At the age of 60, we should be vigilant What does it mean that "there are three inexhaustible people, and those who are exhausted are defeated"?
When a man reaches sixty, he must beware:"There are three evils in people, all of which are people's faults"。What does this mean?
As the saying goes, life experience is often the crystallization of folk wisdom, and its summary often contains the true meaning of life. Like this proverb:"People have three evils, and if they don't do it, they will lose"。It reminds us to do things in moderation and not to overdo it. The first and most important principle is:"Don't go too far"。
When a person reaches a certain stage of life, especially in old age, he must clearly recognize that his strength, wisdom, and possibilities are limited. Therefore, when dealing with things, you must not go too far and leave room for yourself, not only for the sake of others, but also for your own future.
In fact, this truth has been said a long time ago. As the old saying goes:"There are gains and losses", telling us that there is a limit to everything, and that crossing that limit often leads to **.
If we blindly pursue our own interests in interpersonal interactions without leaving room for others, we are actually laying the foundation for the future. People live in the world, and they cannot always be in a favorable position, leaving room for others, in fact, is to make way for themselves.
Take it"Poor people don't chase"In this sentence, there is also a profound philosophy in it. If you continue to chase and fight fiercely when the enemy is already defeated and unable to resist, you may provoke the enemy's counterattack and bring even more trouble to yourself. This also tells us that in our career and interpersonal communication, we must know how to stop in moderation and not go too far.
Don't go too far"In fact, it is a philosophy of dealing with others, which reminds us to protect our emotions and humanity while pursuing profits, and truly win people's hearts in order to achieve long-term success.
About"Don't talk too much"
The power of language is immeasurable. Sometimes, an inappropriate word can lead to unexpected results. Don't talk too much"This sentence solemnly reminds people to be cautious in their words and deeds, not to talk too much, and not to speculate too much.
During the period of the Three Kingdoms, the heroes were divided, and the horses were difficult to chase, and the slightest carelessness would lead to death. When Cao Cao faced Liu Bei, he was in a dilemma. The generals asked him what to do, and Cao Cao used it"Chicken ribs"Parables. Yang Xiu, a clever but extremely conceited young man, misinterpreted this sentence and made a big fuss, thinking that Cao Cao would back down. This not only damaged Cao Cao's prestige, but also led to his own death.
Yang Xiu's story tells us that we must judge the situation and not jump to conclusions based on our own understanding. Overconfidence and pride can lead people down the wrong path and make them lose their ability to think logically and make judgments.
o"Money is not something you can make as much money as you want"。
Wealth is one of the goals that people strive for, but if you pursue it too much and ignore morality and humanity, wealth will become a burden. As the saying goes"There's no end to the money"Excessive greed will only cost you more wealth.
Being kind to others is a form of wisdom. When we share our hobbies, we seem to give up a part of ourselves, but in fact, we gain the trust and friendship of others. This intangible wealth is far more valuable than money. This is exactly what the ancients said:"Thick can carry people, fat can carry things, and benefiting others is self-interested"。Even if some benefits are lost in the short term, in the long run, if it is recognized and supported by people, it is a real success.
Whether it's giving a speech or making money, it should be done in moderation and not excessively. Only by striking a balance can we truly achieve success and happiness in life.
Yes"Oriental Warren Buffett"Known as Li Ka-shing, his success is not only due to his business skills and good investment awareness, but also to his business philosophy: win-win. He believes that in business, benefits can be shared. In his words, it is"Everyone makes money, and everyone shares the benefits"。This emphasizes that a successful businessman must first and foremost be a person who knows how to cooperate and share.
Li Ka-shing's"Take 9% of the shares and the money will come"It embodies his generosity and vision. He realized that small concessions can bring big cooperation opportunities, long-term cooperation is the only way for enterprises to maintain wealth and development, rather than competing for % of the shares alone, it is better to choose 9%, common development, to achieve a win-win situation.
This way of thinking is not limited to the corporate level, in fact, it also teaches us the right way to succeed in life, which is to earn the trust and respect of others. Those who focus only on short-term benefits and do not think about long-term development may end up with short-term success. If you want to truly reap the long-term benefits, you must learn to share and cooperate so that you can continue to gain access to opportunities and resources.
As the old saying goes:"The gentleman is in righteousness, and the villain is in profit"。Indeed, we cannot afford to lose our principles and values in pursuit of our own interests. Only by sticking to the original intention and sincerely thinking about others can we win the hearts of others and achieve real success.
In short,"Threesome, there must be my teacher"The truth is not just a simple saying, but a profound philosophy of life. Only by truly appreciating the wisdom contained in it can it be avoided"Three nos"take your own path to success.