Winning a daughter is undoubtedly a great joy for every parent, but if both parents are minors, it is a disaster.
In 2009, a news sensation spread across the UK that a 13-year-old British boy had become a father.
When the outside world was either shocked or angry or had a heated discussion with the attitude of watching the play, Alfie, who was the person concerned, was a 13-year-old boy who liked to be a father, but he was immersed in the joy of becoming a father for the first time.
Even though he didn't have a penny in his pocket and didn't know how to feed his children, he was genuinely happy.
It's a pity that this joy didn't last long, and then there was a very dramatic turn, which made this absurd farce attract the attention of the outside world, and the ending of the 13-year-old boy was also embarrassing.
He was once dubbed "the youngest father in the UK", but now that past has become an unspeakable nightmare for him.
When Alfie was 12 years old, he met 14-year-old Centel, and the two families lived closely, and Alfie's parents were busy working to support the family, so Alfie and Centel became good playmates, playing together all day, and the relationship between the two was so good that they sometimes stayed at each other's homes.
The adults of the two families didn't think much of it, after all, in their eyes, Alfie and Xandel were just good friends, and they were both so young.
But the parents didn't expect that because of their negligent discipline, the two children would cross the line early and steal the forbidden fruit.
Nearly 3 months after an unsafe sex, Xandel sensed something was wrong, so she called Alfie to the hospital for a check-up, and was shocked to learn that she was pregnant.
Cindel was so frightened that she couldn't stop crying, and there was only one thought in her head, that is, she must never tell her mother.
Both of them are not in a good family, the Cindell family rents a small rental house, she has a bunch of younger brothers, and her father is a vagrant.
Her mother, Penny, was already shouldering the burden of supporting her family, and Xandro couldn't imagine how her mother would react when she heard the news, afraid that she would really kill herself.
Alfie was also frightened enough by the unexpected news at first, but after the panic, the innocent little boy quickly felt joy.
"I'm going to be a father! ”Alfie thought to himself.
The little boy, who was still in the period of changing his voice, spontaneously developed a sense of heroic responsibility, and he patted his immature chest and promised his girlfriend that he would take good care of their mother and son.
Both are anti-abortionists, so they decided to keep the child, and Alfie was also actively responsible, accompanying his girlfriend to regular doctor visits, prenatal checkups, and keeping this secret with her, which was destined to be hidden for a long time.
After all, paper can't contain the fire, and after 18 weeks of pregnancy, Xander had a strong pregnancy reaction, and her mother Penny was shocked to find that her young daughter had already been secretly knotted!
This unacceptable secret is finally laid out in front of the two families.
But the wood is already in the boat, and no matter how much the adults collapse, it is useless, they can only be forced to accept this reality, and Cindel has been waiting at home to give birth.
On February 9, 2009, Xander gave birth to a 3-pound healthy baby girl in the hospital.
The British "Sun" seized the opportunity and exclusively disclosed the news 4 days after Centel gave birth - a 13-year-old boy became a father!
The jaw-dropping news soon caused an uproar both in the UK and abroad.
The report is also accompanied by Alfie and the baby girl's **, who is only 1.2 meters tall and has a childish baby face, holding a little baby with a red face and eyes that has not yet opened his eyes, and holds a bottle to feed her.
There is also a "family photo" of Alfie and Xandel holding the baby girl, and the two novice parents hold the baby in their arms, one left and one right.
It's just that compared to Alfie, Centel looks much more mature than Alfie in appearance, maybe Alfie's appearance is too childish, and Centel is almost twice his size.
To tell the truth, I just pulled an uninformed person, pointed to ** and asked him to guess what the relationship between the three people on the picture is, I believe that anyone will not hesitate to think that this is a photo of a mother who has just given birth to a second child and her eldest son and youngest daughter.
*Interview Alfie and ask him how it feels to be a father at such a young age.
Compared to the excitement before the child was born, Alfie now seems a little confused.
When he first learned that Adele was pregnant, he felt happy because he thought it was a good thing to have a child with the person he liked, after all, people often call it "the crystallization of love".
But Alfie didn't think about raising children in the future.
The child in his mind has now turned into a living concrete being, he really feels the feeling of being a father, and some practical problems that he has never thought of before are also in front of him, which makes him a little dazed.
