Psychologist Sternberg once proposed the theory of love, which he believed was composed of three basic components: passion, intimacy, and commitment.
Passion is the ability to generate desires and fascinations, both physically and emotionally.
When we have feelings for someone, our hearts desire to have a deeper connection with the other person, and this is intimacy.
Finally, when you identify someone, make a solemn commitment and take your promise seriously.
I guess that's the ideal of perfect love.
But will there be a permanent period for such love?
Men are always so rational, women are always so crazy.
If a man is tired of you, he will surely show the following signs:
Netizen Satsuki once shared her experience: Satsuki met her husband on a college campus, and at a campus event, her husband met Satsuki, and by getting along, she was like this frank and lively girl.
After graduation, the two became husband and wife, lying all day long, such a beautiful life is enviable. Time keeps passing, and Xiao Yue, who has been married for 7 years, finds that time keeps passing, and she, her husband, like all middle-aged couples, have lost their original passion, and the rest is dull.
In this regard, Xiaoyue has always thought that this is a relationship of age, and her husband is used to it, but in fact, she still loves herself in her husband's heart.
But in daily life, every time Satsuki quarrels with her husband, her husband will sleep in separate beds with Satsuki and not talk to her for several days.
Once the warmth is gone, Little Moon's heart is like a rope that can be broken at any time.
And the thing that can be crushed by Xiao Yue still happened, once Xiao Yue found that her husband was back, with the smell of perfume unique to women.
Satsuki blamed her husband in person, but her husband did not defend himself and calmly filed for divorce from Satsuki.
When the hot phase of love enters the bland phase, the man loses his freshness.
The hot water of one can be cooled, and so can the passion of men.
When men start to get tired of you, they don't even bother to say anything.
In general, a person's behavior and habits are not easy to change, and once they change, it means that something is affecting them.
My cousin Mei and her husband Achu have been married for 10 years. Our family was poor, but they worked hard together and lived happily.
By chance, Achu co-founded this company, and the business began to flourish.
I don't know from which day, Achu began to stay awake at night, and every time he went home, he was drunk.
Mei always asked him, and at first, Achu patiently explained that it was social, but then he asked too much and scolded directly.
Ami secretly cried a few times, but she still felt sorry for Achu in her heart, because Achu was the only one in the family to make money, and Ami had already resigned as a full-time mother.
But at this time, Achu became more and more presumptuous, constantly picking on Mei at home, and even quarreling with Jiao'er at every turn.
Ami wonders why Achu is suddenly like this, but Achu just has a bad attitude. He didn't even want to touch Mei, like there was a plague.
The two had a small quarrel for three days, a big quarrel for five days, and finally Achu even made a fuss about driving Mei out of the house.
The person who really loves you takes care of you too late, who will be willing to speak hard.
We have always been considerate of the other half, and when we are wronged, we continue to forgive each other.
But when a man gets tired of you, his attitude changes.
My colleague Qiqi has been complaining to me lately that her boyfriend doesn't respond to her, and even if he takes the initiative to talk to her, he loses contact and can't reach anyone for days.
When I was pursuing Qiqi, I could send hundreds of messages a day and pick her up to work every day.
When it comes to the holidays, the gifts always arrive first, and the girls in our office are very envious of her and happy that she has found a boyfriend who loves her so much.
In a romantic confession, Qiqi agrees to be with her boyfriend.
Since then, we have slowly lost sight of the gifts on Qiqi's table, and Qiqi's smile has become less and less.
Qiqi told me how passionate she was about pursuing her, and how perfunctory she was when she pursued her, and she took the initiative to message her boyfriend, mostly "oh oh, got it".
In the end, Qiqi and her boyfriend broke up.
When a guy loves you, he can be the best boyfriend in the world, will talk sweetly, and will rack his brains to make you happy.
When a man is tired of you, you are his free executioner.
Love, you can't disguise.
If you love someone, you will be willing to give up ** for her, know how to stand in her perspective, and take care of her emotions.