Yang Jiang: The secret to making yourself happy is to stop thinking nonsense

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-01-31

Mr. Yang Jiang said:"The secret to making yourself happy is to stop thinking cranky, and the best way to do it is to be busy and go to bed early. Don't let five minutes of unhappiness affect your day's happiness. People, if you want to open it, it is happiness, and if you can't think about it, it is pain, and many times it is not that you can't get along with things, but that you can't get along with your own heart. "

In the journey of life, we often encounter various challenges and dilemmas, some things are beyond our control, but our mood and attitude can be self-regulated. Mr. Yang Jiang once said: "The secret to making yourself happy is to stop thinking nonsense, and the best way to be yourself is to be busy and go to bed early." Don't let five minutes of unhappiness affect your day's happiness. People, if you want to open it, it is happiness, and if you can't think about it, it is pain, and many times it is not that you can't get along with things, but that you can't get along with your own heart. This passage is like a beacon illuminating the direction of our journey in life.

First of all, we need to understand the importance of "stopping cranky". In everyday life, our brains are always working unconsciously, constantly thinking about various problems, and these thoughts are often not always beneficial. Many times, we get stuck in endless entanglements and anxieties, and these negative emotions not only drain our energy, but also affect our mood and health. Therefore, learning to control your mind and not let it wander around is the key to maintaining your physical and mental health. We must learn to focus on the things in the moment, feel every moment of life with our hearts, and not let our minds be bound by unnecessary entanglements. Only in this way can we truly live in the present moment and enjoy the beauty of life.

Secondly, "being busy and going to bed early" is an effective way to do it yourself. In modern society, busyness has become the norm. We are always busy, for work, family, socialization and other things. However, busyness does not equal fulfillment. If we are always busy with each day and do not leave enough time for ourselves to rest and relax, then we are likely to feel tired and helpless. Therefore, we need to learn to find balance in our busyness and give ourselves enough time to rest and relax. Going to bed early and waking up early not only contributes to our physical health, but also improves our productivity and quality of life. When we get enough sleep, our bodies and brains can be fully rested and recuperated to better cope with life's challenges and opportunities.

Furthermore, "Don't let five minutes of unhappiness affect your day's happiness" is a wise attitude towards life. There will always be ups and downs, good and bad in life. When faced with difficulties, we must learn to adjust our mentality and not let short-term unhappiness affect our mood and happiness. We need to learn to let go of unnecessary worries and worries, maintain an optimistic attitude, and face life's challenges positively. When we have a positive mindset, we will find that the good and happy in life will become richer and more colorful.

Finally, the phrase "if you think about it, you will be happy, and if you can't think about it, it will be painful" reminds us to learn to change our way of thinking. Sometimes, we get stuck in a stereotyped mindset and our way of looking at things becomes narrow and paranoid. At this point, we need to think outside the box and look at the problem from a broader perspective. We need to learn to face everything in life with a more open and inclusive mind. When we are able to approach ourselves and others with a more tolerant and understanding attitude, we will find that the happiness in our lives becomes deeper and more enduring than in our lives.

In the pursuit of happiness and joy in life, we must learn to control our thinking, maintain the habit of being busy and going to bed early, and actively face the challenges and opportunities in life. We must learn to let go of unnecessary worries and worries, maintain an optimistic attitude, and let ourselves be the helmsmen of our hearts. Only in this way can we truly feel the beauty and happiness of life.

Choice and wisdom in life go hand in hand. When we have wisdom, we are better able to make choices;And when we make the right choices, we get closer to wisdom. Let us continue to accumulate wisdom and experience in the journey of life, and feel the beauty and true meaning of life with our hearts. Let us face all the challenges and opportunities in life with a more open, inclusive and optimistic attitude. Because only in this way can we truly have a full, happy and beautiful life.

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