He himself is a child who needs to be cared for by adults, he doesn't know how to take care of a newborn baby, he doesn't even know how to change diapers, and he doesn't know how much a diaper costs.
He seriously considered that he might be able to raise the baby with his pocket money, but he was soon discouraged, because sometimes the father only gave him $10 in pocket money, which was not enough to support the child.
Looking at the immature little boy in front of him, even the reporter was speechless.
Speaking of Alfie's father, Dennis, the man was really tormented and almost collapsed by his son.
He hysterically told ** that Alfie didn't know how much trouble he had caused, and he was just a little boy who liked to play games and watch football games, how could such a child be the father of another child?
Although it was too late, as parents, they still tried to make their son understand what a sense of responsibility is, but every time he suppressed his anger and tried to communicate with his son, his son always twisted his face to the side, said a few words and cried loudly, which was not a good education at all.
All he knew was that his mom and dad would help! ”Dennis said angrily"If I don't educate him, I'm really afraid that I will have a new grandson soon! ”
Compared to Alfie's reaction, Xander was full of joy at the birth of her daughter, although she was scared before the child was born, and she was tired enough to give birth to this little guy, but she still felt very happy.
Cindell said she decided to be a good mother, and she got a job at the church and would use her hands to support her children.
Alfie also decided to take on the duties of a father, and he even decided to give up his studies to concentrate on taking care of the baby at home.
It wasn't just a sense of responsibility that prompted him to make this decision, Alfie had always been worried that he had a child at a young age and would be seen as an outlier by his peers, and when the child was born, it was also reported, and Alfie soon became a national celebrity, and his fears became a reality.
He was often pointed at when he walked around the campus, which made him feel very bad, and he became more and more reluctant to go to school, and finally decided to drop out.
At home, Alfie sacrifices his time playing games and watching TV to devote all his energy to the baby, and he feels happy and safe taking care of the child.
But soon, this happiness was shattered by a piece of news.
This news, which shocked everyone, actually took a dramatic turn.
With the news of the 13-year-old boy becoming a father on the headlines of the UK, Alfie's breastfeeding with his daughter has also gone viral all over the world, but the UK ** soon broke out a shocking news: the child's biological father may not be Alfie!
A 16-year-old boy named Richard told ** that he was the child's biological father and that he wanted to get his flesh and blood back from Alfie.
Richard revealed that he and Xandro also had a relationship, they slept together for three months, and soon Xander became pregnant, and his friend also said to him after seeing **, this child has eyes exactly like yours, maybe it's really your species.
Richard asks for a DNA paternity test and believes that if he is really the father of the child, then he has the right to get his child back.
Before everyone could figure out what was going on, another 14-year-old boy named Taylor also jumped out, claiming that he might be the child's real father.
However, although Taylor felt that he might be the father of the child, he didn't want it, he just admitted that he had a relationship with Centel nine months ago, although it was only ***, but he was still very worried that the child was his own flesh and blood, and the ridicule of his companions was enough to make him distressed.
And that's not all, after that, five more local teenagers claimed to have been in a relationship with Xander in the past 10 months, and each of them could be the father of the child.
* It is also confirmed from the mouths of these boys that Xandrole has a chaotic private life and often hangs out with different young boys.
According to the investigation, in the days before pregnancy, Xander had relationships with at least 8 boys.
However, Xander's family insists that their daughter's first time was given to Alfie, and that there is no one else but Alfie, and he admits that they never did anything about it.
Now the direction of things becomes confusing, who is the father of the child?
Alfie's parents couldn't take it anymore and decided to take a paternity test.
The results came out, to everyone's surprise, the father of the child was really not Alfie, but one of the 7 boys.
It turned out that all of this was set up by the Xander family.
Before having a relationship with Alfie, Cindell was pregnant, and after her parents learned the news, they asked their daughter to insist that the child's father was Alfie, because Alfie was the youngest and best fool among those boys, maybe he could make a big news and make a lot of money from ** by breaking the news.
Everything went well, Alfie recognized the child, and they became popular overnight, but unfortunately, they were not the only ones who wanted to make money by becoming famous.
The Xandel family had a bad reputation in the local area, couldn't stay any longer, and felt shameless to face the Alfie family, so they quietly moved out soon after, taking the baby with them.
The Xander family took the child and flew away, leaving Alfie to face the chicken feathers.
