationship is not healthy.
You can imagine: how bad it would be when two people are together and you don't feel each other's love?
And those who feel loved in a relationship, they know how to manage their feelings.
Because they know how to warm up the relationship between two people and make two people better.
And those who don't feel love in their relationship, they can easily do things that hurt each other.
Therefore, if a person does not feel love, then he must be carried away by love.
Because he doesn't know what he wants, he will do things that hurt the other person.
No longer pay for each other.
There is a saying: "If you love someone, you will give it willingly." ”
But some people, after going through too much, have understood the process of loving someone, and understand that giving will also be rewarded.
When they see other people's love, getting better and better because of their own giving, they will not give anymore.
They will feel that loving someone should be like this. And those who don't love someone, but continue to give.
Therefore, "adults don't love anymore", not because the other party has changed their minds, but because their efforts have not been rewarded.
But are you satisfied with the result? If you are also not satisfied with such results, then please keep up the good work.
Because love is a matter of two people, not one person working hard. If the other person is not good enough for you, then you should stop paying for him.
Feelings are no longer fresh.
In life, we meet a lot of people, some of whom get along well with us, and some of whom don't. And this largely depends on whether we are willing to give our sincerity when we get along.
If when two people are together, the other person always has a sense of freshness, then his love for you will grow deeper and deeper. But if two people have been together for a long time and are already familiar with each other to a certain extent, then the relationship has no freshness.
At this time, they will also love you less and less. Because they are used to giving their hearts to you, and you are no longer the most important person in their hearts.