One is a sunny and handsome soldier, and the other is a gentle and generous girl, which is a match made in heaven in the eyes of others.
However, a sudden car accident,But the girl's IQ returned to 3 years old, and she couldn't take care of herself.
The people around him persuaded him to leave his girlfriendBut he never gave up, not only took care of her personally, but also bankrupted his family for her, and even married her home despite everyone's opposition.
Now that all these years have passed, what is happening to them now?
All of the statements in this article are reliable, but are repeated at the end of the article.
——Flying Disaster·——
On October 1, 2010, a simple wedding was held in a rural village in Henan.
The groom is a young and handsome soldier, while the bride is half paralyzed, somewhat fat, and has an IQ of only 3 years.
When the ** sounded, the handsome groom, pushing the bride who was not wearing a wedding dress in a wheelchair, slowly appeared.
At the wedding, the groom swears an oath to everyoneI will always take care of my wife and never abandon her.
After the simple ceremony, the master of ceremonies announced the ceremony, and everyone present was moved to tears.
Actually, a few months ago, the bride Pan Xiaoxia was still a normal girl with a good face and a slender figure, how did she become what she is now?
During New Year's Day in 2010, Pan Xiaoxia came to the unit where Lu Lei served, on the one hand, to visit his fiancé, and on the other hand, to send wedding invitations to the troops.
The love between the two has been blessed by everyone, and for this reason, the army also gave Lu Lei a few days off to accompany his fiancée.
Two people immersed in happiness have no idea that an accident will completely change all that.
On this day, Pan Xiaoxia came out of the supermarket after buying things, and waved at Lu Lei opposite while crossing the street.
At this moment, a truck suddenly rushed out and came straight towards Pan Xiaoxia, and she was stunned and stunned on the road when her brain suddenly shut down.
Lu Lei, who was on the other side, saw that his girlfriend was in danger, so he ran over like a rocket and wanted to push his girlfriend away, but it was still too lateThe two were hit by a truck together.
Lu Lei was knocked several meters away and fell into the grass next to him, but Pan Xiaoxia was not so lucky, her head hit the curb of the road, and she immediately bled profusely.
Seeing this, passers-by hurriedly stepped forward to helpPan Xiaoxia retained the last trace of consciousness and begged everyone to save her boyfriend, but fainted before she could finish speaking.
Subsequently, the two were taken to the hospital for emergency treatment.
Lu Lei had good physical fitness, and most of them were bruises, and he woke up soon.
But Pan Xiaoxia was not so lucky, she suffered a heavy brain injury and lost too much blood and urgently needed a blood transfusion, but the hospital's blood bank was in an emergency, Lu Lei urgently found relatives and friends who were suitable for blood transfusion, and after more than ten hours of rescue by doctors, Pan Xiaoxia was finally out of danger.
However, the doctor told Lu Lei a desperate news:Pan Xiaoxia was too seriously injured, even if his life was saved, but there is a high probability that he will be a vegetative person in the future.
Although Lu Lei's parents were very satisfied with this daughter-in-law, things were already like this, and they persuaded their son to give up Pan Xiaoxia.
But Lu Lei insisted on taking care of Pan Xiaoxia, and for this reason, he specially asked the army for 3 months of vacation.
The comrades-in-arms were also very sympathetic to their plight, and visited them several times during their hospitalization.
Pan Xiaoxia's surgery costs plus follow-up hospitalization costs are as high as more than 200,000 yuan, but Pan Xiaoxia is a single-parent family and can't afford these expenses at all.
The drunk driver who hit them was ordered to pay them the costs, but the driver simply couldn't afford to pay that much.
Lu Lei didn't say a word, emptied his family and borrowed a lot of foreign debtsBefore the expenses were settled, Pan Xiaoxia's mother was very moved and felt that he didn't have to do so much.
In the days that followed, Lu Lei stayed in front of Pan Xiaoxia's hospital bed every day, helped her turn over, and pushed her out to bask in the sun, read to her, and talk about her heart.
The doctors didn't understand, but they were very moved, and they would also help pay more attention to Pan Xiaoxia's physical condition.
Everyone doesn't understand, in Lu Lei's heart, Pan Xiaoxia is the best girl.
——Love that never leaves·——
During the Spring Festival of 2008, Lu Lei went home on vacation and met Pan Xiaoxia for the first time.
As soon as he saw her, Lu Lei felt that she was different from other girls, she was beautiful and generous, and her personality was lively, Lu Lei had a good impression of her, but he calmed down after a few minutes of being happy.
He cautiously told Pan Xiaoxia that he was a soldier, he couldn't be on call like someone else's boyfriend, and it wouldn't be easy to fall in love with him.
Moreover, his family could not provide him with a new house, and the two either lived in his hometown or rented a house after marriage.
thought that Pan Xiaoxia would refuse after knowing these situations, but she said that it didn't matter, she only cared about how he was, which made Lu Lei very happy.
In the follow-up process, the two found more common topics, in 2009, the two were officially engaged, and they originally planned to get married in 2010, but they didn't expect to encounter such a misfortune.
After more than 20 days of care by Lu Lei,Pan Xiaoxia miraculously woke up, but after waking up, she didn't know Lu Lei.
After some checking,The doctor told everyone that Pan Xiaoxia's current IQ is only about 3 years old, and the right half of his body is paralyzed.
However, Lu Lei, who heard the news, insisted on being with Pan Xiaoxia, and the people around him were persuading him, but his attitude was still very firm.
After Pan Xiaoxia woke up, she couldn't take care of herself, Lu Lei patiently taught Pan Xiaoxia to eat, dress, and bought her a lot of toys like a child.
The doctor suggested that if you want to recover your memory, you can let Pan Xiaoxia stay in a familiar environment.
Lu Lei told her the love story between them over and over again, and took her to all the places where they had dated, although Pan Xiaoxia's memory did not recover much, but she understood that this man was really good to her, and he would also make some positive feedback.
In 2010, witnessed by relatives and friends, the two finally got married.
- Good Chinese soldier, husband".
Because of the troops, Lu Lei entrusted Pan Xiaoxia to his parents to take care of.
Seeing that their son was so persistent, the old couple had no choice but to follow their son's wishes.
They closed the barber shop they had been operating to take care of Pan Xiaoxia, and in order to pay off foreign debts, Lu Lei's father relied on selling scrap to supplement the family.
After the efforts of the family, Pan Xiaoxia's health has improved a lot, and he can basically take care of himself.
After the living conditions are slightly better,They also adopted a child.
Lu Lei is not only a good husband, but also participated in 13 major military operations such as earthquake relief during his 16 years of service.
During the 2006 sea training, he resolutely jumped into the 4-meter-deep turbulent river regardless of his own safety, rescued a child who accidentally fell into the water, and left silently.
In 2009, he helped the eldest lady in family difficulties and persisted for 5 years.
After changing jobs in 2017, he was enthusiastic about public welfare: he used his salary to support the study of poor students, and actively participated in volunteer activities in the society in his spare time, sending love to those in need.
Today, their family is still living happily together, and Lu Lei sticks to his post and contributes to others and society.
Although Pan Xiaoxia has not completely returned to normal, there is no problem in his usual life. Their children are also in elementary school, smart and sensible, and occasionally take care of their mothers.
Lu Lei is a responsible man, and he is also a qualified soldier. He will never abandon his sick girlfriend, and will not shirk his responsibilities at all, and he is worthy of being called a "good soldier in China" and a "good husband in China", and I believe that their family's life will definitely get better and better.