The standards of each era are different, and the definition of the poor naturally changes with the times, so what is the definition of the poor in the new era of 2024. Materially, having a house and a car is a poor man's standard, and spiritually it is deprived.
The poor people in my parents' life are more materially lacking, our generation does not worry about material food and drink, and spiritually receives the information of Tiannan and Haibei, from the beginning of the overwhelmed to the end will find that everything is nothing, spiritually lacking, and this comes from life.
People live for a lifetime, but they are busy for others, and you need to be recognized by others to prove that you are alive, for most ordinary people. The closest to you are your parents, who may not care when you are young, but as you mature, you find that this recognition is indispensable. Just like marriage, a marriage that is not approved by parents is an unhappy marriage.
The children of poor families are in charge of the family early, talking about their parents' generation, because of material deprivation, they mature very early, know what they want, and complete the major event of life early - marriage. It is only after marriage that a person is truly mature. And our generation, because of material satisfaction and spiritual acceptance of external information, should mature early, while most ordinary people have to go through time to mature. At this time, the average person is close to thirty years old, so he becomes an older youth, and it becomes a big difficulty to get married.
As an older young man who is already 30 years old, especially friends of the same age who have completed major life events, he is at a loss for what to do alone, and his psychological anxiety is high. Especially what was obviously available before, but lost it because of its own immaturity. That's the most painful, the key is that the ability in this area is not enough, and the future is more and more invisible, so the vicious circle and psychological pressure are infinite. Sometimes it's really not good for people to be too sober, and it's impossible to be muddy, and society will teach you to be a man.
At this time, I realized that life was so difficult, I couldn't go on, and I couldn't break it. Most of the pressure on contemporary young people stems from this, and they are getting better and better materially, but they can only rely on themselves spiritually.