Scarlett has found one thing in the recent case of extramarital affairs in contact with the place where many third parties are happy now, no matter what type of morality.
They are not necessarily short of money, some are relatively rich, and they are not interested in cheating men's money.
It's just that if you feel happy with a cheating man, you can be a third party.
What should wives do when they encounter such a third party?
Before Scarlett helped an original partner solve an extramarital affair,
The mistress she met was the mistress who was very difficult to separate, because the mistress was good enough.
The cheating man and the original partner were colleagues at the beginning, which can be regarded as a long-term relationship.
After getting married, the relationship was also good, but it was the appearance of the mistress, which led to a rift in the relationship between the husband and wife.
Why would a man cheat on a mistress?It's because the junior is very good and very active.
After the original partner gave birth to a second child, he needed to take care of two children, so he changed to a more relaxed job, and the cheating man was not in the same company, the junior was young and beautiful, and he was still a relative of the boss's family, and he was not considered a relation, because he came back from studying abroad, and he had education and ability.
The family conditions are good, there is no princess disease, the personality is provocative, and he is very active in cheating men.
This cheating man couldn't resist the mistress's **, so he chose to cheat.
When the original partner knew about this extramarital affair, he didn't know about the situation of the junior at first.
She thought that the women who would be juniors must be women with bad conditions and want to get benefits from cheating men.
So this original partner controlled the cheating man's economy at the beginning, and felt that the mistress would leave if he couldn't get the money.
As a result, this mistress posted the cheating man upside down, the cheating man had no money to spend, and the mistress bought everything for the cheating man.
Not only did the cheating man and the mistress have no relationship breakdown, but the cheating man also felt that the mistress was very good to him and had true feelings for him.
Only then did the original partner understand the situation of the mistress, and found that the mistress was very good in all aspects, but the original partner didn't understand it, so why did the mistress want to be with the cheating man, and what did the mistress want?
Is it really in love with a cheating man, her husband is indeed good-looking, and he is also funny and humorous.
But just for the sake of these, can a girl with good conditions be willing to be a third party?
This is the question that this original partner asked Scarlett when he came to Scarlett.
Why is the junior with good conditions preferring to stick upside down to continue the affair with the cheating man.
There are only two reasons, either this mistress is a love brain, and the mistress is in love with a cheating man, regardless of the conditions of the cheating man, he really doesn't want to cheat on the man's money.
But this kind of mistress is generally not satisfied with extramarital relationships, that is, she will seek to be superior.
And it is easy for a cheating man to divorce for this kind of mistress, after all, the interests of the mistress are higher.
The mistress who met this original partner did not mention the matter of divorce for men.
The cheating man doesn't have the slightest intention of divorcing his original partner, so Scarlett thinks that the junior shouldn't be like this.
So what else can the junior do?
may be unexpected by many wives, and some mistresses simply take a fancy to the cheating man.
She just wants to fall in love with the type she likes.
The appearance and personality of the cheating man are the ideal type of the mistress, and the mistress has a good impression of the cheating man.
She doesn't have any morals of her own, so she doesn't think that this man is married, and she has to keep her distance.
Maybe it will be very exciting, so that a man can cheat on her and prove her charm.
Therefore, the junior took the initiative to cheat on the man and developed an extramarital affair.
Xiao San really doesn't want money, but Xiao San doesn't really want feelings, she just wants to be happy for a while.
How to deal with this kind of mistress, it is recommended that the original spouse pretend to be divorced.
and ask for most of the property, let the cheating man go and talk to the mistress.
If the original partner is really divorced, the cheating man will definitely chase after the mistress and marry the mistress.
But this kind of mistress actually doesn't want to marry a cheating man, she just wants to fall in love.
They don't even have the idea of getting married, or if they get married, they won't find a man like a cheating man.
So wives pretend to want a divorce, but they can create a contradiction between the cheating man and the mistress.
Cheating men are always blindly confident, they don't feel that the mistress is just playing with them.
They will feel that they are so attractive that they attract the mistress, and the mistress will be a third party when they love them to the death.
It turned out that Xiao San didn't love him at all, but just played with him, and the cheating man couldn't accept it, so the affair naturally ended.
Finally, Scarlett wants to say that many of the current juniors, wives can't see according to traditional ideas.
Don't think that the junior is not very conditional, just for money, for a better life, so be a third party.
The current juniors are really not necessarily, there are many of them, and the conditions are good, even better than the conditions of cheating men.
To find out the cheating man is simply to figure out that the man looks good, has good looks or is capable.
is more good at coaxing women, can make the mistress feel happy, and may choose such a man.
Xiao San may be good at everything, but his sense of morality is relatively weak, and he doesn't feel that it is wrong to be a third party.
Wives should solve extramarital affairs in a targeted manner according to the situation of the junior.
If you have any emotional confusion or marital problems, you can pay attention to Scarlett and chat about the specific situation in private messages.
I'm Sijia Yin, your exclusive emotional mentor, sharing emotional cases and helping you answer your questions.