Alfie is soon given sarcastic nicknames such as "The Smallest Cuckold", "The Pick-up Man", and "The Hulk", and he has a deep affection for the child, but Xandrole takes her away without saying a word, which is a big blow to the little boy.
Father Dennis was also furious, because he, like Cindell's parents, has been doing business with **, trying to rely on breaking the news in exchange for the cost of raising children in the future.
It has been estimated that Alfie, who is now a hit, can at least rely on the gimmick of "youngest father" to attract hundreds of thousands of dollars.
As much as Dennis would have liked the child to never be born, he told him while reassuring his upset son that Daddy would make you a lot of money.
He originally planned to move to London with his son and granddaughter and sell the material to the ** over there, but all plans came to naught with the DNA test results, leaving them with endless ridicule and humiliation.
Alfie's blow is not at all something that a 13-year-old can bear, he is depressed all the time, although the adults want him to go back to school, Alfie is very resistant, he can't accept the strange eyes of others, everyone will laugh at him, point at him and say look, he is the unlucky pick-up man with a green head.
Alfie was indeed the laughing stock of the locals for quite some time, unable to continue his studies, and stayed at home all day long.
Fortunately, any sensational news will have a heat disappear, and one day that people will forget, people will gradually forget the little boy who became a father at the age of 13 and made a big joke.
It wasn't until a few years later that Alfie, who was already an adult, was interviewed again and appeared in the public eye, evoking people's memories.
It can be seen that Alfie is in a very bad state now, and the incident that year has caused a big shadow on him, becoming a nightmare that he doesn't want to mention, and his life has almost been ruined.
He also misses that child a lot, but they never see each other again in this life.
He has no academic qualifications, and he has no serious job as an adult, and he has been receiving ** benefits.
Alfie appeals to all underage children not to follow their own path, otherwise they will regret it as much as he does.
According to reports, in 2021, Alfie and his mother were kicked out by their landlord for drug abuse and drug dealing in their home, which caused a miasma in the surrounding community, and how to help the family of addicts quit drugs and how to settle them became a problem for the local authorities.
This isn't Alfie's first offense, as he was sentenced three years ago for burglary and possession of counterfeit guns**, and while on probation, he was drunk and picked up trouble on the streets.
After the news report, people were shocked to find that this sloppy drunk man was the "youngest father" who used to be a father at the age of 13, and they all exclaimed how the little boy with clear eyes and childish spirit was so sloppy now.
As Alfie said, his life is fragmented, and it is said that it is too early to become famous, but the damage caused by the heat and the backlash of ** is enough to ruin a person's life.
The relationship between Alfie and the baby girl who is not related to him seems to be the only warmth in this farce, the adults are full of calculations and use, and do not welcome the arrival of the children, but regard them as tools for profit, but unfortunately the only trace of sincerity, as well as Alfie's life, have been ruined by this **.
After being evicted by their landlord, the mother and son live on the streets.
In 2022, the local authorities temporarily placed them in a shelter, but as an adult with hands and feet, it is not a way to live like a social parasite all the time, but Alfie has no education and a criminal record, and no company is willing to hire such people to work for them.
But in 2023, the trajectory of Alfie's life seems to have changed, and it is reported that he has found a job with the help of a corporate organization called "Blue Sky".
The organization believes that the provision of employment opportunities for persons who have completed their sentences is important to prevent the occurrence of recidivism, but because society tends to prejudice such persons, about 60 per cent of those who have been released from prison will reoffend within two years, which has led them to decide to provide employment and accommodation for those with criminal records in order to reduce the recidivism rate.
Alfie was fortunate enough to be one of the hired ones, and after he was trained, he became a contract worker, taking on some maintenance work in open spaces such as parks, and if he performed well, the organization would continue to hire him.
Of course, opportunities are given by others, and there are conditions attached, Alfie can no longer drink as much as he used to, take drugs, and be on the streets**, if he makes mistakes again, otherwise he will lose this hard-won job.
According to the report, Alfie's performance has been very good, although the salary is not very high, but at least there is no need to rely on the ** relief money anymore, and he can support himself.
It's just that the title used to describe Alfie's identity in the report is still "once the youngest father in the UK", and in any case, Alfie seems to have a hard time getting rid of this label.
Info**:A 13-year-old boy in the UK had a child with his 15-year-old girlfriend CCTV Network.