Life is like a play, sometimes it is smooth, in the climax of life, calling friends, not lively;Sometimes fate is not good, and when you encounter a sudden blow, you will fall down, hang your head, and find no way out.
Just like Sun Shaoan in "Ordinary World", he wanted to change the poor life by his own efforts, catch up with the trend of the times, and opened a brick factory with the help of his wife.
But there are unforeseen things, and I was deceived by skilled workers, which led to the destruction of all wages, the bankruptcy of the factory, and the collection of debts by people when I went to the **, and the inner world was gloomy.
But even so, Sun Shaoan still did not give up, sank for a while, started over, made up for his mistakes, made a comeback, and became the richest man in the village.
No one's life is smooth sailing, peaks or valleys, will be experienced, real people, not only will do one thing easily when the career is going well, but also when encountering difficulties, take active measures to get out of the quagmire of life, bravely.
There is a scene in "The Wrong Sedan Chair to Marry the Right Lang": The princess wants to find the emperor's son-in-law, and there are many suitors around, one after another, and the way to test it is to put the target on the head of the suitor, and the princess holds an arrow to see if she can hit accurately.
The suitor saw the princess draw her bow, and before the arrow could be fired, she was so frightened that she peed her pants. The princess tells the suitor that the arrows are plastic and will not cause any harm.
It has to be said that when the crisis is approaching, the mentality determines a person's gains and losses and success, if it is in a dangerous period or a low period, the mentality has collapsed, and the possibility of seeing hope is very small.
The more you are in the trough, the more you can't be in a hurry, keep a calm attitude, have the opportunity to think about how to get yourself out of the predicament, and a positive attitude is easier for people to see hope in despair, maintain a strong spirit, find a way out, and turn defeat into victory.
But if you have a bad mentality, always lamenting others, and constantly denying yourself, you will naturally not take the initiative to find a way out, and there will be no possibility of reversing the outcome.
Convinced that people can't make money outside of their own cognition, reaching a certain height will naturally make income a bottleneck, if you don't improve yourself in time, in the trough period, it is difficult to rely on your own strength to find a breakthrough across the trough period.
Excellent people never feel sorry for themselves when they are at a low point, but can clearly perceive that this is their future better self-calling, and they need to learn to improve their abilities.
The lowest cost way to improve yourself is to read, don't underestimate the power of knowledge, it can become a fulcrum, through leverage, constantly inject energy into a person's thinking.
Entrepreneur Zhang Yiming is like this, he likes to read, no matter what stage of life he is in, he will take books with him and step on the shoulders of his predecessors to develop his own success.
Reading is also a way for ordinary people to achieve self-improvement, not to be satisfied with the status quo, to try to read, to find solace in the soul from books, to find the answer to everything they want from life.
In the low period of life, if you choose to give up, then it means that you have lost an opportunity for self-growth, the reason why Edison may succeed in inventing the electric light is not a success, but also did a lot of experiments, before he saw the light.
In life, there is no shortage of people with achievements, those experts who can shine in a certain industry or field, but also start from the novice stage, overcome difficulties, walk through the trough step by step, and learn from the experience of others out of the trough, can become the guiding light of life.
Proximity to those who are accomplished may bring a real turn in life.
is like Wang Baichuan in "Ode to Joy", who started his own business and achieved a small success, but inadvertently, he was cheated of a sum of money by others, which led to the failure of his business and was forced to give up his old path and find a job.
After his girlfriend Fan Shengmei knew the truth, she was sad and had a big fight with Wang Baichuan, at this time, Wang Baichuan was in a real trough period because of all kinds of difficulties, but at this time, Chen Jiakang, who had quite a lot of assets and a successful business, appeared, giving Wang Baichuan a chance and making a beautiful turnaround.
In the low tide, if you can't find a good way to rely on yourself, don't always shrink into your own small world, self-consumption, try to go out, and draw inspiration from richer people and things to tide over the difficulties.