In interpersonal communication, we often meet some men who like to have an affair. They are good at using sweet words and subtle actions to attract women's attention and make women feel good about them. However, such ambiguous relationships often leave people feeling troubled and uneasy. So, how to deal with such a man?Below, I'll give you two practical tips.
The first trick: clarify the attitude and set boundaries
First of all, you need to be clear about your attitude. If you don't have feelings for this man, then you should tell him exactly how you feel and let him know that you don't like his flirtatious behavior. You can say, "I think our relationship is a little vague, and I wish we could have been a little more explicit." Such words express your position without hurting his pride.
At the same time, you need to set some boundaries. For example, you can tell him that you don't like that he always shows affection to you in public, or that you don't like that he often sends you some ambiguous messages. By setting these boundaries, you can let him know that you are uncomfortable with his ambiguous behavior, prompting him to change his behavior.
Tip 2: Keep your distance and avoid excessive contact
Second, you need to keep a certain distance and avoid excessive contact. If he is always looking for opportunities to be alone with you, then you can choose to decline his invitation or bring other friends with him when he asks. In this way, you can let him know that you don't want to be alone with him, thus reducing his flirtatious behavior towards you.
At the same time, you also need to pay attention to his behavior on social **. If he often leaves messages or private messages you under your **, then you can choose not to respond to his messages, or block him directly. In this way, you can let him know that you are uncomfortable with his ambiguous behavior and thus prompt him to change his behavior.
In general, to deal with men who like to engage in flirtatious affairs, you need to be clear about your attitude, set boundaries, keep your distance, and avoid excessive contact. Only in this way can you effectively stop his ambiguous behavior and protect your feelings from being hurt.