A parent's love for their children is selfless and deep, but if they are overly pampered and spoiled, it is harmful to their growth. Through excessive care and attention to all aspects of children, they can easily become dependent, selfish, and even form "giant baby" behavior. Parents are too concerned with the concept of "no disasters and no difficulties" in their children's growth, hoping that they will not have any setbacks and difficulties, so that they ignore the indispensable grinding and growth process in education. Therefore, parents should be aware of the dangers of over-pampering and the importance of cultivating good Xi in their children.
For students, there is no such thing as smooth sailing. They can't avoid difficulties and frustrations, which are often overlooked by over-pampering by parents. They will over-intervene and protect students to avoid the possibility of being bullied or failing. However, instead of helping children grow, such behaviour can make them weak and dependent on the difficulties they may encounter in the future. Therefore, parents should let their children face various challenges in life, cultivate their independent and strong qualities, and truly let them learn to grow themselves.
In recent years, the name "Zihan" has become extremely popular in various universities and schools, and has become a "hit" name. According to university statistics, Wuhan University and Northeast Normal University have a large number of freshmen who use this name. In each class, the scene of "one voice and three turns" is also often staged. This phenomenon has attracted the attention of netizens and created the Internet hot meme "My Family Zihan".
The reason for this internet meme was that a parent was making trouble in the parent group, questioning the school why her child "Zihan" was bitten by mosquitoes, while other children were not. In the face of this unreasonable questioning, netizens expressed "too ridiculous", and created a large number of jokes and sentences with "My Family Zihan" as the stalk, ridiculing the unreasonable demands of parents.
Such behavior actually reflects the excessive attention and pampering of some parents. They are overly concerned about their children's behavior and safety, and even ask and demand unreasonably. This overprotection not only has a negative impact on children, but also makes it difficult for teachers. Therefore, the Internet meme "My Family Zihan" made teachers feel uneasy and worried.
Parents' over-protection and pampering of their children also brings a lot of distress and pressure to kindergarten teachers. In kindergarten education, parents often have high expectations of the teacher's job, believing that they should know everything about their child's needs and provide as much care and pampering as possible. This excessive expectation of teachers puts teachers in a state of anxiety and embarrassment.
However, kindergarten teachers are not "nannies", their duty is to do a good job of education, not to take care of the details of each student. Parents ask too much about their children's eating, drinking, etc., which can easily leave a negative impression on teachers and affect the relationship between the two parties.
As parents, you should understand the responsibilities of kindergarten teachers, and communicate and cooperate with teachers to create a good environment for the healthy growth of children. At the same time, parents should also understand that educating their children requires not only the support of schools and teachers, but also the participation of families and parents.
When kindergarten teachers face questions and criticisms from parents, they need to have certain coping strategies to resolve conflicts between the two sides and maintain a good relationship. First of all, teachers need to keep enough evidence in their work to ensure that the words and deeds between them and students and parents can leave traces. When confronted with parents, you can present this evidence and give a reasonable explanation to justify your actions.
At the same time, teachers should maintain a stable mood, be passionate about the cause of education, and be friendly and optimistic with students. Although the salary of kindergarten teachers may not be high, they can grow with the children, so in addition to this, teachers should also establish a good personal image and maintain their own dignity in order to have a certain authority and respect in the hearts of parents. Teachers should not be treated as free babysitters by parents, but should be respected as professional educators.
It is not uncommon for kindergarten teachers to have multiple teachers lead a class. In this case, teachers also need to collaborate with each other and avoid mutual accusations and conflicts to maintain harmony and stability in the team. Teachers should also pay attention to their words and deeds, and do not behave badly for students, such as hitting and scolding, which will not only affect their image and reputation, but also may lose their jobs and face difficulties in the future.
Finally, parents should reflect on their own behavior, recognize the dangers of overprotection, address the root causes, and learn Xi more advanced education methods to better nurture their children. It is a good thing for parents to pay attention to their children's development, but excessive attention can cause distress and disgust to others. Therefore, parents should maintain appropriate attention and support, and provide appropriate guidance and assistance to their children, rather than being overly interfering and pampering.
In short, parents and teachers should be aware of the adverse effects of over-pampering on students, and through rational communication and cooperation, create a good environment for growth, and work together to cultivate children's independence and strong character. In this way, the goal of healthy growth of children can be achieved.