withSocialdevelopment,RuralFour anomalies related to the problem of singleness have emerged in the region. First of all,RuralThe mother-in-law's urban dream is gradually emerging. With the progress of the times, the requirements of the mother-in-law for marriage are also constantly changing, from the past watches, sewing machines,Bicycles, to motorcycles, washing machines, televisions, and now houses, cars, and deposits.
This has also led to the ** of house prices and has made itRuralThe married man needs to meet certain conditions, such as a house, a car, and a deposit. InRuralEven if the man is very capable of working, but he does not have a family background, it is very difficult to get married, and he often needs to borrow money from relatives and friends. RuralThe mother-in-law will also see her son-in-law buying a house in the city, which has also become the capital to compare with each other.
Secondly,RuralPeople's heart of comparison is getting heavier and heavier. With the improvement of the standard of living,RuralPeople are also starting to compare. Whoever makes a lot of money, has a good job, buys a new refrigerator, and a new car has become the object of comparison between neighbors. Especially whether the daughter is married well or not has become the focus of comparison. This also makes it difficult for boys from modest families to find suitable women, because women can choose more wealthy partners. While it is understandable for parents to want their daughters to have a good life, it is not necessarily feasible to pursue material things too blindly and exchange them for a happy life.
Third,RuralDivorce is becoming more and more common. In the past, divorce was inRuralIt's a rarity and a joke in the neighborhood. But now the divorce rate is rising year by year, not only in the developed areas of large cities, but also in the developed areasRuralAppear. The contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and between husband and wife are getting deeper and deeper, and it is difficult to reconcile. RuralWomen seek freedom and independence, but in real life, they often have to face traditionSocialThe constraints and pressures of the structure, especially the intervention and control of the mother-in-law. This makesMarriageIt becomes unstable, and the conflict between the husband and wife is difficult to resolve, and finally divorce is chosen.
Finally,RuralThe imbalance between men and women is also a major cause of singleness. Due to the long-standing patriarchal mentality,RuralThere is a widespread phenomenon of boys ranking in the region. Because sons can inherit the family business and inherit the family bloodline, there are more expectations for boys and lower expectations for girls. This led to:RuralIt is difficult for women to get married, and many girls have grown up to stay in the city in search of a better life. This also led to:RuralThe problem of male singleness in the region is becoming more and more prominent, and many boys are unable to find suitable onesMarriageObject.
RuralThe single problem is closely related to multiple factors, such as:SocialA change in perceptionEconomyincreased stress and an imbalance in the ratio of men and women. Solving this problem requires allSocialefforts, including onSocialConcept of guidancećRuralEconomydevelopment as wellMarriageLawsof perfection. Only in this way can we letRuralThe problem of singleness has been effectively solved.