Introduction.
Parents' love for their children is simpler and more unselfish, and they want their children to grow up healthy in unnecessary pain and suffering. But sometimes, excessive spoiling can have a negative effect on the healthy development of children. Recently, the term "my family Zihan" has become popular all over the Internet, causing heated discussions among netizens and concerns among teachers. This article explores this from the three levels of family, school, and society.
The result of doting.
Excessive indulgence and indulgence can lead to children being overly dependent on their parents, unable to be self-reliant and unable to think independently. At home, parents rarely provide their children with their own problems and opportunities to cope with difficult situations. As a result, children's social skills are not fully developed and are characterized by giant babies. Parents do this partly because they love their children, and partly because they want to minimize the risk of harm to themselves. However, for a long time, this kind of doting has paved an unchallenging path for their children, and these paths are precisely the path of their growth.
The story of "My Family Zihan".
The word "my family Zihan" became popular on the Internet, because Zihan's mother asked in the WeChat group, why was Zihan bitten by mosquitoes?This inexplicable question sparked waves of ridicule among netizens and eventually became a hot topic. In the eyes of netizens, the words "my family Zihan" are like ridiculing Zihan's mother, "Why is Zihan still single?".This kind of behavior is really incredible, but it also reflects the excessive interference and annoyance of parents for teachers.
The teacher's dilemma and how to solve it.
The essence of the "frustration" teaching method is that in the process of growing up, children will inevitably encounter various setbacks and difficulties. But some parents believe that teachers are not interested or cared about it, especially during kindergarten. However, kindergarten teachers cannot be exhaustive, and this is the practical limitation. Parents should be more responsible for themselves to avoid unnecessary arguments and to allow their children to develop better.
How can kindergarten teachers resolve conflicts with their parents?First of all, teachers should do a good job of recording communication with classmates, so that they can make objective, rational and evidence-based answers to the questions raised by parents when necessary. In the teaching process, we should pay attention to the stability of the mentality, and treat the students with kindness and cheerfulness. Although the salary and benefits of kindergarten teachers are not high, they will feel happy and fulfilled when they spend time with children. By building a good self, teachers can gain the respect and respect of their parents and no longer be treated as "free babysitters". In addition, teachers should pay attention to their own words and deeds, and should not have a negative impact on themselves, let alone verbally attack, abuse, or abuse. Such an approach is not only related to one's reputation, but also related to one's work and future.
Conclusion. Parents are important to their children's development, but excessive attention and intervention can cause dissatisfaction among others and is not good for their healthy development. Therefore, parents should conduct self-reflection and adopt more rational methods in order to promote the healthy growth of their children. On this basis, we should pay attention to our own image, emotional stability, and harmony with teachers, students, and parents, so as to better realize the teaching effect. At the same time, it is also expected that every parent can understand the growth needs of children, actively cooperate with teachers, and create a better learning and Xi atmosphere for children, so that children can grow up healthy and happy.