When you talk to people, do you think that life and death are a heavy topic?
In fact, whether you say this topic is a philosophical question or a meaningless gossip topic, as long as you are a human being, you have to face it.
When you see through life and death, there will be no heavy place in it, especially when you listen to Professor Zeng Shiqiang's lecture and hear him explain life and death thoroughly, you will suddenly open up and know how to cherish the current life even more.
Don't believe me?Then try to read the following three sentences.
1. The greatest value of life is to be remembered after death.
When I heard this sentence, I remembered the famous poem of the Zang Ke family: "Some people are alive, but they are dead;Some people are dead, and he is still alive. ”
In fact, the end of life does not mean that everything is over, because the value of a person's life is not only what he had when he was alive, but also the impact he left after leaving.
The effect may be gratitude, nostalgia, respect, or respect for him.
When you leave this world one day, you can leave some positive impact for future generations to remember and remember, then your life has real value.
But it's not easy. Because the value of a person's life is not determined by himself, but by the society in which he lives.
Therefore, you should do more good deeds and contribute more to society while you are alive, so that your life will have value, and you will be remembered in a hundred or even a thousand years.
Second, it is most important to seek a good death, and only by seeking a good death can you not come to this world to live in vain.
When you watch TV dramas, you often see people scolding bad people and saying things like they can't die well.
Do you know what a good death is?In the words of Professor Zeng Shiqiang, a "good death" is to die with peace of mind, without guilt, and without regrets.
If you see that you have died or lived to be 100 years old, it is a good death, but it is not.
Some people have been lying in a hospital bed for decades, he is very miserable, he can't do anything and his family is affected, even if he lives to be more than 100 years old, he can't feel at ease.
On the contrary, those young people who defend their families and defend the country and die on the battlefield belong to the real good death.
What's the point of knowing this?
When you understand this layer, you will not waste your time, maintain the best state of life, both physically and mentally, and strive to do meaningful things, so that you will not have any regrets in this life.
Just like Wang Yangming said when he died: "This heart is bright, what can I say!."”
3. The process of life is more important than the result
This sentence says that the meaning of life is the process, not the result. Because the various experiences and experiences in the journey of life are the truly precious treasures of our lives.
The result is important, but where does the result come without the process?Besides, the process can be controlled by us, and the outcome is often determined by the process.
If you only look at the results and don't pay attention to the process, you will lose a lot of valuable experiences and experiences, and you may not sacrifice your own health and happiness in pursuit of results, or even break the law or hurt others.
What's the point of such an outcome, even if it turns out the way you want?
Therefore, for decades, you should devote yourself to every day of work and life, and enjoy the fun and challenges.
Only in this way, when you get old, you will not regret it, at least you can say to your children and grandchildren that you have no regrets in this life.
You see, Zeng Shiqiang's three sentences have given you a deeper understanding of life and death.
When you feel that there is no point in living, or you have to die or live for a little thing, think about these few words, and you will suddenly be relieved, and cherish life even more from now on, because you have also seen life and death through.