In the process of children's learning Xi, parents or teachers encourage children to ask questions constantly, which can make their learning Xi change from a passive process of receiving knowledge to an active process of seeking knowledge.
This is good for enhancing intellectual curiosity, concentrating, improving interest in learning Xi, and cultivating observation, thinking, memory and other abilities.
So how can we cultivate good questioning Xi in children?Here are a few ways to start:
First, remove your child's concerns before asking questions.
Many children rarely ask questions in class, and even if they ask occasionally, they blush as soon as they stand up. Sometimes this happens because of apprehension, the fear that the questions asked will be too simple and make the classmates laugh, and sometimes it is because of shyness.
Parents should let such children know"You don't have to be red to ask questions, and you should be ashamed of ignorance"This is the correct understanding that must be possessed to develop the habit of asking questions Xi.
The Xi of asking questions is not something that can be cultivated in a day or two, it is a process of gradual improvement from shallow to deep, and parents should not be too impatient.
It is normal for a child to ask questions at first that may be naïve and naïve. You must know that without simple and naïve questions, they will not develop into profound and complex problems, and those problems that are really level and valuable will develop from some simple and naïve problems.
Therefore, let your child know that he should not feel embarrassed by the simple ridicule of his classmates because of the questions he asked, let alone hold back because of this.
Second, eliminate children's dependence on parents and teachers.
Parents or teachers are often the most exemplary and authoritative in the hearts of children. For children, whether it is parents or teachers, their opinions are very important.
After the child is led into the door of knowledge, in"Role model"with"Authority"Under the influence of parents, they believe in the words of parents and teachers, and the younger the children, the stronger their dependence on parents and teachers.
To educate children, we must let them understand that at home, parents are not necessarily the embodiment of truth;In school, teachers are not always the most authoritative.
These people make mistakes, their knowledge is not the most comprehensive, and even the most accomplished parents, the most prestigious college professors, sometimes fail to answer questions.
If children rely too much on parents or teachers, it will hinder the improvement of their independent thinking ability and innovation ability, and it is not conducive to developing the Xi of asking questions, and it is not conducive to children's future development.
Also, encourage your child to ask questions in a timely manner.
As a parent, you should encourage your child to ask questions in a timely manner. Only in this way will the child gain knowledge from asking questions.
In the process of learning Xi, the more problems accumulate, the more tired it is to learn Xi Xi, and developing a good habit of asking questions is the best way to solve this problem, and it also creates a good learning and Xi environment for Xi.
In the process of questioning, it is necessary not only to be able to ask questions, but also to be able to think, and asking questions without thinking, or not thinking after asking questions, will not play a good role in learning Xi.
On the contrary, if you ask questions after careful consideration, you will not only find the key to the problem from the question, but also find your own shortcomings, and at the same time, you will explore the problem more deeply.
In classroom Xi, asking questions is a sign of positive thinking. The more questions a child has, the more comprehensive the knowledge and the more thorough the comprehension of the knowledge.
And those children who rarely or even never ask questions, although they heard the teacher's explanation, and also heard other people's questions and the teacher's answers, because their own thinking did not really keep up, even if they heard the same content, the impression was not as deep as that of positive thinking children. As a result, they not only have poor ability to apply knowledge, but they are also very easy to forget.
However, in daily life, some children hide a lot of questions in their hearts but dare not ask, why is this?The reason is that they are afraid, it may be afraid of the scolding of their parents, it may be that they are afraid of the teacher's rebuke......When faced with such a child, it is the responsibility of parents to let the child solve the mystery in his heart.
Children don't like to ask questions, which can be caused by a variety of reasons such as introversion. With the encouragement of parents and the help of teachers, children can regain their inquisitive nature.
Every child has countless questions in their minds, and it is in the exploration of these questions that they gradually understand the world around them and grow up. In other words, the more knowledge, the more questions, and the greater the ability to ask questions.
But as they get older, many children ask fewer and fewer questions.
An important reason for this phenomenon is the indifference, scolding, and ridicule of parents and teachers when asking questions about their children. Some children are embarrassed to ask questions, and gradually they are afraid to ask, do not want to ask, and finally develop to not be able to ask.
Teach children to have the right way, and encourage children to dare to ask questions and dare to express opinions that are different from others. Only with this kind of confidence and courage can children's sense of innovation be established and their innovation ability can be improved.
Of course, this requires parents to create a relaxed and harmonious family atmosphere, try to exercise their children's courage frequently, and teach their children some questioning skills, so that children can ask and ask well.
In this way, children can not only learn knowledge, but also develop curiosity about knowledge, perseverance in finding problems, and self-confidence in solving problems in the process of searching for information and asking others for advice.
The great scientist Albert Einstein believedAsking a question is often more important than solving a problemBecause problem-solving may be just a teaching or experimental skill.
Asking new questions, new possibilities, and looking at old problems from a new perspective requires creative imagination and is a sign of real progress in science.
At the same time, he also said:"Imagination is more important than knowledge because knowledge is limited, and imagination encapsulates everything in the world, drives social progress, and is the source of intellectual progress. "
As the saying goes:"Asking is the teacher of learning and the mother of knowledge。"In real life, it is impossible for any of us to know everything, even the best students in Xi, not necessarily know everything.
So, it's not terrible to have questions, it's scary to have questions but don't ask.