Do you often feel angry, lost, or sad about what others say or do?
Do you often find yourself not being the kind of person your heart wants to be, and you feel frustrated and lost?
Thomas Mann said, "Don't be angry that someone else can't be who you want to be, because you can't be who you want to be." ”
Many times, we expect others to be what we want them to be, to be what we want them to be, to bring happiness or fulfillment to ourselves.
However, do you realize that you also have the reality that you can't be the person you want to be, and you can't fulfill the wishes of others?
How should we face this reality and how can we free ourselves from the influence of negative emotions?
What about being the one who can truly lead oneself, guide others, and record life?
01 Don't be angry with others
Modern society is increasingly plagued by anxiety, stress, and self-loss.
People gradually lose themselves and find it difficult to cope with the gap between their imaginary self-image and their reality.
They often indulge in self-criticism and easily fall into the misconception of self-exile.
But if we can reflect on ourselves and begin to be tolerant of others, our lives may begin to change for the better.
While being tolerant of others, we can also better understand ourselves, grow ourselves, and let ourselves harvest more of the true meaning of fireworks in the world.
Let's break free from the shackles of self-bondage, because don't be angry with others, so that your life can truly move towards freedom.
02 Don't be for yourselfDisappointment
With the continuous acceleration of the pace of modern life, people's body and mind are gradually out of balance, and many people feel lost and unable to find the true meaning of their lives.
The pursuit that was once long-awaited is finally unscrupulously placed in front of us, making us doubt our own lives.
At this moment, we tend to encourage ourselves with "don't be disappointed because of yourself".
In my opinion, this is not a simple sentence, but an attitude and awakening of life.
We need to recognize ourselves, face our shortcomings and keep trying to change ourselves.
More importantly, we need to learn to be tolerant and understand ourselves.
Everyone has their own weaknesses and shortcomings, and we need to learn to relax ourselves and let go of some unnecessary attachments and pursuits.
Only by accepting our imperfections can we truly find our own direction and find the shining light in life.
Ultimately, don't be disappointed by ourselves, let's regain faith in life and keep moving towards our goals.
03 Write at the end
When we are confused in this uncertain world, we might as well calm down and return to the depths of our hearts.
Only when we are tolerant of others and understand ourselves can we find the meaning and value of life.
The road in life is full of hardships and challenges, but only when we master this tolerant mindset can we remain calm and strong in difficult situations.
Only when we master this wisdom of self-awareness and improvement can we better write a more brilliant chapter in our lives.
In this inspiring age, let's not be angry at our own faults, and don't be disappointed by the shortcomings of others.
Believe in your own strength and spiritual strength, and accept your own shortcomings and those of others.
We will be able to find the true meaning of life, maintain the true and firm pursuit of our own life, and paint our life with wonderful colors.