A name is a symbol of a person's overall image, and the ancients used it"People live up to their name"It can be seen that the importance of the name is self-evident. Nowadays, many parents are keen to take it for their children"Nickname", especially in rural areas, is widely believed by elders to give their children nicknames to help them raise their children. In fact, naming nicknames has gradually become a fashion trend, and many celebrity parents are happy to give their children cute and unique nicknames that are both friendly and easy to remember. However, whether you call a formal name or a nickname, you need to think carefully.
Some parents will nickname their children based on their physical characteristics, perhaps just because they find it easy to remember and interesting, but this may inadvertently hurt their child's self-esteem. Therefore, it is advisable to avoid using the following three nicknames to address your child, as frequent use of these nicknames may lead to a lack of self-confidence in your child's growth and affect their future development. Unfortunately, many parents are not aware of this and still use these nicknames frequently in their daily lives.
1. Many elderly people in rural areas are uneducated, and they feel that their children are thin and small, and they will be easier to feed by nicknames, so they will give some vulgar and difficult nicknames, such as two dogs.
2. Some children grow stronger, and some parents will also give him nicknames based on this, and some are really vulgar and ugly, such as fat pigs.
3. Parents may be aware of these"Nickname"It is for the child to be better raised. In fact, the more children are called by such names, the more inferior they will become, and even unproductive, and they want to give their children a name"Nickname"You can have a more elegant nickname or something cute.
1. Some children have a quieter personality, are wooden and don't like to talk. In fact, everyone's personality is different, let alone children. Perhaps too quiet a child will seem"Silly", so parents generally give their children nicknames"Dasha"or"Two stupid"。
2. Some children are naturally more active, too naughty and lively. Parents will also give them nicknames because they are too naughty, such as:"Monkey skin"Nicknames like that.
3. Giving children a nickname in this way will not only not let them develop in a good way, but also make them less and less confident. The more you give your nickname, the more your child will develop in this direction.
1. This is also an era of looking at appearance, everyone wants their children to look good, but their children are not particularly good-looking, at this time, parents will use this as a nickname, hoping that their children can look better and better.
2. Some little girls are not good-looking, and their parents will give her a name"Emerald flowers, hibiscus flowers, plum blossoms"I hope she can grow and become more beautiful. In the minds of the rural elderly, the words with flowers are all about beauty.
3. Give your child something similar"Nickname"Not only will the child be ridiculed by her peers to make fun of her, but it will also make her more unconfident and hurt her self-esteem.
To sum up, it is recommended that parents avoid using the following three "nicknames" to address their children, as these titles may have a negative impact on the child's development. Many celebrities will also give their children cute "nicknames", such as "Little Sponge", "Little Dolphin", etc., these names are indeed cute, but parents should consider carefully when naming their children.