Junior high school students study day and night, but they are coldly spoken by their college sisters, and they "poke their hearts".
In the youthful years, time always slipped away. In the blink of an eye, the new semester of primary and secondary schools has quietly begun, and some areas have even ushered in the beginning of the school season ahead of schedule. For the students who had spent the winter break lazily, this sudden academic challenge caught them off guard.
If my guess is correct, there is a group of students who are experiencing the "rescue operation" at this moment. In order to prepare for the review at the beginning of the school year, sometimes they have to stay up late and work overtime to light up the night lights. At this moment, the students are full of anxiety, and once they hear some "merciless ridicule", I am afraid that they will be even more upset.
At this moment, family is the most important support and reliance for students. In the family, whether or not you can get enough warmth and support will have a direct impact on the children's personality and academic performance. Some families choose to add a small member, expecting the eldest to have a natural ability to take care, but the reality is often "contrary to expectations". There is a girl who deeply feels all kinds of distress caused by the "poisonous tongue" sister.
She is a junior high school student, and on the eve of the start of school, she still failed to complete the backlog of homework, so she had to desperately make up for it in the middle of the night. What she didn't expect was that when it was already 2 o'clock in the morning, her sister was still taking pictures.
By this time, the junior high school student was exhausted, but in order to avoid facing harsh criticism and possible punishment, she could only grit her teeth and persevere. Perhaps she longed for someone to lend a helping hand and help her through this difficult time.
But unfortunately, her sister sneered on the side and said: "It's really fulfilling to look at this little student who works hard all night;I envy you children who are still in junior high school, I also want to do my homework, but it's a pity that college doesn't leave so much time. Obviously, these words were intended to "poke her heart deeply".
In the family, the eldest brother is like a father, and for the eldest sister in the family, she seems to play the role of a mother who supervises her studies. In the past, students may have endured this situation in silence and silently endured the sadness of being alone. But today's children have more distinct personalities.
When she heard the merciless words, she did not show weakness and directly responded to her sister asking her to "shut up". At the same time, netizens also offered advice, suggesting that she remind her sister that "junior high school students are allowed to fail, and college students can't fail the course."
The scene caused a stir on the Internet, and many people accused her sister of being too cold and not taking into account her feelings. Junior high school is a critical period for character formation, and family attitudes have a profound impact on students' grades and character development.
Such indifferent rhetoric may lead to a decline in academic performance, and students may first become inferior and develop feelings of self-denial. Estrangement from parents and family members is also not good for follow-up education.
As a result, many people expressed deep sympathy for the junior high school student. In this regard, my sister later responded. She said that she just wanted to "stimulate" her sister, who was studying day and night, a little, so that she would not fall into such a predicament in the future.
My sister thinks that if she can complete the homework assigned by the teacher in time, she doesn't need to cramble before the start of school. As a college student, she pointed out that her sister's study rhythm was problematic.
Although the make-up homework is only occasional, it reflects the huge problems she has in the learning process, so my sister is worried. Her words are intended to remind her sister to pay attention to her study efficiency.
The sister also explained that they usually joke with each other in this way, and they don't take it too seriously. Therefore, there is no need to blame this college student too much.
When communicating with students, parents and families should learn to respect them and not just put pressure on them. I believe there will not be too much estrangement between this college student sister and junior high school sister. However, in practice, many times it is the parents who play the role of this "poisonous tongue".
Many parents mistakenly believe that excellent students can only be raised through a strict education method. They often communicate with students in a commanding and striking tone, but they do not know that this can destroy students' confidence to move forward.
Especially at the elementary and junior high school levels, the focus should be on stimulating enthusiasm for learning. In this way, students will become self-directed learners even without strict supervision from their parents.
If parents do not know how to respect students, criticize when their grades are not satisfactory, and deny and discourage them when they make progress, students may lose their enthusiasm in the long run.
Conclusion] Whether it is parents or the eldest sister or elder brother in the family, they should give more real care and respect to students. In a good family education atmosphere, it is more likely to cultivate students with self-motivation and a sense of responsibility.
Topic: What would you do if you had such a sister or parent?