Recently, a video of the bride's marriage was released, which attracted many onlookers. Many questioned that the "baby-faced" bride was underage! 
On the day of the wedding, the bride dresses up. Dressed in a Chinese dress, but there is no trace of an adult. The strings of beads on the hairpin fell on the edge of her snow-white skin; Fleshy cheeks smirk; is like a child stealing adult clothes, and he can't unite with the "marriage event" and the little girl in front of him. Uninformed netizens couldn't help frowning when they saw the girl dressed like this:Married at such a young age? Are parents so irresponsible? Seeing that ** is getting more and more intense, the family has to come out and explain one by one:In fact, the bride is in her 20s, but she still looks like a child. This is not the first time her parents have been questioned. From childhood to adulthood, although the girl's parents have explained it countless times, many people are asking:Is your daughter an adult? It turns out that from the age of thirteen or fourteen, the girl's body is like frozen by time, whether it is the face or the figure, it has stagnated development. 
Her parents took her to the hospital for a check-up, and the doctor said she was suffering from a condition called "childhood face syndrome". Genetic factors, hormonal deficiencies, or other abnormalities in the secretion system can cause this symptom. What a sigh! Some people work hard to maintain their youth, while others suffer from diseases. Because of the girl's childlike appearance, even when she reaches marriageable age, no one comes to talk about marriage. My parents were heartbroken about this. Luckily, the girl finally meets her significant other. The man didn't mind the height and appearance of the other party, and the two chatted very closely, and the two families couldn't think about it. 
On the wedding day, the little man sitting on the bed waited with great anticipation for her husband's arrival. This pair of "newlywed mandarin ducks" who really love each other posted their wedding ** on the Internet, originally wanting to harvest blessings, but they didn't expect to attract so many doubts. Some netizens complained about her:
"Today is their big day, why do you care so much? ”Seeing this, I just want to say one thing: I understand people's feelings of "blind care". If you think about it carefully, these people's "blind worries" are actually worried about the girl's future. Some people also said: "Marry at marriageable age, what are you afraid of?" "When you reach the age when you should get married, getting married is a very normal thing, so you don't have to worry too much. But I'm afraid that many girls are forced to marry before they even have the age to get married, which is also the thing that "blind worryers" are most worried about. In fact, worries have always been traceable. Xiaohui, a 17-year-old girl in Maoming, Guangdong, decided to report her parents. Here's what happened: 17-year-old Xiaohui was forced by her parents to drop out of school and marry someone she had only met six times. Xiaohui cried and begged her parents, saying that she was still young and still had to study, so she didn't get married so early, but her parents didn't listen to the persuasion at all and insisted on going their own way. Xiaohui had no choice but to sue her biological parents to the local women's federation before marriage.
Under pressure from major forces, his parents could only give up their original plans, promised to cancel the marriage contract, and returned the dowry. I thought that this couple could eat a trench and grow wise, and be kind to Xiaohui, who knows, after there was no ** interference, they turned their faces and didn't recognize people, threw 3,000 yuan to Xiaohui, and left her to fend for herself. 
The elderly grandfather, although he loves Xiaohui very much, has nothing to do. Xiaohui has worked hard to study for a year, and now she has no income, and she has to worry about her future. Despite this, Xiaohui is still very optimistic and hopeful about her future. However, there are many girls like Xiaohui in this world. It's just that they have experienced the same fate as Xiaohui, but they are not as lucky as Xiaohui. A girl who is not loved, life is full of shackles. It reminds me of a wedding in Wenshan, Yunnan Zhuang and Miao Autonomous Prefecture. At the wedding, the bride and groom are young. The two of them are like puppets manipulated by others, with expressionless faces. Especially the bride who was surrounded by her, she had a green veil on her head, a black umbrella, and no smile on her face, obviously she didn't want to get married. 
She is only sixteen years old, which is the age of her prime, but she was involved in a cumbersome married life, which makes people sigh. also remembered a netizen's **. The girl had just returned from working outside and was in a good mood, but as soon as she got home, she was told that her parents and brother had secretly set up a family affair for her. A bolt from the blue! The girl immediately became furious and resisted loudly, unwilling to obey. But her brother grabbed her and said sharply
"If you marry, you will be rich, and if you marry, you will be rich. ”
My brother's words were like a bucket of cold water, which poured the girl into the heart. The girl scolded angrily: "Money, money, you only have money in your eyes, without money, I can earn it myself!" Unexpectedly, his mother said on the side: "When will you make money, we will be rich immediately after you get married." ”It's hard to imagine that, in the eyes of some, family affection is more fragile than a piece of paper. Someone said: "It's not that scary, it's 2023 now, and your thinking is too outdated, right?" "But it's not a TV series, it's real. The world is so uneven, the life of a beloved girl is as beautiful as a beautiful poem, and the life of an unloved girl is as miserable as the abyss of despair. Nowadays, with the development of the Internet, the tone of "reading is useless" has made a comeback. According to the data, most of those who marry between the ages of 15 and 19 have an education level below high school, and very few have gone to college. Some people feel that reading is just about making money, and if you can make money by working, then what's the point of reading? In the eyes of those short-sighted parents: reading to change fate is just a sentence of chicken soup. The most terrible thing is that the parents' concept is like this, and the future of the children can be imagined, and they will repeat the numb life of the previous generation under the influence of such a concept. Fortunately, there will always be some people who, when these children fall into the abyss, will fight their lives to defend their right to education, just to change their fate like a pool of stagnant water. Teacher Zhang Guimei, who founded China's first girls' school: She saw many girls who hurriedly got married, had children, and worked on the farm when they were teenagers.
They may be smart, but they don't have the opportunity to go to school.
I don't have the opportunity to really get out of the mountains and take control of my life in my life. She said: "Education is the light of hope, and I am not willing to watch girls marry early and repeat such a barren and choiceless life." ”What do children from poor families rely on to change their fate? By reading. Education is undoubtedly the most effective way to prevent early marriage and early childbearing among adolescent girls. Therefore, don't question the original intention of those "blind care" people, they are just "Zhang Guimei" distributed in various places. Their worries imply the future of girls, and they only hope that every girl will not marry early and become pregnant, and that they can break the shackles on their lives through knowledge. 