It has been said that if we don't take the initiative, there will never be a story.
Like a person, taking the initiative can make the relationship between each other go further, and the person with a good heart will take the initiative to tell the other person to know;When getting along, take the initiative to give your own good;Take the initiative to accept and accept the other party's confession ......In this way, it is possible to have a wonderful story between two people.
Many people think that in love, initiative is a man's patent, but in fact, in the heart of a man, he is also eager to get the woman's initiative to pay and get feedback from the other half, so as to judge whether there is a possibility of development between the two.
If the woman is unwilling to take the initiative and seems to be with you as a couple, it is not true love, and it is necessary to seriously consider whether the relationship between the two people should continue.
If you want to warm up the relationship, heart-to-heart communication is essential, take out each other's secrets, tell the other half to know, it is from the bottom of your heart that you trust a person to perform, and you are willing to fulfill your own behavior.
But if the woman is not willing to talk to you about her own affairs in depth, you know the other person's name, and you don't know anything else, it is obvious that the other person's heart has not let down its guard against you, and even if you are together, it is just a simple friend, not love.
There was once a reader who talked to me about such a thing, about a girl, and it had reached the point of talking about marriage, but it was strange until the reader asked the girl that the parents should be allowed to meet before marriage, and the girl refused, and realized that the strange ** was that he didn't know anything about the girl.
The reader was very curious, thinking that the two had reached the point of talking about marriage, and there should be nothing to say, and asked the girl why, the girl was still silent, and after thinking about it, the reader gave up on the girl's marriage. In the reader's opinion, their reluctance to talk to strangers is understandable, but they are no longer strangers, and the other party still has reservations, which is really worth discussing.
Women are reluctant to take the initiative to talk about their own affairs, or the past is unbearable to look back on, and they are reluctant to mention it;Or they don't trust their partner.
Don't trust a person, talk about true love, meet a woman who doesn't trust you, men don't give a passion and dedication, and the most important thing is that women start to trust themselves.
Like a person, the "hormones" naturally explode, is the desire to have intimate contact with the beloved, through the physiological response of active gratification, thus further promoting the relationship.
This phenomenon is not only experienced by men, but also by women if they really fall in love with someone from their hearts. Just like Guan Juer in "Ode to Joy", he likes Xie Tong, confirms that he is ready to accept the other party, takes the initiative to confess after applying, and then pecks Xie Tong lightly with his mouth on the face, which is self-evident in his heart.
No woman will resist intimacy with the person she loves, unless there is a gap where the heart is no longer so loving.
Just like the scene described by Junichi Watanabe, although the heroine and the male protagonist are husband and wife, they have their own extramarital affairs, so when the heroine makes quilts at night, she no longer puts the quilts of the two tightly together as usual, but deliberately leaves a gap, that is, to keep a distance from her partner.
Naturally, the number of intimate contacts between the two decreased sharply, and mutual exclusion, psychological estrangement, and direct behavior were obvious.
If a woman is unwilling to accept your closeness, or even take the initiative to approach you, it is not necessary to say that your status in the other person's mind is not enough to achieve the kind of person who can become a very intimate relationship, and you must continue to work hard to win the recognition of love.
Taking the initiative is not embarrassing, it is that anyone who likes someone will unconsciously have some performance, whether it is a man or a woman, they can't break the spell of taking the initiative to pay for the person they like.
If you want to know if a woman likes you, it is enough to see if the other party can take the initiative to face you, and the most basic initiative for you is some uncontrollable behavior.