List of high-quality authors Wives who have been betrayed by men, when they want to repair their marriages, most of them have such a few common problems, 1Emotions are uncontrollable, 2No substantial evidence of the man's betrayal could be found, 3I don't know where to start, 4Won't communicate showdown, 5There is no overall idea, 6If you don't divorce or settle it, you want a threesome.
If you have encountered one of these 5 situations now, then the following content, I hope you can take a good look, and I hope that when you are most confused, I hope to give you a light and help you open your mind.
In fact, no matter what kind of confusion it is, the most important thing is to first figure out which type of betrayal a man belongs to, and you will know how to prescribe the right medicine if you figure out the type!Today, we choose to use backwards to help you clear your mind. After a man's betrayal, there are several ways we commonly use to repair marriages.
1.Hard means must be used.
In fact, this situation mostly occurs when men are crazy or when they want to divorce after considering the pros and cons. When a man is crazy, he doesn't care about anything, he can't see any merits in his wife, his eyes are full of that woman, as if that woman is true love.
Therefore, men at this stage do not have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, and what they want is to love and stay with women outside for a lifetime. Even if the woman asks him to divorce, he may directly put pressure on you without saying a word, that is, the man's betrayal has been going on for a while, and he has repeatedly considered it, weighed the pros and cons, and decided to divorce, which means that in his heart he has no hope for you and marriage.
In these two cases, you have to use hard means, the so-called hard means are to collect the evidence, directly find the other party for a showdown, and put the two ways of divorce and returning to the family to him, the former to sober up the man in the crazy period, and the latter to let the man who is determined to divorce do a good job of compensation, so that these men clearly know that marriage is not child's play, and divorce is not!
The most important thing in it is how to collect evidence, what kind of evidence is effective, and the words and skills of the showdown must be accurate, if you can't talk to me.
2.Soft means must be used.
If you are a wife who does not want your marriage to have a 1 in 10,000 risk of divorce and regards the children's family as very important, soft means are skills you must learn. Because you can't afford any risk of divorce, and you don't want a man to choose a divorce because of a showdown, leaving you to stay where you are and go crazy. Then the soft means are best for you.
How soft is it?If you want to use soft means, you must first figure out which aspects of the man are not satisfied in marriage, fight the snake and hit seven inches, what he needs, you will give what he likes, the purpose of this is not to please, but to play a big game of chess, through forbearance, so that the man feels that you are getting better, and at the same time feels that you can pinch you, then you can retreat.
The purpose of retreating is to make his mood ride a roller coaster, emotional ups and downs, so that when he is afraid of you leaving and cannot control you, he can care about you again. When the marriage foundation is about to be lost, he naturally has no time to take care of the women outside.
3.Hard and soft.
This type is suitable for men who repeatedly betray and want to have a threesome, the reason why a man wants a threesome is nothing more than that he wants both marriage and women outside, so you might as well be soft first and then win, the initial softness is similar to the idea of the second point above, and first supplement what men lack in marriage. Take advantage of him to think that you are easy to handle, then you need to show your bottom line and attitude, start to harden, catch him off guard, and let him know that your goodness is based on marital loyalty.
The follow-up is to go to a showdown, in the softest words, the most ruthless determination will have a deterrent effect on him, since he wants to have a threesome, he must be unwilling to divorce in the short term, so your aura and attitude must be seen by him, so that he can fully consider how to choose between marriage and that woman.
Of course, we also have an ultimate trick, this trick can be used no matter what the situation, I want to tell you on New Year's Day, so I want to know more about the students, repair the marriage is a psychological game, wits and courage, any link has a problem, will be found by a man opportunity, so don't be careless, don't think you can apply it directly, details determine success or failure, not details, you can talk to me, I hope these details can help you clear your mind, face the dilemma in front of you again, come on!